HunnyMommy
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looks is always a good thing but personlity stands out more because you don't want to be with someone who has a bad attitude or who does things you don't like or who doesn't share anything good or worthwhile in common with you. |
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petesyodaddy
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I try to judge everyone by personality but I have noticed that good looking people are usually more confident and that's my favorite quality. |
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sweetness
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I always judge everybody by personality, Just because some one looks good doesnt mean they are good. |
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tx proud
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I am a female also, so my answer is female perspective. Looks stand out first to me b/c you can often times (not always) get a feel of how that person is by their looks. If they have a permanent wrinkle between their eyebrows, then they have had the "grouchy brow" too much and that probably means that they don't smile much....which means?? They are possible bitchy. Or if they are dressed in grunge clothes, with dyed black hair and heavy black eyeliner on, black nail polish....what would you conclude out of that appearance?? Exactly!!! But people have to remember too, that you "can't always judge a book by it's cover"......go with your gut!!! |
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mr green
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performance is everything!!! Appearance is cheap... |
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brandon
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Of course you are attracted to looks and personality. But PERSONALITY does play the biggest part. I love a girl who is honest and not afraid to let go and be herself in front of me. I want her to be comfortable slouching at home in her pj's and glasses instead of contacts and make-up. Ad she has to have a great sense of humor. |
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candymac1107
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guys look for somebody who is out going and pretty. Don't be afraid to be smart in front of a guy. If you are smart and funny and you like a guy and he pays no attention to you then he is not good enough for you in the first place. Just be yourself. |
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ZOOGLY
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I know alot of pretty girls I can't stand. Looks get things started, but personality keeps me interested. I like intelligent and good hearted girls. Vanity can get annoying. |
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densmaltz
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looks |
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columbus-man
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both but it helps if there is some phisical atraction first
then you get to know her iner beauty
my self i look for funny, honest, confidence, loving, maners, caring, etc.... toomany things to mention she usualy doesnt have to have all these but some helps. |
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jmetz8402
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i personally have to be attracted but only at a small level. And usually a personlity can make a huge diffrence in the looks department. Not all guys are like that, but there are many. |
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total_rage
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Intelligence. I look for a woman who can hold her own in a good conversation, who has read enough to be able to converse, not just yak away; a woman who can think on her own, without following what's on TV or the latest trend put forward by Cosmopolitan; a woman who is pleased to be herself. |
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Robert
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i really like personality in a women, but women should have at least some good looks. i really look for a good sense of humor and should not be very egotistical. |
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scientist
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As a hot blooded male I would say you judge a girl by both. The looks are like bait, they attract someone. The personality is like the trap, it holds that person. If you can catch someones eye then hold on to it you have perfection. The personality should be interesting, clever and a little mysterious. |
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CaTcH
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It would only be fair if girls would refrain answering this question
Afterall its a guys point of view which is asked :)
Looks matter a lot (all men who deny it are liars)
But personality has its own place in a relationship (it matters a lot, sooner or later)
Talking of personality,
The way a girl carries herself
Responds to a situation
Dresses/Eats/Sits/Talks etc etc |
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coronelmustang
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personality but looks don't hurt either. for personality you have to be kind and respectful oh and outgoing. you would like spontaneous things. |
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