Dough
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Let me tell you what I did when I was rejected by a female for basically being fat. I asked her out on a date of sort. She laughed and pretty much called me fat in front of a few people. I stood there kinda heartbroke. But then looked back at her and said ' I might be fat, But your ugly and I can diet". Needless to say, I saved my pride.
The moral of the story is that no one is perfect. And don't worry about what others think. Or put yourself down like I did. |
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gaypride
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its ok, how old r u? i kno a person tht is in mi neighborhood and is 4' 11" and weighs 150.u r average. |
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manda082
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I'll bet you look fine. I'm 5'5" and weigh 95 [that's not a typo, either]. Most guys like a girl with some extra weight. Most guys think I'm anorexic or bulemic, but I have a really fast metabolism. Believe me, being skinny isn't as easy or as fun as some people think: I'm an extra-small in any clothing, so I wear everything baggy. It makes me look even skinnier. Be happy with how you look. |
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oohhbother
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You are not fat, but your body may be out of shape. You need to get some exercise, like walking or running, to make you more comfortable with yourself.
You might like gymnastics or dance, too, if you can find a 'regular people' class and not a prima-donna studio. |
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sshazzam
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Mmm. I love women with curves.
But you have to be hapy with yourself. Get a personal trainer, tone up, eat better. |
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Chels
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You know what? You are gorgeous and just because you are heavier than average doesn't make you ugly. However, if you want to lose weght you should join a sport you love or yoga or go to the gym. |
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cutiepie81289
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If you are that unhappy with the way you look, then put yourself on a diet and lose some weight and workout. We are our own worst critics!!Learn to love yourself. |
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nolagirl504
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I wish I had what you have. You wanna see ugly, you should see me. If you saw a real picture of me you would have so much confidence in yourself. Trust me, I'm an ugly b***h. |
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mx3baby
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There are so many ways to look at this issue.
1) A ton of guys find big girls HOT! =)
2) You can see yourself as BEAUTIFUL no matter what! =)
3) Like the other post said, just tone up. Lose a little weight... Bottom line is, you'll feel better about yourself! =) |
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ShuggaMomma
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Try 5"3' 235 lbs. Feel better? |
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prettyprincesscc
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Hey,just love yourself with who you are. If you feel like you are fat,lose weight.You can do something about it.Every girl goes through this stage but eventually you will get over it.Just be yourself and be happy! :) |
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wilburpost21@sbcglobal.net
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me too...but at least u can lose weight. i am naturally repulsive |
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Gevera Bert
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What's your question? You don't sound fat, just curvy. Nothing wrong with that. They say beauty is in the eye of the beholder but I think it comes from self-confidence.
Stop looking in the mirror. Think good thoughts about yourself. And be happy. I have friends who weigh twice what you do and would love to wake up with your size! |
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margarita
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The average American woman is 5'4" and weighs 140 pounds. I am 5'3" and weigh about 180. If you have a small frame you should weigh between 123-136, medium 133-147, large 143-163. You are perfectly fine. Embrace your curves! There is too much emphasis these days on being super skinny. As long as you are healthy it should not matter. |
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iluvtwisters
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ok, here is what I do myself. buy a gazelle machine at sears I think it is 189.00 but you can put it on lay away. anyway, it is so much fun! no impact just like flying or swimming.
eat fruits. melons are my favorite. eat veg, those two things you can much and eat all day long on. eat one meal around 5 or 6 o'clock. anything you want.
also you get to eat hershey candy bars anytime you want.
coool beanies for losing weight eh?
You need that machine though and you start out 10 minutes the first week. then add 5 minutes more each week untill you get to 30 minutes.
also, 10 minutes for the first 5 days. 4 days the second week.
3 days the third week. by 30 minutes only once or twise a week! incredible. It is not a tread mill. not boring. not hard. just fun. also what I love most about the gazelle is that you continue to burn callories even in your sleep.
also, there are no drugs . buy it! I have had mine now for 6 years and love it!! remember to eat fruites and veggies all day long, as much as you like and when ever you are hungry and dinner??? anything you want to eat and as much as long as it is before 7:00 pm. No second helpings though.
you will loose at LEAST 20 lbs. in 60 days. |
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jimmy carter
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Ask Tom Leykis? |
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blueyes
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OMG! you are not fat. I am 5'4" and weigh 140. I'm not fat but I would like to loose 20 lbs. Walk walk walk, eat smaller portions at meals, watch your junk food intake. Also, fat does not make you ugly. Not caring for yourself, like personal hygiene makes you ugly (and stink), your personality can make you ugly too. I know many many girls that are larger than me and you that have the best looking men, and some of the sweetest ones. Everyone has different taste in women. Don't be so hard on yourself. Be yourself, have good time, enjoy life, join an exercise club or exercise class, just be the best you can be and be healthy. |
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rab2308
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your weight is normal for your height and most guys love curves so come on girl give yourself a break you are a beautiful woman OK. |
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Aliyah
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Girl!dont listen to what other people say.
you have to be happy with yourself dont always look to other people for comments.DONT HATE,APPRICEATE!
LOVE YOURSELF for who you are,not for what people want you to be.I know,its not always that easy.but look in the mirror and say,''i am pretty!''and remember you are tall so its okay... |
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jmoore1976
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were here for you ez2volley, just remember your beautiful no matter what anyone else thinks, there opinions dont count anyway |
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run_it4
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You aint got nothing to worry about I am 12 and wiegh 158. |
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patrick_493
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Ever heard the song "stupid girls" by Pink? Don't be one of those, all concerned with how you look and whether you're perfect or not. You're real, and thats all that counts. Real people see what's on the inside. |
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iccarus1969
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i bet your not ugly you just perceive your self as you are .and some men love women with a fuller figure. don't let it get you down there are lots of groups for bbw (big beautiful women) if you look for them. don't let weight get you down and if others are calling you for your weight maybe its because they are insecure about something with them |
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tikwau1
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the inner beauty is what makes a real person |
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fenixat1
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Come on babe, y do u have low self esteem. ppl tell u look good and u dnt thnk so. u knw im a lil fat my self but i dnt care. shhhh i wish i was 150.....but be happy. am pretty sure ur beautiful, bonita, yea. dnt thnk that ur fat, ok. i knw i mite not be much help but I hope it help a lil. take care |
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lil_waynes_angel
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sorry but whats the question? |
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FIRE CRACKER
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gurl,i weigh way more than you do so dont even stress.there is people wat bigger than you and go through a lot more stuff so gurl at leastthey agree that you look goof well i have to go with my fat butt. l8er |
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snappy4025
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lol you could be my gf.. same weight and hight.. you guys are nything but fat. if you really wanna burn some off dont go overboard. just start doing sit ups. Rowing is really great exercise for your whole body so i recomend joining a beginers team if you live near a lake |
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i've got the answers
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Fat people are just like ordinary people but they just need a little help in losing wait. There is nothing wrong with that. They just need a little more help then other people. They are still normal. It is not like they are aliens. |
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pink_pretty_petals
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You are apparently an african- americian you know how many people out there is trying to get the curves your complaining about?! Black Don't Crack! How are you suppossed to be flat as a pancake? Men like women with Curves! and if you would like to make sure you do not want to get fat because apparently you are not fat Inshallah! Just watch what you eat and only eat junk foods on saturday and sunday! And put yourself on a schedule! If you would like to Know more you can e-mail me and ask me if you or anyone that has any Question!
Girl, love your Curves! And Remember, Black does NOT Crack! |
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rainman
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As the song says :"Dont worry be happY"..... |
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