Jerry
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Next time you talk to him, be honest and tell him the truth about yourself. There is a chance he did the same think to you and go from there. Good luck. |
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Leader Lady Sue
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Don't go |
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andy in greece
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Why bother with the lies if you like him? Anyway, maybe he's lying as well. He may be 51 & balding. You won't feel too bad then!
Oh.... The internet! ;o) |
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herding cats
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Have you considered that this guy might be dangerous? You sound very young, you lack confidence, and you have met some guy who may not be anything like you think he will be. What "crazy stuff" has he made you promise you will do? What have you "practiced" with him on the phone?
I very strongly suggest that you find some adult that you are comfortable speaking with, and discuss it with them. I would not want you to end up taken advantage of by some internet freak.
PLEASE BE CAREFUL!!!!! Remember that your self respect, and liking yourself, is far more important than whether you have a boyfriend. If you make a huge mistake, you can not go back and undo it. Your most important thing in life is to MAKE GOOD CHOICES. |
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Decorating Diva
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Tell him the truth, send him a picture, and see if he contacts you back. |
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rainyday
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puhleez, you don't even know this guy. You don't love him - you're in lust, if anything. He's probably lied to you too! He could even be 50+ years old and a child molester. Stay away from him and stay offline. Date face to face and you'll both know what you're getting. |
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darkwind_faery
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be honest with him before you meet |
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clashgirl3
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you should just tell him the truth, also be careful he's who you think he is. |
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TiNkErBeLl
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i don't know but good luck you will need it |
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♥ms.peREz?♥
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umm tell him b4 u meet if he loves u back it shouldnt b an issue
good luck!!!!!!!!!!! |
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dragonrainfly
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Meet him and if he really likes you for you then he'll like you no matter what you look like. Otherwise don't waist your time. |
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Roar
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Never lie about yourself. If he doesn't like you for who you are, and all he sees is the pounds, then he's not worth the effort. |
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tyte3545
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wwwhat! who cares. Meet him. Maybe all the loving will make lose some weight. And if he doesn't like you. Thats his lost. You'll never know unless you try. Work it out |
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g3010
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That's what happens when you get on the Internet and fabricate a story about one self. Before you see him ask for a photo of him and see if it match's what he told you. Then go from there. Beauty is going to be in the eye's of the beholder anyway. I would suggest being straight forward next time if this doesn't work out for you. |
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lfforever10
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Dont be afraid to show him how you look. If he really loves you, he wouldnt care, but the only person who can make the right decision is you. |
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lilyflower
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if he dosent like you 4 who u r then he isnt worth it.is he trustworthy?is he a creep who will get you pregnat then deny it?be sure hes not a creep.also he probly lied about something too.dont beat yourself up about it. |
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ashleyswgl
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In my opinion hun meeting someone over the internet might not be the best thing to do. What if he's some kind of wierdo be careful. |
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Somebody
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well, you may as well tell him before you meet him, and find out if he has a problem with that... personally, i would have more of a problem dealing with someone not being honest with me than their looks. by fessing up, you may find out he may not have been so truthful either... it happens a lot with Internet dating. be careful when meeting with this person... initial meetings should always be made in a public place, and also leave the information on where you are going with someone you trust. My brother met his 2nd wife on the Internet and she was a total nightmare. My sister met her 2nd husband on the net and he's a dream... totally the opposite of my brother's 2nd ex-wife. Please Be careful... I'd hate to hear about you on the news. |
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♫♥GCchick♥♫
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you need to call him right now and tell him the truth. who likes liers?? if he doesnt like u anymore it culd be because ur fat or becus ur a liar so thats ur fault, but right now the best thing to do is tell him the truth cus how do u think hed feel if u never told him the truth and he sees u and realizes ur a liar. but if he is the true thing then he'll be willing to forgive and forget and it will work out. and finally make sure its not some sick old man whos just looking for some fun. make sure to stay safe also becus ppl (like wut u did) arent usually wut they say. |
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jarster2000
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you got one week to loose it babe |
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herk11011
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well if he really likes you he wont care if you r "overweight" he will just care about the person you r. (that is as long as you havent lied about anything else) |
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iloveboystheyredumb
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um wel as you should know internet dating is a very dangerous thing to do and he could end up being a serial killler of something like that so if you guys do still plan to meet make sure its some where safe and everyone knows where your at and he doesnt like you anymore beacause of how you look than he isnt worth your time people can be very differnet from meeting them online and then in person so please be careful |
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nortanfrontier
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just met the boy and don't worry about your weight and if he really likes u than he doesn't care about what u look like.It's inside that reaally counts. Go out with him and enjoy yourself,u deserve it. |
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crazykatie!
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well that is a serious case, you shouldn't have lied. well how's he like? is he too nice? well if he truly love you too then it dosent matter to him how you look! you said you have promised each other to do crazy dtuff right? so he cant break his promise!
keep your self-confidence, first tell him the truth and send him your picture just to make him aware and try to make a delay on your date and try to loose some weight not very much but a bit so you wont look ugly, and as a matter of fact i was overweight too and i had a boyfriend! apperance really dosent when its true love! |
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Shelli
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Come clean to him before you meet him. If he truely loves you than your weight won't matter to him. But he may be upset that you betrayed him by lying to him. If you've never met him in person make sure you be careful when you meet. |
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wong6933@sbcglobal.net
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why lie?
person be a person for the way is not for the look.
before you go more with him tell the true.
one time bad is better to many on future!!!! |
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its just me
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come clean before you meet him....tell him you hope that he can forgive you for lying and somehow find a way to appreciate your honesty now...chances are he isn't what you are expecting either!!!!
ps...please be safe and make sure you are meeting in a public place also make sure you tell atleast one person that you are meeting this person and where you are going that way if something does happen someone knows where to start |
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Kimberly
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Do nothing. If he doesnt like you for who you are ...squash it and move on :) Also, find someone off the net to meet |
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tmnt ghurl
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well if he really liked you then he would not mind that you lied cause its about the person not the appearance if he cared about how you looked he would not have start dating you with out seeing a picture first..... |
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hman069
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Hmmm ! Have you ever asked this guy if he's ever been attracted to women who are overweight ? The majority of men of men like myself prefer women who are slender or have an athletic body. There is a possibility that your relationship with this guy could be damaged, by withholding sensitive info like that. Also think about how you would feel if this guy lied about his weight, or lied about himself some other way. It is better know things like that up front. |
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The Fisch
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Because you said boy I am assuming you are a girl. Not a woman or a lady but a girl. That is fine but dating online as a girl is wierd and you shouldnt do it. For one you are lying to him. What if he loves you sooooooo much, that it wouldnt have matter to him that you are fat but it does matter that you lied. You cant be misleading or dishonest to keep some one because you will lose them because of the dishonesty before the truth |
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