Harley
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OK...if she's moving out, then absence should make the heart grow fonder, right?
If you guys are always fighting, wehn she moves out, it should mellow down a bit, seeing as you are not in eachother's face all the time anymore. |
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OSAMA W. BUSH
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GOOD RIDDANCE TO BAD RUBBISH.
ENJOY THE PEACE. |
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clandestinelove08
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mine is 20 now that im 16... i know EXACTLY what you mean.
things WILL get SOO MUCH BETTER now that she's moved out. you'll become sisters. if you're around her too much, you'll still fight, but it's just in your nature. but things will go uphill from here. |
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Alli-son
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i have one sister. her and i are twenty months apart and when we were younger we fought like you couldnt even imagine! she always loved me because i was her sister, but hated me in every other way. she moved to VT when she turned 18 to go to college and then a year later i moved to CT to go to school. we still didnt talk much at that point. i transfered from CT down to florida to go to school about a two years ago and thats when we started talking again. she will call me randomly now to just say something as simple as "HI" i never thought that day would come. but the thing is you cant push at her for her to like you or want to hang out or talk at this point because that may only push her further away. one of these days she will realize, just like my sister did, that blood is much thicker than water and she will want to talk to you and even to hang out with you. i had to wait until i was about 20 or so, but it was well worth it! |
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jimbo72
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Show her who's boss. Give her a good smack, she'll calm down. |
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redunicorn
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Yeah I have a sister. She abandoned me in a bar in downtown Milwaukee. Thankfully one of her friends brought me home. She ran off with some guy she had just met. To this day we don't get along. But I do have it in my will that she can not raise my daughter if I die. I would be worried how she would take care of a child. |
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Guelph
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I wonder why you would ask a question in which you claim that the people you are asking are not well-informed about the situation.
Regardless, having 4 sisters (and 2 brothers) myself, I can tell you that now that she's out of house, and only sees you because she wants to, and not because she's forced to live with you, your relationship with her will improve greatly. Give it some time and give her the space to miss you. |
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Janu
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nop. |
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ZedNeon
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Sometimes genes cannot save you from the evils of the world! :-) ...But seriously, it seems you two are having the same problems that my sister and I used to have at your age – restless dysfunctional attitude and unhealthy sibling rivalry/competition. What makes it worse is that while you cannot stand each other, deep down you know you love each other too. I am not gonna fool you; the tendency is for things to get worse, even with her out of the house. The only out is for you guys to try to pinpoint the causes that trigger your fights and dysfunctional behavior. Are you fighting for your parents' love/attention (e.g. does she resent you because she felt you were getting more of your parents' attention)? Are you fighting over material possessions (e.g. who gets to use what in the house, etc.)? Are you fighting because it feeds your hormone-driven egos (e.g. because you are both spoiled rotten by your parents)? …Once you get down to the reasons why you fight, then you must ask yourselves if they are really worth fighting over. Unbelievable as it may sound, most of the times sibling rivalry is due to too much of a good thing and lack of appreciation for all that you have been blessed with in life. In other words, taking your wonderful lives for granted. People (especially teenagers and young adults) tend to get bored with too much of a good life and subconsciously hunt around for reasons to fight and bring more zest to their existence! A shot of hard cold reality check is always a good thing. Why don’t you play a lil' serious mind game with yourselves? Why don't you ask yourselves, for example, how you would feel if one of you came down with a terminal cancer or if both your parents died in a car crash and you two had to be there for each other? Under such circumstances, would you still continue to fight – and if so, over what? …Put away your petty differences, be grateful for what you have, bring your selfishness and growing egos under control, never lose sight of the big picture, establish a healthy dialogue, don’t be afraid to express your true emotions, learn to compromise in the name of love, make a conscious effort to change things for the better, don’t take your wonderful lives for granted and you’ll soon find out how much you really love each other underneath all that otherwise meaningless junk. |
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celine_g123
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Don't worry, I have the same prob. |
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emma
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isn't it a good thing for you if she moved out?? that probably means that you two aren't fighting anymore. Isn't that what you wanted? to stop fighting? |
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LittleCat
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well....it will be up to her to change on her own. The best thing you can do is keep being kind to her. She will eventually snap out of it.
I have four brothers, no sisters, BUT there was a group of girls that I went to both church and school with and they were extremely mean to me. They made fun of me because I was quiet and because I was "poor" and was not "up" with the styles.
Well, I used to work in the school snackbar and I would earn a free breakfast ticket and a free school lunch a long with a paycheck and I always shared my breakfast with some guys that I rode the bus with.
One day the girls told me that they saw me sharing my breakfast with the guys and they said that they wanted some too. I started sharing with them as well.
One day, one of the girls walked up to me with tears in her eyes and in front of group of people she told me that I was such a great example to her. She was so mean to me, but I was so kind. She apologized for everything and we found peace in one another and to this day, I could not have a better friend than her. :) She is married with a few children and she is a FANTASTIC LADY!!
You just have to keep trying and loving her, it takes patience and sometimes courage. |
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!&!@&@&@
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Nope but I got a beautiful niece and nephew does that count? |
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sheilasheila44
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wait for a couple of weeks you's will both miss each other so much..it's normal for sisters to fight .
what's the good of them if you don't.
she loves you don't worry about that.. |
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One of the Baldwin brothers
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One that I know of, and I haven't seen her since I was 7. I may have others that my biological father may have made...blood is thicker than water, no matter what happens, your bonds of love will always be there, so its ok if you fight and be mad at each other, just don't turn your back on her if she needs you. Tell her I said that goes for her too. |
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HitMan
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I have 7 sisters....and one brother. Just tell her how you feel..... Maybe your relationship will get better as you become older... |
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showersinger_123
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Yes, one sister named Andy. |
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blacklincolncat
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i have 4 brothers and 2 sisters. i get along Whit all of them. and that i moved out of my house about 1 month. and that.if i wore you. just ignore her. what ever she says. don't say anything it would do. that is what i do when i have a fight. or am angry. so yeah. |
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jenny
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yes. i have 2. both littler than moi. |
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cass_17_7
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Give it time. Now that she is out of the house things might calm down. It did with my sis and me and we are only 15 months apart. She moved out, so I don't see her as much. Sometimes I even look forward to when she comes and visits. |
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