Lucky
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Respect her, listen to her and then obey her. Once she figures out that what she is trying to tell you is sinking in, she will back off. |
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dramo219
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tell her u get it and to stop |
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michael
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make ur dad come home more often |
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Maggie
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There's not much you can do, sorry hun. You have to wait until you can move out. |
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Nita and Michael
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You can't make her leave you alone...she loves you,that's why she's doing this, be thankful you have a loving mom who cares about you..would you rather her leave you alone and drink, do drugs, beat you?...prob not...this is just part of life, when you get older, you'll realize she did it for a reason and that she cared...till then hang in there |
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heatherfaerie
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mothers are like that..they just want the best for you... perhaps your not doing what your supposed to or your mother has reason to suspect your into something your not supposed to be. maybe just do what your told. |
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Buttercup
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She loves you. If she didn't, she really wouldn't speak to you. By the way, if her words didn't appear to fall on deaf ears, would she be so repetitive?
Let Mom know you're listening. Is some of her advice good? If you can take that advice and respectfully listen to the rest, even if you don't act on it-perhaps things will improve.
For sure, a positive response she's not expecting will help create different dynamics. You may as well try. |
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mandy c
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Ur lucky that u have someone that cares about you... |
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bonkti
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say yes mother, give her what you think she wants, and sooner than you know it, bam, shes gone. a little fake smile here and there can solve soooo many problems |
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dan_hatt
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Nice idea rabert, then she'll be in a psych ward. lol
Just tell your mom you are hearing what she is saying. Resay it to her in your own words and tell her you appreciate what she has to say. I imagine she will be so shocked whe will leave you alone for quite a while. |
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RaBerT
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Say to her mom leave me alone, or ill commit suicide. |
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floridagurl1970
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You listen to her and respect her. Be thankful she cares!!!!! |
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dugu$
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If she is that much repetitive, I think you could try to actually listen to what she has to say. That does not mean that you have to agree with whatever she tells you, but have a little conversation with her, show her that you are listening. Take the good, leave the bad, it is better than being have to listen to the same things over and over again. Good luck.. |
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babydottie
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Take some time to look at what you are doing. I mean try to figure out the main points that she is trying to get across to you and then see how you measure up. What your mother is doing is very normal behavior and your response is also normal. But, are you smart enough to hear what she is saying and make the necessary changes so that she will stop nagging you? As much as it seems that she enjoys saying the same thing over and over I guarantee that she would rather be enjoying nice conversation with a daughter who is taking her advice and making changes that will make her successful in life. Now, unless you take my advice tonight I'll say that it will take you anywhere from 5 to 10 years before you understand why your mother said the same thing over and over to you and you will have many hard knocks before you do understand. |
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