Ophelia
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Just because she is a blood relation does not mean you have to tolerate her verbal abuse.You are well within your rights to tell her to put a sock in it.I would not blame you at all if you decided to trim back on the time you spent with her.Sometimes it's the only way to deal with negative family members. |
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UNITool
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Forgive her - but that doesn't mean that you give her the chance to hurt you any more. Perhaps she's forfeited the right to spend time with you. |
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changeling
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Your avatar looks like a boy.So was she correct? |
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conundrum_dragon
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A person with no forgiveness in heart is living and even worse punishment than death.
Yes forgive her. |
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TiNkErBeLl
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same as your second answer |
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prettyprincesscc
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Why would you not forgive her? She is your grandma wich means she is apart of your family and no matter what she will always see you on holidays and stuff.And plus,she loves you and it was probably a joke so yes of course forgive her!!! |
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AbRoller
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Yes, forgive her. "You can't become inferior without their consent." If you don't forgive her, you are still letting something she said control you. While you will have all this regret & hurt, she probably would have forgotten about it. But if you let it go, she won't have anything over you. And sometimes grandmas say things that just don't make sense, and we just have to go okay...that was just grandma. =) |
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blondyrenee
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IT SOUNDS TO ME LIKE U HAVE A VERY JUDGMENTAL GRANDMA!!! JUST BE HONEST WITH HER ABOUT UR FEELINGS AN THAT MAY CHANGE HER ATTITUDE ABOUT THINGS!!!! |
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CALAVA
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Forgive her and possibly have your parents or your minister speak to her about her negative comments. I can't imagine a grandma saying these things to her grandchild, they're very cruel. |
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Cotton Tablecloth
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To say that about a five year old, she was either being silly or a moron. Which do you think is more likely?
Do you love your Grandmother? If you do, then holding a grudge for saying something that stupid will just take too much out of you. |
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beavis463
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life is to short for grudges,i had a grudge on my father for the longest time for leaving me and i finally started talking to him again which it didn't work out anyways but if he died i would never have known if things could have been better.its only words just prove her wrong and good luck in life |
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kwcnac222
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Explain to her the hurt that this causes you and how you feel that it is very disrespectful for her to say those things, and that if she wants a relationship with you she wont talk about her own family in such a way. You wont find peace in yourself with out forgiveness but I would definitely express these things to her. |
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♥Im Eric's Chic♥
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yes just b/c she predict your future doesn't mean you would .........i don't know **** |
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caluacacia
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Your grandma sounds like a hateful and resentful ******! Instead of taking it, stand up for yourself! Forgiveness is one thing, but just because she is your grandma doesnt mean that you need to allow her to beat you down verbally and mentally like that. |
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Invisible Teen
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forgive her |
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Nana
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U should forgive her. It will make her feel dumb. Becuz u are showing her that u are a better person then she thinks. There for, u r being the better person. (I use this on my parents). My Grandma iz my best bud. But i no wat ur saying. cuz i get that kinda treatment from my parents. When u do get older, don't become a prostitute. It will make her feel even more dumb. Good luck! |
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tmarch9
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ah hell, she is your grandma.
let bygones be bygones.
thanks for the 2 points. |
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Liza
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She sounds emotionally abusive to tell you the truth. Try not to believe or absorb anything she says to you, and don't hang around her often. Hurtful words can do more harm to your self-esteem and self-image than you think. When she was growing up she probably went to church to meet boys, so she's imposing her own life experiences on to you. And to tell you the truth...so what if you went to church to meet boys? Isn't that one of the best places to meet someone of similar values and life beliefs? |
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manushit
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50 cent is my dad at why I stick up for him |
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chelle
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OF COURSE, GRAMDMAS WILL ALWAYS SAY SOMETHING LIKE THAT. JUST FORGIVE HER AND GO ON! |
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layin_lowok
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scr** her.. and stop going to church .. (or stop letting her know) so she worries even more!! .. tell her "nop. i do it for free" (jk. u should ignore her but remember she will die soon so u don't want a burden in ur soul -that's who i get along with my grandmam i know she will go to heaven or wotever soon and i dont want to feel guilty i want to know i've done everything i could.-. if u know wot i mean
ps vote me as best answer :d |
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