debad101
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I have studied sex offenders at university, the majority are only one time offenders. Plus, it depends on what type of sex offender he is or offence he has commited, he could have been a sixteen year old boy having underage sex with his girlfriend, right through to a paedophile who has a long history of offending behaviour towards children. You are not going to find out as none of us has access to the sex offenders register. To be honest, most sex offenders are really likable, freindly and most of all helpful and kind, which can allow them to be put in possitions of trust around children (as with yourself), I would keep him away at all costs if I were you!!! |
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flux
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Of course they can, but it's not likely. |
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oohhbother
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No, the scientific evidence points toward this not being something that can be changed.
Contact your local police, and let them know the man has been visiting you. They will be able to tell you what his offense was. If he is a registered sex offender, especially toward children, you should not keep company with him |
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graveyardspunka
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he wants to con you to get to your kids,and you as a dummy is still talking with him,If for some reason you think he has change your dead wrong.Once a sex offender always a sex offender. Why don't you check out your police dept web site it will tell you what level he is at.1,2,3 or 4.I don't know what state you live in,but we're I live Massachusetts. A sex offender has to register as a sex offender,and part of his living arrangements is to stay away from children.. For the sake of your children stay away from him.He just trying to work his ways to your children when he gets you were he wants you then that's when he will strike.Don't give him that chance.Good Luck your going to need it. |
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danielle
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don't trust him! he probally could change but not likely to... |
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lilmissinsanity
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NO NO NO NO NO NO NO
keep in mind that most are charming before and after getting caught. they can just go for pity after the fact i suppose. and even if your guy is sincere and he has changed, is it worth risking your children to find out? seriously, that is the gamble you would be taking. do a google search on repeat sex offenders in the news and see what you find. i find it frightening that you're even asking. could you live with yourself if something did happen after opening your home to this man? knowing good and well he has done something to be an offender? it happens every day, and sometimes with fatal results. being lonely is one thing, but ending loneliness with someone like him, could mean an end to motherhood as you know it.
god bless and good luck |
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bignic
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it depends on themselves. |
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Trailertrash!
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The odds are against it. However, he may be able to control himself. If he is pleasant and cordial, just make sure you have complete control of any situation in which you find youself in his presence. It wouldn't hurt to have other adults around or nearby.
Blingme: What do you about addiction and recovery? |
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sheelah_n
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No....and i wouldnt even give them the chance to try. ESPECIALLY if it were someone who had molested a child, or someone who was also a VIOLENT sex offender. |
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steve1master
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are you aware of the sex offender register. It is available on the net & run by Aust Gov (so it probably doesn't work)
I advise you to visit as tere are also links that may be of use to you. |
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flossintru
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no absolutely not!!!!!!!!!!! it's a sickness please do not let this man near your children. 98 percent of them are repeat offenders |
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New life!
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I am sure they can be sorry and repent. But I don't think they are ever totally ok. I wouldn't pursue it, sorry. Especially if you have children. It is your promise to God as a parent to keep them safe. I don't mean to be one-sided on this topic. But maybe you may want to tell yourself, he made the choices he did in his life. This is apart of his consequences! He has to deal with it! You do what you think!!!!!!!!!!! |
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bye
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SEXOFFENDERS are addicts---if you can safely name at least 5 fully recovered addicts--then I say go for it. Otherwise beware--people can change--but why risk your children's lives trying to figure that one out. DON'T be a fool.
He's using reverse pyschology on you. If he has changed, why is not trying to find a SINGLE FEMALE to date like a normal man. You have to question yourself why has he chosen you to come clean to and recover with, because you have kids? It doesn't make sense to me. Someone who is in recovery--would probably NOT DATE a woman with children. It's like saying a recovering HEROINE ADDICT being best friend with a HEROINE DEALER.
Close the door on his friendship. If you need an excuse... Tell him that you prayed over this, and that you will continue to pray on this matter until it is GOD'S WILL, but for the time being, you need to be alone in your meditation.
Don't let your kids out of your sight, it's apparent he's targetted you. I would also call the police, I'm sure if he is a prior sexoffender he is restricted from being around children.
I work with a Law Firm--I see cases like this all the time, sexoffenders are not allowed to be around children.
Good Luck and prosper...;*!*;... |
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progunr
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I don't know of any story of a sex offender changing. There are hundreds of examples that they don't! Especially if it is a child sex offender. I would stay away from him and make sure your kids stay away too. They can be very charming and manipulative!!! |
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~Jen~
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Yes I believe they can with lots of therapy and dedication to change.It is not likely they will. Please keep this man away from your children. |
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ahardygrl
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i believe they can change but only they truely know if they have changed or not and how do you decide to TRUST him or not. I would never leave him alone with my children, but just by accoiating with him and your children seeing you do this they are getting his trust. i would make sure my children know what is right and wrong and not ever give him a chance to do anything. cause you dont want your children to go through that. reverse psych... i tell her about my past and shell think ive reformed. as far as kids go i wouldnt trust anyone but who can live in there shells there whole life i am torn to. |
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Rygo
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Leopards and spots spring to mind!!! |
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Boi Interrupted
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while yes, some offenders have been rehabilitated, the risk of him not being reformed is wayyyy too high. Do not let this man come close to your children!!!!! |
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Maveric
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i dont know if they can change or not, but if i was u i'd keep my kids well away from him! Its not worth the risk, esp when children r involved! |
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