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if you find out, let me know. i dont get paid til next thursday and i've got about 5 quid to do me. aarrgh. wont be goin out this weekend then! |
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masonanne
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The first thing that you have to do is accept full responsibility for your situation. It sound to me as though you area bit of a shop-aholic and if you are then you need to start being serious with yourself. Are to shopping to make you feel better about yourself?
You knew when you last got paid how long it would be until the next payday. It is no good feeling sorry for yourself half way through the month because you haven't had the responsibility to set yourself a budget and stick to it.
If you don't earn very much then you need to decide if having your lunch made for you (which always works out to be much more expensive) is more important than having that cash available to you for other things.
If you sit down and work out what you spend each week on food, snacks and drinks you will probably be horrified! What you have to realise is that you are the one who makes the choices - things don't just happen to you. You didn't just happen not to bring lunch you actually decided not to bring lunch.
Start to become more conscious of your choices and you will start to gain much more control over your life and you will stop having occasion to feel down and that will definitely make you feel better. |
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Knowledgewise J
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Dont you have any hobbies, games you play, dedicated friends, Television, Parks you frequent or other loves you can indulge in that dont cost $$$$$$$$$$??? |
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poketroket
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u can make extra money online, doing surveys etc.
go onto channel 5 website and then onto the wright stuff program site.
there are a couple of links on there. they pay u to do surveys, the more u do the more u got paid, this takes time so u are doing those and not spending.
EASY MONEY!!!! |
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nimimitu;
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Borrow from a friend and promise to return after 10 days.In future budget for your money wisely |
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ceri
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well dont think about it and then the days will fly bye and you can go out to shops to look at things you anit got to bye things |
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Cookie
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You can pass the time and have loads of fun making a BUDGET.
Good luck |
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Sandy M
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do they have like a free store where you can get some free food.too help you out?or try the salvation army they are always help full |
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Friendly-Girlie
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having been there myself, its all fairly easy!! You are on the right foot by taking your own lunch in to work (bonus to that is you know exactly what is in it as you prepared it!!)....grab a good book and read in your lunch hour....you got mates???...if they really are true mates they'll help you out even if its only a night out in the pub payable by them for the drinks as I'm sure you'd do the same for them! You don't have to have money to have a good time.....you can watch a movie....read a book.....walk in the park....visit friends.....many many things including indulge in one of your hobbies. You need to learn to budget your money ie set an amount per week for food & drink at work....set weekly allowance for socialising...set aside any monies for bills etc |
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Yinzer from Sixburgh
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Enjoy priceless things, like visiting friends and family. Visit local beauty of nature; go set by the river and take in the beauty; watch a bird soar in the sky, see the sun glisten on the water. Take this time to do a home spa treatmetn; lite some candles and soak in the tub, give yourself a facial, trim your nails. Have sex, lots of sex. Make a list of little jobs you never seem to get to, and do one each night; clean a drawer, clean the nick-nacks, sweep the basement floor. Put on favorite music and do some stretches. Cook and freeze. |
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LEC
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It has been said that delay of gratification is the secret to increased pleasure...allow yourself to wallow in the anticipation and use your imagination of how great it will be to have money in the bank. Lots of folks live this way on purpose and don't save or hold any money back from paycheck to paycheck simply so they can revel in the anticipation of having that wad of cash again for that short little while. Others love the challenge of keeping a certain amount aside and using self discipline to let the money lie until more comes in...some even build on that from paycheck to paycheck seeing how strong they can be as time goes on and how much they can amass...but then it is different strokes for different folks...but just think of all you have to think about now?!....enjoy |
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marysmith987650
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Spend your time in the park. Do some excersize. |
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annazzz1966
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Make sure you take your breaks away from the office and out in the sun. Drink lots of water to keep hydrated. Bring a book to work and read during lunch. Anything to keep your mind off of your situation right now would be a good thing. |
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