G. M.
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I would try to find something shock-absorbing and put it under your monitor. I think something like a mouse pad might help a little bit.
I agree if you keep grabbing your monitor whenever he does it, hopefully he will get the hint. |
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Annie
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I would keep asking him about it--"You remember how I told you that shaking your legs shakes MY cubicle, too?" If he keeps doing it, I would ask a supervisor to talk to him about it. It's not a big deal, but if it's causing so many interruptions that you can't get any work done... |
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beachbum34685
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well ignore him wat else can u do and who is this for anyway |
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cleancutspike
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Tell him to eat poop |
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JordanB
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You could act like you forgot that you ever mentioned it to him before and mention it again acting like it's the first time. Something along the lines of, "I'm sure you don't realize but when you shake your leg it shakes my monitor a lot. Would you mind trying to not do it so much. Thanks." If they indicate that you had already told them before just respond, "Oh, I didn't realize (or forgot)."
I'm understand your pain. I had a co-worker that figured out that everytime he used the pencil sharpener the image on my monitor would vibrate...He started using the pencil sharpener just to bother me...He even said so. Glad he doesn't work here anymore. Good luck.
It's true what they say about catching more flies with honey than with vinegar, but you shouldn't have to put up with it just to avoid an uncomfortable situation because you are already uncomfortable from his shaking. |
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Fabio
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throw him a bone and hope he never returns |
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kimberly b
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He probably doesn't even realize that he is doing it. How did he respond when you told him about it last time? Maybe teasing him about it will work ( I am not saying mean teasing)
when he does it you can just laugh and tell him to look at your monitor and maybe he will get the picture.
Is there any possibility that it is a medical condition? |
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Missy154
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Sounds pretty annoying!! Say the same thing jokingly everytime he does it like, "There goes that earthquake again." "Must be a 6 pointer today!" Or differentiate it as you feel as such. Hope that helps.Good luck! |
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~Kim~
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i would make jokes about it , you know the kind where your joking but not really.. like "omg is it an earthquake?!" really loud.. mabe he will get embarassed and quit.. I wouldnt ignore it though. you have to work there too, you shouldnt have to be annoyed everyday from one person |
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Star
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Sounds like it is to much to ignore, have you talked to your supervisor about it? I would let my sup know that I have already asked him to stop and he has not... Sometimes it just means more coming from other authority, If that don't work go to your bosses boss. Continue to be sweet and respectful but stand your ground. |
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Joe K
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Tell him every time he does it. Even make a joke about it. I would probably say something to the effect of, "Hey Ed, do you gotta pee? It sounds like you are doing the pee-pee dance under your desk." Or I would even say, "Hey Ed, are you jerking off again?" Either of these statements would make him think about it when he does it because he certainly does not want the office to think that he is choking his chicken or for the whole office to start asking him that jokingly. |
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Sandylynn
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I would approach him again, asking him to please stop shaking your monitor. Let him know that this is really annoying and if he can't stop it, you'll have to have a talk with your supervisor. Then, when he does his shaking thing again, immediately get up and get your supervisor. He'll probably only get a warning, but coming from someone who CAN fire him, it might make a difference. Unfortunately, it might put a strain on your working relationship, if you have one. And he just might be the kind of guy who would look for a reason to rat you out too, so think it through before doing anything. You also might see if your boss can put you in a different area, or put the other guy somewhere where he can shake to his hearts' content. Consider all these, and other ideas, before doing something. That way, you'll be sure to do it for the right reasons, and not out of anger or getting even. <*)))>< |
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bugguy
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I am in the mortgage business and have seen alot of this, especially by the higher ups who made a killing in the refi boom. As I ascended, and of course there is a lot of gossip, I was enlightened all the shakers were on coke and white drugs. Never had your problem but I am an OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder) guy. Tell him you have a medical condition, and as hard as you try to cope, he is messing with your OCD's. If he's not an addict he will likely sympethize, opening the door to you cordially reminding him every reoccurance until the habit stops. Hopefully you can adroitly get your way without coming across as confrontational and jeopardizing your job. |
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King Oscar III
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LOL!! Sorry, but the situation struck me funny. It sounds like THE OFFICE on TV. Just shake along with him, and pray for him, if you're of a religious turn of mind. Who knows, it might just help. If you're allowed music while you work, play some rock and roll tunes which make you want to shake too. LOL!!! |
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michaelyoung_airforce
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Ask him "When did the waves kick up?" or "Are we having an earthquake?" or "Are you nervous about something?"
You could also say, "Wow, I'm getting dizzy." When he asks why, tell him because your monitor is shaking like crazy. Anyway, I don't know if this will help, but he might get the picture. Good luck! |
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tim2755
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find something heavy and accidentaly drop it on his leg........that should help |
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GEM_IN_eye
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U can fake it by dropping some stuff down on ure desk &/or the floor & make a big fuss abt. it & when he asks, tell him that u dunno wat happened, but the desk was shaking 4 a long time (just like it does often). U can also try asking him, "Do U kno why the desk was shaking ?" or something similar 2 get him 2 realize that his habit is problematic 2 others. Good luck & B patient... |
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Tom B
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IMMEDIATELY begin looking for another job, something stable. |
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Am
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As frustrated as you are, remember, its a habit. He doesnt even realize he is doing it. It will take time and reminders for him to stop himself from shaking. So, if you are not comfortable with reminding him more often, you will have to think of something to do to help you live with it. Transfer out, bolt things down, I dont know.
Good luck in whatever you decide. |
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trampslaydee
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Go to the doctor's office and grab a handful of pamphlets on RLS (restless leg syndrome). Then leave one on his desk every day until he stops.
If that doesn't work, send an email to your HR people telling them you are in a "hostile work environment", they'll move him right away! |
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rockystuart
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If you cannot be move to another area of the office, then ask him again and this time, give him a reason why. If the roles were reversed, I'm sure he wouldn't put up with this kind of behavior from you. |
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Tyler Christie
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Ask for a promotion. Or ask your boss if you can move to another cubicle. |
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debop44
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Some people can't control the way their legs, or other body parts twitch. Maybe he has restless legs syndrome. There are nutrients and medications that help the problem. |
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Teddy Hoosevelt
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Tell him that his terminal illness is causing you discomfort. |
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