
בהמ"ה
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Believe me, untill you see pictures of them, or know their name and other info about them, you just can't trust them-everyone is dangerous! |
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SunBunny
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You can't! People have to earn your trust, the same way they have to earn respect. |
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¤Rep. Hernandez™¤
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Well, if you don't know that person very well, I will not have trust on that person. First be apart from that person until you get to know him/her more.
Just becareful and try to be acompanied by someone. |
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safety expert
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you can't |
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bob_m_46128
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You can't. But you can trust your intuition. |
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single baby momma
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There's no quick easy solution to trust. It takes time to build it. You can believe what someone says but You can't really trust someone you don't know. |
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wannaknow
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You can't. Trust is "earned", so to speak.
As you get to know this person better, their actions will let you know if they are indeed trustworthy. Think about that word "trustworthy"; that's exactly what it means: "worth trusting". For example: if they are gossiping about someone else to you, I would bet that they would gossip about you too. I would know by that action, that this person is NOT trustworthy. Does this person tell lies, even small ones? Does this person say they will do something and then not do it, and then (even worse) make up some lame excuse? Do they say or do things that somehow seem a little "off"? (That's YOUR instincts telling you something about them/the story is not right, and personally, I would pay attention to that). If you have answered "yes" to any of these, then it's highly likely that this person cannot be trusted. On the other hand, if they have shown honesty and integrity in all their words and actions so far, then chances are good that they probably are trustworthy. Again, since you don't know them very well, I'd play it safe a while longer and watch their actions. They will reveal their true self to you eventually.
You can still be someone's new friend without giving up too much of your personal information to them. Just be careful of how much you are risking and what the potential consequences could be. In the meantime, see how your friendship grows. As time goes on, you'll see how this person is and if they are worth your trust. If they aren't, then end the relationship.
Good luck! |
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irunwithscissors25
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you cant or i guess i should say you shouldn't |
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its just me
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you either do or you don't i try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt..... |
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ruthie
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well, you cant because you dont know them. |
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wallablack
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Tell them something about youself that isnt true and tell them not to tell anyone...se if they do |
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kasik
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You can't trust someone you don't know... |
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pbaez3
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Trust is earned, but most people deserve a chance.
It's up to you to give them the benefit of the doubt and let them prove you wrong. |
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cdcb_68_dexter
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you cannot ,set some limits |
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Doc Uzuki
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Get to know them.
Or take a chance and hope you don't end up gutted in a ditch somewhere clutching the remaining tatters of your clothing.
Your call. |
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