paperhearts
 |
I am so sorry for you. I lost my grandpa a few months ago. Crying is okay it helps you release. You are also hurting for your grandma.. maybe you can concentrate on her and help her get through this too. Just love her and let her know she is not alone. Sounds like you are a very caring person. I will keep you in my prayers. |
|
pamela-burnett@sbcglobal.net
|
I am so sorry for your loss. There is not much you can do at this point. You have to stay strong for your grandma and your grandpa knew how you felt about him. Your grandma will need you right now. She needs someone who will be there that is strong and will listen to her when she wants to talk. Don't force her to talk, but be there when she wants to talk. Once again, I am so sorry for you and your family. Be strong. |
|
ohm'slaw
 |
Time,comfort,and love.help someone.i lost many of my family in a short time.my prayers are with you. |
|
linda h
|
TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS IF YOU HAVENT HAD THE SERVICES YET TELL YOU GRANDPA GOOD BYE THEN IN TIME THE CRYING WILL STOP REMEMBER HIM IN YOUR MEMORIES BE THANKFUL FOR THE TIME YOU HAD WITH HIM LIFE ISNT FAIR SOMETIMES AND NO ONE KNOWS THE ANSWERS BUT GOD CALLED HIM HOME MY DAD DIED WHEN I WAS 2 YRS OLD I AM NOW 47 YRS OLD I MISS HIM DEARLY BUT I KEEP HIM CLOSE TO MY HEART HOPE IT HELPS |
|
leftygirl_75
 |
All of my grandparents died within less than a year of each other. It was a very sad time for us all. You need to be there for all of your family. Just remember all the good times you had with him and know that he knows you loved him.
In time your sadness will pass but you will never forget him. With deepest sympathy |
|
stessie
 |
right now everyone is going threw the mourning part of death when I lose someone close to me and get my BIBLE and a candle go into a room light the candle and just talk to them Hon I have been there and it does not seem very easy to get threw but you will ( I lost my sis ) |
|
hayharbr
|
This may sound stupid to you but you should believe that your grandpa's spirit is still there - he will hear you when you say goodbye. It also sounds stupid to say that after time, things will slowly get back to normal, but it's true. Pretty soon you will think with happiness of the good times you had with him. I know this because the same thing happened to me - I loved both my grandfathers. Hang in, and be there for your family. |
|
watchout_a_smile_is_contagious
|
March 22nd was the anniversary of my grandpa's death. it's been 14 years since he died. i have moved on but he is still in my heart. it may sound crazy but every now and then when i'm alone i talk with him. i always feel better afterwards. my grandma still misses him but she too has moved forward. but she never forgets him. just knowing that ur grandpa is there with u in spirit should help. i'm sure he would have liked to say goodbye too but sadly this was not to be. obviously ur grandpa was the love of ur granma's life and they shared a long and wonderful life together, so of course she'll be missing him deeply. grieving has no time factor to heal, but u need to move forward as that is what ur grandpa would have wanted. believe me, u'll move on but ur grandpa will be forever in ur heart. God rest his soul. |
|
risky_1986
|
i remember the time i got the news my granddad died... i was in sch... my uncle called me n said my granddad died. u know wat my 1st question to him was? 'r u kiddin?' i kicked myself for askin tt cuz at tt moment, i cldn't believe it n was shocked... somehow, i didnt expect myself to ask tt... he was my paternal granddad... tho i didnt see him much, i burst out cryin over the phone... n the thing was, my dad was overseas for a conference... it jus killed me as to how he wld take it... but my uncle said tt they cld not get my dad on the phone yet... worse bit was, my granddad was in a hospice of sort... was sickenin... wen i went to c him, i burst out cryin agn cuz tt was not how i remembered my granddad,.... he was so shriveled... was not at all how i last saw him... i felt so sick to my stomach tt i had not gone n seen him... i guess part of me knew tt i wld cry seein my granddad like tt cuz my dad used to tell me how his health was failin... its not tt i didnt wanna see him... it was jus tt i didnt wanna cry upon seein him like tt... n then, seein him like tt, was jus heartbreaking... till now, wen eva i think abt it, i still tear up.. even now, while typin this, there r tears in my eyes... i guess the sorrow will nvr really leave us... its sort of like this shadow tt nvr goes away... alwaya lingering there... da bit where v slowly go on w/ our lives in the most important... tt entire wk, i was jus so lost... during the funeral n aftr the funeral, i was fallin apart... i had no idea wat to do... as long as v remember them as how they were, guess the pain isn't so bad aftr... but i still will not 4get how he looked the last time i saw him... i can't... its like, tt image is stuck in my mind... i'm sori to hear abt ur granddad... i dun suppose wat i've typed here wld help... but its jus to let u know tt ur not alone in this... tt's all.. :'( |
|
sclady62001p
|
I'm so sorry about your grandpa i no how you feel when you say you never got to say good bye my best friend was shot in my front door will be 13 yrs ago on April 9 at 7:30 am i never got to say good bye to her either and still to day it bothers me ,this is something that wont go away soon the crying will stop but the hurt wont ,you have to give your self time to grieve before you can help your grandma maybe the both of you can help each other through this , its hard to lose someone you love and much harder to let go just keep in mind your grandpa knew you loved him its not your fault what happened to him and its also not your fault you didn't get to say good bye , but as i said and i hope this helps you some remember your grandpa knew you loved him |
|
krazyside42
 |
time will heal all things.remember the happy times you had together,crying is a good thing better than holding in your emotions.the tears you drop now will be tears of joy when you are reunited in heaven with your g'pa someday..godbless you and and grandpa is now your guarding angel.. |
|
B.L.
|
I had my grandpa who is really like my dad, die about a year ago. We were really close and if i am honest i cried on and off for a week. I finally realized that my grandpa was one of the greatest men that I had ever known and that he had lead one hell of a life. I was sad that i was not going to be able to see him again, but i was so greatful that i had been blessed enough to have a headful of priceless memories with him that i really could not complain too much. People die and it's sad but I still have a lot to be happy about. Pluse I know that my grandfather would be very disappointed if i stoped living becouse he was gone. What I did to feel better is i just started to think about the best times that I had with him and defore I knew it I was laughing. Focus on the man that he was, not the man that is gone and if your grandpa was like mine your sorrow will turn into pride, slowly but surely. He challenged me to be the man that i am today and i could not get him out of my head if I wanted to. Good luck to you andtake care! |
|
greenheadchick
|
A very sad day for you dear, but remember him always in your prayers and have good thoughts always and God has a way of easing your pain, it may take a little time but it will come, Grandma knows that he is in a better place and looking down on the family and not wanting anyone to feel sad. God will care for him now until you see him again. |
|
scrappinmomma
 |
Give yourself time; Grieve the loss. You won't stop crying about it for a while. You can be strong to help your grandmother and family but be there for them to remember your grandfather and most of all to listen to her. Crying is not bad nor is it a sign of weakness. Praying for your family tonight. |
|
Bonnie ♥
|
The crying is normal. My grandpa died of a stroke. I didn't get to say goodbye either. I cried for my grandpa, and I cried until I was done. The crying is part of your goodbye. Time is the only thing that helps. Just hug your grandma. You don't need to have the answers. Crying just means you love your grandparents. You will miss the one who is gone, and you are sad for the one who is here. I'm even tearing up a little right now. This is normal and healthy. |
|
tosexyhot_nightowl_prettyinpink
|
WELL HONESTLY I STILL CRY AND MY GRANDADDY DIED YEARS AGO,,,THOUGH I THINK ABOUT HIM EVERYDAY,I FELT LIKE NOBODY LOVED THEIR GRANDADDY AS MUCH AS I LOVED MINE I WAS WHAT THEY CALL A GRANDADDY'S GIRL I SPENT ALOT OF TIME WITH HIM ACTUALLY HE AND MY GRANDMA RAISED ME AND MY BROTHERS BECAUSE MY MOM WORKED ALOT,,,BUT ALOT OF THE TIME I FIND MYSELF CRYING JUST THINKING ABOUT ALL THE SWEET THINGS THAT HE HAD DONE FOR ME BUT IN THEE END I FELT BETTER BECAUSE HE DIDN'T HAVE TO SUFFER ANYMORE |
|
tamc
|
I'm so sorry for your loss. My Grandaddy died 5 years ago this month. He was more like a dad, because I was the first granddaughter. You will be okay in time. It will take a while, ok? If you want to cry, cry. If you want to scream, do it. Don't hold anything back. I have a two year old daughter that my grandfather never saw, but during my pregnancy, I dreamed of baby girls almost every night. Funny thing though, almost all of the dreams took place in my grandfather's old house. So, he's there around me. Your grandfather will always be around you. I truly believe that and so should you. This is weird too, I just dreamed of him last night. They come to you. Be strong, and love your family. Take care. |
|
sian
|
thats very sad and im sorry for your and your families loss but dont stop yourself from crying its a way of mourning dont hold it in. the only way to help your granny now is to be there for her...shee wil be in a world of her own for awhile but be her tower help her anyway possible even if it only means buying her shooping (groceries) sorry again for your loss godd bless you and yours in these dark days ahead but there will be light again i promise |
|
♥ F@$H!0N ♥
|
Im crying. You made me cry. You reminded me of my grandma who died a few years ago. I didnt either get to say goodbye or anything and I was crying for almost a month. It was SO hard. I am a sensitive person so I cry for anything that dies or leaves me. When she died I took a picture of her and put it by my bed. It helped me. It made me feel as if she was watching me the whole time. I still cry every night though. If you want to email me to tell me your problems or if you want more information about what you can do heres my email: nabaj22@yahoo.com . My messenger of yahoo is the same just take away the @yahoo.com. So its nabaj22. Good Luck!! |
|
zoo_keepers4
 |
I am very sorry for your loss. My Grandad died a year ago, he was like a Dad to me as I have not seen my Dad for over 8 years. It was and still effects me deeply. I am seeing a professional to try and help me. My advice to you is to just do whatever you are doing. You need to do the right thing by you , as this is the right thing by everyone. To try and act strong for other peoples benefit will just cause damage to you in the future, which doesn't help anyone. So just try nad do what is right for you. Crying is a stress relief for your body, so it's good to cry. Just remember that whatever you do, is ok. Its the right thing for YOU to do.
Sending love and strength to you. |
|
soquetrumpet1
|
Girl when my Great Grandpa died. I thought of the great land that he was in now and how much pain and stress that was relieved from him. Girl if you're a Christian then you will see him one day in Heaven. That's what made me feel better. |
|
allipoo95
|
I know how you feel except my grandma was the one that died not my grandpa.It took a whole month for me to stop crying.I finally thought about all the stuff that make me happy and feel good.Like my parents or friends.I still cry today when other people mention my grandma.She died in her sleep.I feel so sorry for you. |
|
g
 |
Use proper language for petes sake if you want anyone to read your crap!
Sorry about your grandpa. It happens to all of us. |
|
| |
|
Homepage 
Financial
Forum 
Business & Finance 
No Spam
Adult 
Gambling
Unfinished
Deception
Plagiarism
Not English
