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christfanatic05 | How do I get over my moms death? |
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Eddy
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This is not an easy question to answer. When I lost my grandmother (she raised me) I felt betrayed, mad, lost, empty. What I did was write letters to her. I know that sounds dumb but it helped me get it all out. I did alot of crying, I would be fine one min. and the next I would be crying, I talked to my sister alot, we talked about old times, what it was going to be like without her, you name it we talked about it.
With each day it gets a bit easier to let go...with each day it doesnt hurt as much. I still think about my grandmother everyday, when something good or bad happens I still run to the phone and say Oh I have to call grandma, then it hits me shes not there in person but in my heart she will always be.
My grandmother passed away almost 10 years ago and there are moments when it still hurts... |
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Jujeaux
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you dont, you just let time do its thing, you know it will round the edges off a bit, but sadly this is something you never get over, just continue doin what you think she would want you to do, and dont worry about forgettin this will never happen. so as mom would say carry on son. |
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Squeakers
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My condolences to you and your family. My mom died when I was 14 yrs old. Because I was the only girl,among 7 brothers,it was hard for me because I missed the special bound we had. I got over her death,by writing letters about the things we use to do,and the advise she gave me,that helped me through adulthood. My female relatives kept a close guiding hand also. I visit her gravesite often,and as the years went by,I find myself doing and saying things,just like my mom use to do. You should stay close to your family,and talk about her. This helps relieve the emotional pain. It won't be easy,but keeping her in your heart will help you go on with life. She will guide you along your journey,to succeed,and always remember,to trust in God,and he,alongside your mom,will see you through. (God Bless you) |
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Valerie
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Grieving is a long process and does not happen all at once or even overnight. Your local hosp can give you info on groups that talk about such things, I cannot imagine how painful your loss may be. Your mother is one of the most special people in your life, she loved you no matter what. No love will be the same as a mother's love for her child.
I will say it will become less painful , but I do not believe the pain will ever go away totally. Just as the memory of her cannot. So, you must keep in mind, your mother's memory will always be with you. Is that comforting? I say that to myself from time to time. My parents are old. |
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LMT in training!
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I don't think you ever completely can. I have found in other people that having a family of your own later in life helps a lot. |
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elizabethaneratwine
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slowly, you can't expect it to go away easily, ... i'm sorry for your loss. |
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itspink22@sbcglobal.net
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1st off, I'm sorry for the loss,
and second you'll NEVER get over it, u may someday come to accept that she's past but the death of a love one we NEVER get over, it may not seem like it, but as long as u have others around to keep going you'll slowly stop to accept it, just remember all the great things about her & know that she wouldn't want u to stop living because she has, she's still around & with u( I know it may sound strange but it's true)if u have any sisters or brothers you'll see her in them, if u have any kids you'll she her in them and in u, because u gonna hear yourself telling them the same as she said to you when u were going up, you'll find yourself saying some of the things she said, I hope that all Im saying is making since and not too forward |
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Harley
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It's not going to happen overnight.
Give yourself some time, and eventually, it will get easier. |
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bespectacled
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Believe that she is watching over you from above. Remember everything that you do from now on will make her proud.
This way you don't have to get over her loss, because you haven't lost her. She is with you all the time. |
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pepperjg
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You can't get over losing your mom. If will never happen. But as time goes on and you keep living your life to it's full potential it gets a little easier. You will have some really rotten days where you can't do anything but remember all the sadness of your loss. This is so posed to happen. If you didn't then it means you didn't love her, and I know you must have. She was your mom. I also know you will see some happier days as well. My mom has been gone for almost five years now. I still miss her so very much. I still have days where I just cry and cry. Nothing helps to take my pain away. This is normal as well. I try to always remember all the good times. How great my mother was. How much richer she made my life and everyone else in my family. Over time it will be easier, not better, not forgotten, just a little easier. Family and friends, don't forget to talk with them. Even if you just talk about the way your feeling at the moment it helps to get it out. I kept a journal. To this day I haven't read it. I don't want to either. It was just a way to put down my feeling and get them out. Not sort them out or fix what was bothering me.
Time: Just give yourself some time. |
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writerbynature
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I don't know how long ago she died, but do let yourself grieve.
I find that with time, I think about things I did with my mom that made me feel special, things that she did to help me learn a lesson, even things I did as a kid that must have driven her nuts.
Her memory will always be alive in you. If you are fortunate, perhaps you have children. It's amazing how much the memory of your parents comes alive in the younger generation.
I've written down stories about my mom, which I find brings tears and laughter - and may even help someone else. Here's a link to one of the stories. |
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nolagirl504
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First of all, sorry to hear about your mom. I suggest you think about the good times you had with your mom. I'm sure that she would want you to think about her and smile every once in a while. I never lost my parents but for those who may be reading this, imagine watching a loved one, my mother, dying before your eyes more and more everyday. That's not easy to deal with either. |
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nola_cajun
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live your life to the fullest you can .. as i'm sure she did with hers. She has started her new life now.. and will some day see you again when you start yours |
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JZ
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My condolences to you and your family. You must remember that she will always be with you in your heart and in your memories. Lean on your friends and family to help you grieve, and remember that in time the pain and sorrow will subside. However, I don't think the loss of a parent or any loved one will ever - really go away. You'll have to take one day at a time and don't be afraid to cry, or yell, or express your feelings in any way. Take care. |
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Sal Monella
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My condolences my young friend. I try to answer without tearing up for your loss. And I do anyway.......A Mother is one of the biggest influences of our lives and we hold her dearly in our hearts because she was closest to us. Perhaps even more then our father. So then I can only tell you we have many losses in our lives but she perhaps will be your most hurtful since she past. The only way to heal is with time and time alone. Pray if you believe. And often. Otherwise know that no matter what it was not the end for her but the beginning of something totally new, a new beginning not here but elsewhere and a power un-imagineable by us here, a place she went to of beautiful grace and peace...... Remember Her and Rejoice ! She is now in a place of eternal and infinate beauty and peace!!! and Yes she visits you and touches you and smiles................:O) |
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Pointy Finger of DOOOOM
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life is a part of death, that's the way I look at it. think of the thousands of soldiers whose families hear the news that they died on such-and-such a date. all you need to know is that life goes on. there is a completely understandable grieving period, but once that's over, you should be even more determined to do what you want to do most. make it so that if your mom was still here, she would be the proudest parent in the world.
she is gone, but her memory is not. remember and savor the times you had together, and do not brood over what you will never get to do with her agian. my personal philosophy, "nothing is truly yours. savor it while it's there with you, and don't try to hang on when it's gone."
hope this helped, and i am terribly sorry for your loss. |
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netty5
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my dad died 6 months ago, the best thing I can say is just to realize that death is a normal part of life. There is nothing you can do but give it time and try to remember the good things about them. |
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hummingbirdhug
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You don't! |
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LoverGirl1
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I'm so sorry, pray to GOD, ask him to heal your heart. |
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dreamwever4u2
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Check out local grievence counselers in your area. If you are unsure how to do this ask your doctor for a reference. If money is a problem there are alot of counselers that will work on a sliding fee scale for as little as $5 per session. Grief is a terible thing to handle so please don't try it alone. |
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browneyedonna
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I believe that noone ever gets over the loss of a loved one, although we try to get by the best that we can and remeber the good time's that we had with them..and know that if we live right that we will one day see them again in Heaven........ |
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scibenas
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I agree with others that you don't ever fully get over it, but you can have just as much joy in your life as you did when she was around.
I was close to my mom and there were times after my mom died that I tried to stop think about her much because it hurt, but then suddenly I would have a dream and she would be in it like old times and when I woke up, it was a bit like reexperiencing the loss.
No one can take her place, but in the 15 years since she died God has provided close friends that have helped to fill the void. And I realized that I know my mom is in Heaven, and in is a much better place than before. I feel that she can tell what is going on in my life she is still close. I don't feel that overwhelming homesick feeling that I think a lot of people feel when they loose someone they love.
I saw my mom in the casket after she died and one thing that was evident right away, is my mom is no longer there in that body. I think that helped me with closure.
It would be good to talk about your mom with other people that knew her well, especially if you have brothers and sisters. They may not want to talk about her, because they are hurting too, but I think it helps. |
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confusious 2.0
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I know it hurts to loose a loved one.The wounds will heal in time.
Confusious 2.0 has spoken. |
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