cadillacpimpin9689
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Yes that is against god and everything in the world. I would recommend not doing that unless you want to be looked down upon in society. |
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dva010
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No i do not think that is a bad thing. I myself am going out with a black girl and people say the same thing to me. Just go with what you feel. Thats all that really matters when it comes down too it. |
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dixierock
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No, you are not gross!! |
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hide@seek
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No. I think your friendas are very ignorant... |
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Sydnayy
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No way!You go girl! |
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writerama
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Follow your heart and mind; be true to yourself. But be aware that you will never be looked at the same way if you cross racial lines with dating. We can say what we will but this is a deeply race-conscious (and probably racist) society. You will find out who your real friends are, but give her a chance to meet the guy and learn that he is good; the root of bigotry in this country is mostly a lack of understanding and the ability to accept others. |
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Mom
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Not because he's black.If a person can't find a better way to judge a person then the color of their skin ,they should keep their mouth shut. |
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Scarlet
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I disagree with cadilla. MY best friend did that. There's nothing wrong with it...he, or anyone for that matter, is not different than any of us just because of the color. |
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2_mix'd_kids
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let me tell you first of all that if she doesnt respect ur decision then she is not a real friend. im a white girl and i have 2 daughters and their dad is black. and i wouldn't change it for the world! i love my family! you deserve to have friends that will love you and respect you for who you are both inside and out. skin color doesn't matter - what matters is how that person treats you - which should be with respect and honesty and love. and if it doesnt work out with you and this black guy then just remember that not all black guys are the same. just like all white boys arent the same. some are nice while others can be cruel. you should stand up for yourself and what you believe in. and dont live your life to please your friends or anyone else - live your life to please you! |
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conundrum_dragon
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There's no problem with it from me. |
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GreasySideburns
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it's not gross to go out with him. do what you want to do. |
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jeffrey' s lil angel
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o that is not gross my i have a future newphew who is mixed and i love him to death so there is nothing wrong with it ppls need to stop beening like that and it is not aginst God he made everyone in the world just as long as u r happy that is all that should matter to your friend if not then she is not a real friend |
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Phil
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I don't think it's gross. |
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kulechik
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No you are not gross...Hey if you like a black guy then that's fine your friends or just being ignorant and racist...Don't worry what anyone thinks.... |
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deedybug50
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LOVE SEES NO COLOR AND FOR THAT SO CALL FRIEND, I WOULD DITCH HER.DON'T LET HER FOOL YOU SHE PROBABLY LIKE HIM.ALL THAT HOT AIR SHE TALKING IS TRASH.THAT'S JUST A FRONT SHE MAY BE PUTTING ON.LET THAT SO CALL FRIEND GO.IT WHAT YOU FEEL FOR HIM.I'M A BLACK GIRL MARRIED A WHITE GUY FOR 22 YRS AND STILL MARRIED. SO LEAVE THOSE SO CALL FRIENDS ALONG. |
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Dee
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As long as you are happy, who cares what other people think?
You are not hurting anyone... jeez! Maybe your friend reacted like that because she is jealous of you. |
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njflmami3
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no i don't think your disgusting. not to play ur friend but some pple are just ignorant and closed minded. i know how u feel i'm black and my boyfriend of almost 7 years is white, all of my fam still hasn't excepted him and we have children together. the fact of the matter is it doesn't matter what everyone else thinks as long as he treats you right and doesn't abuse you in any way the who cares. you shouldn't be with any man that would abuse you no matter what color he is. do you sweetie and good luck on ur relationship.
caddilac is one of the ignorant pple i was talking about!!!!!!! |
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sriks
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It's ur life.you like him,then be with him.
as for ur friend,she is being a racist!! |
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Monkeyboots92
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Shes a racist. WHo cares if hes black, white, purple, or green? Why should it matter? |
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coolbrian777
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tell her she is being racist. what ever you want to do you can do. |
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luvouhellen
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I'm married to a black guy,so no I don't think you are gross! If you love him,it shouldn't matter what your friends think,anyway if they were your "TRUE FRIENDS",it wouldn't matter to them,the only thing that should matter is if you were happy or not. |
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M00ND0CT0R
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If you love him, don't worry about what others think. And it does not go against God. I have never read in the Bible where God is a racist. After all, He created black people too. |
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liljaebugz
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no you are not gross they r just being racist and might be jealous even beacause they dont have a boyfriend so just act your self and do what your heart says dont let anyone get in the way of it.!!!! |
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interested
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I say to each his own |
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sexydrkangle
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well i think that you should be with whomever you want if he makes you happy then thats all that matters. follow your heart and if you love him than it should not matter what other people think more power to you :) |
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tigerfire0013
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Gross? No. |
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gspress_3_years
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no way!! as long as your happy and the he's a good guy, don't even tolerate putting up with prejudiced people...you can try and get your friend to see that it's not whether yur black or white or anything like that; look at martin luther king junior! I'm mexican, i look white, and i have a lot of chinese, japanese, and mexican friends. (there's only one black kid in my grade)
o yea, and just because your friend might be prejudiced doesn't mean she's not a good person. chances are she was just brought up to think in a prejudiced way. |
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alien_chic1016
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Racism is still dividing the population!Its an outrage!Don't listen to the negative influences in your life,only concentrate on what you feel in your own heart.I don't believe its wrong,but really,your opinion is what matters. |
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proud meme
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Honey you are not gross but it will be a difficult road for you and for any children that you might have if this relationship works (even though bi-racial girls tend to be very pretty) If you are a very young person you may limit some of your future potential dates because agree or not young people do yield to peer pressure and they may not date you because you have dated black guys and there friends would look down on them and when you are young sometimes you don't always take the right road. The other problem is that if you did marry a black person and had children and the marriage did not work out for some reason you would limit yourself even further in being able to find a second husband because it is difficult enough to find a decent man that will take on the responsibility of children that are not his but even harder to take on the additional pressure of children of a different race. So it is not about being racist it is about whether this relationship is important enough to you to accept the future problems that it may create for your life. Just make and informed decision. Best Wishes, |
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ElkieLove
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I think your friend is not a true friend. I wouldn't want someone who is narrow minded to be my friend. If you like someone, it shouldn't matter their race, color, religion, background, etc. It's your relationship, not theirs, so you're the one who has to be happy with the other person. Love is color-, race-, religion-, background-, -blind. Good luck. |
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djlovely19
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Well you need to tell them at least you got somebody cooked and well done OKAY!!! There is nothin wrong with dating a black guy they are the best ones. |
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