wishyouwerehere1@rogers.com
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I don't know how old you are but at any stage in your life and in everybody's life we all change and mature. Our wants and priorities change, our thoughts about people in general. There is not much you can do when this happens but it doesn't mean you have to just end it. I'm sure this friend has noticed some kind of difference and may be thinking along the same wave length. Why do you want to just end it, why don't you just get on with what you want to do and usually these kind of friendships will just gradually end. This is usually a good way to do it, unless this person has done something that is totally unacceptable to you, then just be straight forward and tell them your feelings about the whole thing. Honesty is the best policy and getting it over with will be a great relief to you. |
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Alyssa
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well it kinda already is ending. just leave it alone and it will go away by itself and if it resurfaces like she calls you a bunch then just say your busy and dont really have meaningful convos w. her if she does decide to call you |
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home schooling mother
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I'm not sure I understand the reason why you want to end it. The girl I was best friends with in school grew to be very different from me over time. It was gradual, but at some point I realized that we just weren't close anymore. Years passed, and I didn't see her except for a brief time that we worked together. Yes, we drifted apart. But, she was invited to my 40th birthday party -- and she came. And we ran into each other at the store a few weeks ago. We've both changed, but still we are friends.
No need to end anything. |
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~*~Paper cranes~*~
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let it end on its own she might have changed alittle and u have 2 .so if its going 2 end let it end on it's own. |
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Tango55
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You could continue to be casual friends; unless you have more than just a friendship. |
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Alice
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It sounds like you are simply growing apart. If things can be worked out, try to be open-minded and respectful and don't be stuck up her butt all the time. give her her space. But if that doesn't work than youre going to have to move on. I guess she is just changing or whatever and you should respect that even though it's hard. |
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Steve
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I think that you should try to keep the friendship going. If you two have been friends for so many years there must be something you can connect with. My advice to you is to try and expand your horizons. Try something your friend is interested in, who knows maybe you'll like it too. |
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goode_times_die
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Maybe she wanted more, ever think of that? Go after her!!! Unless all YOU want is to be friends, talk to her, tell her how you feel. You don't know if you don't try. |
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gyrferret
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Um... based on my past expiriences, these friendships usually smoother themselves, as you both slowly and uncosciously move on to other people, you slowly lose contact, and eventually forget ... it's natural, I've gone through a couple best friends, but I don't want to lose my current one... |
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ftgobs
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im in your shoes man.i don have an answer. |
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BaFfler
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Take a breather form each other, but keep in contact. |
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Kiara_Everett
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Dont juss try to do more things with her and spend more tome togather that will bring yall closer togather. |
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GENIUS
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end what> why would you want to end the friendship because she's changed> communication is the key. why are humans always afraid to say exactly whats on our minds> anyway if she's just your friend maybe she has new friends / boyfriend now. speak to her, thats the best advice..ever heard the saying..don't ASSUME, cause you'll make an ***-out of U and ME...good luck. |
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beccagoboom
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If you really want to stay friends with this person and she is doing things that aren't what you would normally do i would try it if that would save your friendship. I hope i helped... |
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Imi
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It is a movie " Seven years of marriage " with M.M.
You must see it. Every relationship have a problem after seven years. Maybe because at every seven years all your cells are changed in your body, you`re an other person physically. |
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o0_sweetie_yai_0o
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I'm going through the same right now with an old friend of mine. There really is no "good way" to end it. Call her up, or sit down with her or whatever and figure out what's going on.
If she feels the same way and you guys want to remains friends then try and work through it but if not then kiss her on the cheek and call it a day.
Who knows...you might become close again down the road. |
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adieu
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Be busy when she wants to do stuff that you don't want to do. |
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chatlink
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is there any reason 2 end it.is it affectin u in anyways. frends dont hav reasons 2 talk they just say what coms up.there must b a reson 4 u 2 end it,excluding "boring"... |
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hopewaypinkywinkyrabbitgirl
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One thing ask her why and whats been going on with your friendship.Don't give up ,talk it with her frist . Work it out and see frist hand if it can be fix. Good luck |
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Bonnie ♥
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I have been through that a few times. It is a little sad, isn't it. We never had a big talk. We just stopped calling each other because we were busy.
Is she still making an effort to be around you? That is when you have the talk. It is best to be honest. I think both of you know that you are on differnet paths. Might as well say it.
Good luck! |
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Wise Advisor
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It does sound like it's ending itself. these things happen people drift apart over time. It's reminds me of that saying
"All good things come to a end" |
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LiFeZ wUt u MaKe iT~MiNeZ HyPhY
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let time tell n if she like is buggin u alot lately or sumin tell her fo real how u feel str8 up wit no lies n no bull n nothing 2 cover it up or anything |
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jake_hargrove
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yeah that has happened to me recently actually ...im friends with this girl and we have been friends for a long time and i no she liked me for the longest of time and i also liked her and then she just changed she said she just wanted to be friends and now she is like mad at me for no reason and yells at me so the best thing to do is just talk to her about it and see what she has to say and if that doesnt work there are others outa there |
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Burglar777
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it sounds like it's ending itself. doesn't really sound like you were just friends |
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icratt06
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if youve grown apart and you notice it chances are so does she time will end it for you |
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dollarmonkey
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Simplest way to do this is to express your thoughts. Don't put out the options (like I want to end it...) but ask if she noticed any difference and ask if she feels the difference. Then look at options with her, and that will give you a window of opportunity to tell her what makes you feel the way you do.. Girls don't mind being told, but they also like to know the reasons. Since you want to move on, just don't hurt her on the way out.
Hope this helps. |
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Karamia11
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Well,
It depends. You can just make pretend you are all of the sudden too busy. Like you have many things to do. THat should let her know indirectly she's not that important anymore...hope this helps! |
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