avatar
|
Depends on who she tells and if her father is nice or not. if she tells her mom it probably would work out better that tells someone else like a guardian. it also depends on how good of a relationship she has with her mother or guardian. and of course she has the right to tell them, it's just a matter if she decides to tell them. |
|
landoflookbehind
 |
I would talk to her,don't take it lightly.Maybe there is an abuse issue here?.She must have a reason to feel that way;So don't force to go,without knowing why. |
|
MomMom#1
|
The answer to that question is hard,If the law is in it, I think the father can see the child,but if the law is not envolved,then the mother should find out if there is a good reason why the child is not wanting to see her father ,and if there isn't a good enough reason then the child should be encouraged to see her father,even if the mother or someone,adult wise could be present.Family is so important!
Unless the father is a unfit person then she needs to be encouraged to give him a chance.Once shes older then then it's all on them. Sometimes children choose not to see them because they think it will make the other parent happy,expecially if the parents have been fighting. So first find out the reason. |
|
Smudgeward
 |
Of course but try to ensure she is not being manipulated. |
|
sclady62001p
|
I'm not really sure in your state but your dad should respect her wishes and not push the issue he will only make her hate him if he makes her go , maybe your mom and dad and your sister should sit down and talk your sister should tell your dad how she feels and if he doesn't wont his daughter to hate him he wont force her |
|
Ryliehannasmommy
 |
Yes but you must go to court to legalize it and if you currently getting child support that will stop. I believe the age to decide for themselves is 13.GOOD LUCK!! |
|
bosslady508
|
I think it depends on what state you live in, but, in most states, the age a child can make that decision (and the decision of which parent she wants to live with) is either 13 or 14. Therefore, the answer is...yes, she does have that right. Even if she doesn't, her father should respect her wishes because if he doesn't, he will only make her resent her more. Furthermore, if I were her mother, I would be wondering why it is that all of a sudden my 14 year old daughter doesn't want to see her father, and, if it had anything to do with my influence, I would get that in check and encourage her relationship with her father, otherwise, my daughter would probably resent me someday. |
|
X-FACTOR
 |
its her choice at that age. but you should talk to her and try to change her mind cause later she might regret it. |
|
hopewaypinkywinkyrabbitgirl
|
well lee lee ask her why she doesnt want to visit her dad . Have her and her dad sit down and discuss the issue |
|
blondie197673
|
YES, IF SHE TRUELY FEELS THAT WAY, BUT IS HE A BAD GUY? I WOULD BE HEARTBROKEN IF ONE OF MY CHILDREN SAID THAT ABOUT ME OR THEIR DAD, I WANT THEM TO LOVE US BOTH {WE R NOT TOGETHER} HES NOTTHE BEST BUT HE IS HER ONE AND ONLY FATHER. AND HOPE THAT IT SOMETHING SHE WONT REGRET WHEN SHE MUCH OLDER. |
|
snowgirl
 |
the best thing to do is ask why she don't want to go and if it's all for the right reasons let her stay but if not she don't have a choice cause she is only 14 it's best to ask before makin a person do something they do not want to do |
|
originalmountainrebel
 |
The first ammendment gives the right to free speech, You have that right, however, the family may demand some reasons! |
|
| |
|
Homepage 
Financial
Forum 
Business & Finance 
No Spam
Adult 
Gambling
Unfinished
Deception
Plagiarism
Not English
