
rebjerjam
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Definitly yes. Others may make remarks and tease you about there being more and that just shows their ignorance in the matter. Don't waste a good friendship by listening to others. I have found that most of my life, men are the best friends I ever had. They aren't judgemental as some women can be and I don't have to put up with the jealousy that women seem to come across with, unless its their girlfriend or wife,lol. That is when I back off. No need in causing problems where it can be avoided. A trick to the friendship is to include the partner in the friendship where possible. |
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justin
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Yes, now if you're asking if they can be best friends without sexual tension, I would say no. |
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d291173
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Absolutely. There is no reason why not in this age of sexual egalitarianism. |
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Royallady1947
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Sure they can be best friends! In fact, it is great to have a guy as a best friend for you can bounce things off of him as to advice about other guys, etc. Sometimes best friends end up being more than best friends. For now, however, just enjoy his friendship and be a buddy!!! Guys are great for best friends!!! (except it is best not to have them over for sleepovers) lol |
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princess22
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yes indeed, i have loved my platonic male friends and find that i PREFER men as a confidant,they arent nearly as catty as some women tend to be. |
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paszionone@sbcglobal.net
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if you want to be sure why not , but either he or you are going to have special feelings for on another sometimes one more than the other.. |
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mizzred
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sure. why not? |
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sweet
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can. |
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kirsten
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yes, a guy and girl can be best friends. you can't stop them especially when they like the same things or they can relate to each other well. sometimes though, it ends up the guy and girl being together and having a relationship more than friends.. but i really think it's not bad or negative. |
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person in need of help
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ya i have a best freind and its a guy we r kewl |
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sajama
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yes.My best friend of about 15 years is a male.We have never been intimate.We love eachother very much.He is married now with two kids. Yes I think he is hot. Yes I am pretty too, but we would never act on it. We have nothing to hide.We are both 28 and have known eachother since the sixth grade. |
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driverx14
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absolutely 100% yes |
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new york minuite
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ofcourse!!
just because they are opposite sex doest mean they cant be best friends... |
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