JerichoHill
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Forgiveness is key to getting over a situation...for you, not for the other person. But forgiveness is not forgetting. And forgiving is not the same as saying "it's all right." It'll never be allright. You can forgive, but things have changed. |
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UppityBroad68
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Yes, it is okay to forgive and you'll be better off if you can truly let go of the anger and hurt. If this is someone you still have contact with, though, you will need to watch their behavior with children...your forgiveness should not be permission to harm others.
Good luck to you. |
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Grim
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yes if youb feel that they have changed for the better |
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Yes, but it will be hard to get over |
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livinglifewithgod
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well i was molested as a child ill never forget it i dint want to forgive at the time but when i got saved god opened my eyes and i realized it was the devil that tempted him becasue this wasnt of god god is good so yes i did forgive |
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turner32542
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i believe that will be a question you can only answer. my female friend had the same issue with a uncle. and she could never let it go till he died last year. but she still hurts from it in all of her relationships |
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theendofsomeday
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only if they're damn well sterilized... with something rusty. |
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Umar Khan
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yes i think |
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princeofpeace29123@yahoo.com
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I feel that depends on the individual who is doing the forgiving that is a personal preference.Just keep in mind forgiving is so much easier than forgetting and also dont say it is forgiving if you truly arent able to and if you are able to if you and this person ever have a disagreement dont throw the molestation back at them cause if that happens than you really havent forgave them.There is a great book on this subject called "Waking The tiger |
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Battlerattle06
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Right after they are buried 6 feet under. |
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youranswerpal
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yes otherwiseyou willcarry that baggage for the rest of your life and while their life goes on....to make it easier go for counseling and confront them |
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shapushnnon
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Through God's help, you can easily forgive that person in due time. |
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every_winter
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No if any thing it should be ok to kill em. if some one is truely molested you it will scar you for lif...trust me |
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angela414_7
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Well like most people say, you need to forgive for you and not for the other person. Why? Cause at night they are sleeping sound in their own satification that they have tormented your life and ruin you for good. YOU need to forgive that person so YOU CAN LIVE A LONG HEALTHY AND STRESS-FREE LIFE. Little advice, when you see that person again, don't act like if everything is all sweet but lift your head up and ask GOD for strength to accept the person for who they are and for compassion, gappy love(brotherly love), forgiveness for that person. Hey! YOU will get through everything and be on top of it. Wait and you will see, but always keep GOD in mind and thank him everyday for His love and forgiveness, cause he gave it freely so we can gave it too when need. A man falls seventy times seven and get back up again. |
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raima
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its totally up to you,....and what ur feelings were while he was moesting you.........
if u really find it nt a big prob ....u needn't.
but else........don't leav him............ |
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emmbabe_43
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I myself cannot forgive because it was a family member and my parents wasn't there for me they were there for the other person. So it has made me very bitter and also I cannot have a good relationship out of it. |
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