How do i be popular?

i know that the title sounds so lame but im serious! im such a loser.....im nice to people and alll they can give back to me are lame remarks...im considering killing onw of the boys that torments me...and im serious...what should I do to keep control of this rage.

Why do you care so much about being popular? I HATE being popular.

Learn to stop caring about what other people thing and essentially, just grow up.

Being popular is overrated. In 5 or 10 years those popular people will be useless. Do your own thing

by being you for one thing. to have friends you need to be

one. to be popular just to be is not good. if you are

kind considerate and compassionate and love your neighbor as your self you will be with the right people.

find your self-respect and control your rage.

Ignore those boys. Take it from someone who was tormented in high school 20 years ago. It will and does get better. You are better than them. Please find someone close to you to talk to about your feelings. A family member. A teacher. Believe me, they will help you!

You must be a tabloid sensation, because only tabloids care about popularity.

Hair: Wash your hair every day with shampoo and conditioner. Brush your hair whenever needed or at least 2 times a day. Get your hair layered from front to back. But don’t go too crazy! - There shouldn’t be more than an inch between each layer. Your hair length should go down to 3-6 inches below the shoulders for the back of your hair. Get LOTS of blond highlights! Wear your hair differently everyday. But be sure that the hair styles are cute!
Nails: Nails are very important in your appearance. It may not seem important but it is.Keep your nails looking good by clipping them once a week to about 3-6 millimeters above the skin (you can tell because it is white). Clean under your nails everyday. Paint your nails to match your outfit.
Skin: Skin is the largest and one of the most important organs of the body so you need to take care of it. Just follow these steps to healthy, glowing skin: Wash your face with warm water and facial cleaner or soap every morning when you wake up and at night before you go to sleep. After washing always use facial moisturizer. To keep the rest of your skin clean, take a shower every day using skin soap that won’t harm your skin. Lotion your body IMMEDIATELY after you get out of the shower. DON’T USE LOTION ON YOUR FACE UNLESS IT IS SAFE! Also you must drink and least 8 glasses of ACTUAL WATER a day! Drinking lots of water will make your skin glow and keep it healthy. (It also helps with acne). You may also want to carry hand moisturizer or lotion around with you for after you wash your hands or if your skin begins to look ashy. By the way, don’t put lotion on in public – find a bathroom and put it on there!
Teeth and tongue: Brush your teeth after every meal for 3 minutes, then floss, and use mouth wash to keep your breath smelling good. When you brush, make sure your getting your gums too. Brush your tongue about 1 minute every time your brush your teeth to keep it pink. If you have crooked teeth, get braces and do as your dentist recommends. If your teeth are yellow, then get your teeth bleached. Do this and you will have a perfect mouth.
Lips: You want to keep your lips smooth and looking healthy. So put loads of Chap Stick on when you’re at home, especially during the winter. Make sure it’s only around your family. In public you should have a thin coat of lip gloss on. It works wonders for your appearance!
Fitness: Health is an essential part of looking good and looking good is essential for being popular.
WARM UP (5 minutes): simple stretches for 3 minutes, light jog for 2 minutes
CARDIO (15 minutes): jog half a mile everyday or jog for 15 minutes a day,
TONING (30 minutes): do 50 sit ups a day, do 20 push ups a day (if you cant do it all in a row, try at least 6 in a row at first) do 60 arm curls a day with 5 pound weights (at least 20 in a row)(hold one weight in each hand, hold arms to sides, then lift weights up to shoulders, then back down and repeat), 50 over head presses (hold 5 pound weights above shoulders with arms bent, then lift arms straight up over head and lower arms back to first position. Do 100 squats and 100 lunges.
FLEXABILITY (10 minutes): hold splits on each leg for 2 min everyday, then straddle (middle) splits for 2 minutes (don’t force yourself to go all the way down at once, only strain, no pain, go farther down every time you feel comfortable, eventually you will be all the way down), stand up with your feet shoulder width apart and reach for your toes for 1 minute, do simple stretches for the next 3 minutes.
Eating right: If you do this, it will help your body keep or become slim and beautiful. Always and only eat healthy meals which are breakfast, lunch, dinner, and a snack in between lunch and dinner. Don’t over eat – only eat until you are comfortably full But dont skip meals, either. No sweets or soda. If you are going to have a soda, make sure that it is diet. And if you eat sweets, only eat a small portion - only once every 2 weeks. Don’t become too skinny, it will make you look ugly. And don’t be anorexic, either.
Make up: Its no secret that make up can improve your appearance. I recommend getting make up that matches your skin tone, wear lip gloss, nail polish, eye liner, and eye shadow. But don’t make it obvious that you’re wearing make up! The point is to make people think that you’re not wearing make up. Also, make sure that the makeup matches the outfit that you’re wearing. Wear all this during the day with touch ups every now and then, but make sure you take it off once you get home to let your skin breathe! Speaking of breathing, you want people breathing in good air when they’re around you. So wear deodorant everyday. You may need to put it on more than once. Wear perfume that matches the smell of your deodorant and your shampoo. Because sometimes the smells clash and it smells horrible! The smell shouldn’t be too strong, either. You can even smell different everyday! Just wear different perfumes and deodorants everyday.
Clothes: To be popular, you have to have a full, trendy wardrobe filled with the styles that are "in”. When you put the clothes on make sure that they match! Use cute jewelry that matches your outfit everyday. Such as earrings, chokers, necklaces, anklets, rings, toe rings, etc. Don’t wear too many rings! Wear make up that matches, and a hair style that works best with it.
Room: Decorate your room so that it is stylish and fun looking. Keep it clean and organized for when a guest comes.
School: Listen to the teacher, take notes, study for tests, do all your homework, complete your class work, and try your best on all your work. Work on homework and study about 1-2 hours a day. But don’t obsess over academics! You have to have a social life too! All you need is about one hour a day, and of course school hours, to be successful and get straight A’s in school and the rest is for social activities. You can be social in school as well; in fact that’s where the most social activity goes on! So talk a lot in school, but don’t be desperate.
Social: Talk a lot. Be yourself. You can be funny. Just open up! You already look good. No need to be afraid. Confidence is the key. Be confident all the time. Be outgoing. Have your own clique. Make sure they all act and look popular too. Have sleepovers every Friday, hang out after school, go to the mall, etc. Make sure you get lots of social activity a day. Act preppy, popular and girly. But be nice. Be nice to nerds and losers, but just don’t hang out with them. Chit-chat with everyone. Remember: as you grow more popular, jealous girls may start spreading rumors about you, so be prepared. If you find out that a girl is spreading rumors about you, and you’re sure, confront that girl and tell her to stop being a little liar but don’t get physical. You always have your clique there to defend you. If its one of your clique that has betrayed you, then work it out with her, or if that doesn’t work, kick her out of the clique. Get involved! Do school activities such as student council. Do a sport like cheerleading, dance, volleyball, softball, gymnastics, ballet, basketball, etc.
Learn how to dance: Put on some music in your room and start dancing sexy! dont be shy because no ones watching you! Strut some poses and imagine you are the best dancer in the world. Then watch yourself in the mirror. See if you look good dancing. if you dont just keep practicing. expirament a little. Maybe even come up with dance routines to the hottest songs! If you do this everyday, you'll be a pro at dancing.
Learn to sing: Just practice singing with the songs in your room. Pretend you are the singer, get passionate, eventually you will get better. IF you practice using your voice to sing everyday, your voice will sound good singing. then you will be able to sing along with song with your friends, do karioke, etc. It helps to be able to sing and dance if you want to be popular.
Things to carry: a purse with make up, cell phone (Flippy), C.D. player or mp3 player with the coolest mix of songs.

Tips
Be confident!
Smile a lot!
Always have a positive attitude.
Laugh a lot with you friends.
Get a job and/or do chores.
Leave plenty of time for family.
Get at least 8 hours of sleep a day.
You dont have to have a boyfriend to be popular.
While you're walking down the hallways, smile and say hi to the people you know.
Have nice, neat handwriting.
Have and awesome sgnature!
Remember to have an e-mail address and e-mail people frequently and do instant message a lot.
Posture is important, so dont slouch!
Have a really cool walking style, but dont go overboard!
Warnings
Dont do drugs
Dont drink
Dont hang out with the wrong people
Dont have any type of eating disorder
Remember that being popular is NOT the most important thing in life.
Dont smoke.

Hello Kitty, you should find someone you really can trust and have a long talk about what's going on with your life. I've seen some of your questions. You really want to improve your life and your relationships. I don't know if you will get the helpful advice you need from this forum.
You do seem like a person who wants a better life, and I really hope you get it.

If you have one good friend-you dont need popularity.Hey even Jesus wasn't liked by everyone.

People can be cruel in high school. But if you notice all the "popular" cheerleaders and people that make fun of you grow up to live in a trailer park and have 10 kids and are on welfare? Just don't worry so much about popularity and be yourself. When you get out of school you tend to notice that people are a lot nicer and grown up.. and as long as you make something out of your life you will be happy in the long run and things can only look up!

If you want to be popular, I wouldn't kill anyone. You'll just end up in prison, and that's no fun. You're a girl, so you could always go the slut route. Many an unpopular girl has reached great heights using the time-tested spread-legged method. Alternatively, you could go the "I'm waiting for marriage" route. This will drive guys crazy once you get old enough and virgin chicks become fairytale creatures.

Also, consider the fact that the guy you want to kill might actually like you. If you want to control your rage, try breaking things. Collect old crap that nobody wants anymore, go out in your back yard, and smash the hell out of it. This is much better than hurting yourself or others.

You're only a loser if you think you are. I know that sounds lame, but I'm serious! Self-image goes a long way, a lot further than people realize. Watch the movie Hitch if you've never seen it before.

And finally, be patient. You're growing up, life sucks sometimes, but it'll get better eventually. Try religion if you haven't already. You'd be suprised how far that can take you. Getting involved with that will help you meet people, and friends can help you get through anything. It doesn't even have to be religion. Try volunteer work or something, you'll meet new people, and you'll be helping out at the same time. You won't have as much time on your hands to sit around and thing about life sucking.
Like I was saying before, you need to be patient. Things will come around eventually, just don't do something major that you can't undo. You have a lot of life to live, and you shouldn't let some random idiot stand in your way. Think to the future, imagine rocking your babies to sleep, sending them off to their first day of school, becoming a grand-parent. Childhood teasing will seem so insignificant in the years to come. There are better people around who understand what it's like to grow up. Hell, talk to your parents about it sometime, they've been there too. They weren't always so old and so lame. Anyway, if you're having trouble now, just hang in there, it'll make you a better person.

You don't. If u do try to be popular, u will just make your life more misrible. U will try to impress people every minute of the day and care about stupid stuff that u ussually wouldn't care about. Being popular is only until the end of school. Being nice an urself lasts forever. I don't know if what im saying helps or makes sense to u or not. So i'll sum it up. If u have friends then u r popular, to them. If u don't have friends talk to kids who r not "cool". They problaly r just like u. Who said "cool" kids are cool anyway.
I use to be popular at my old school. Then I moved. I was devedstated. It was the worst thing to happen to me in my life, i felt. I tried to act them and make them think I was "cool". It really didn't work. I did have friends but only one I could trust, like a best friend. The rest I did not know if they really liked me or not. Then the following school years most of them never talked to me. I can take blame on that though, I did not talk too them. Some kids still said hi and stuff. Then we went to high school. My best friend moved after freshman year. That sucked. I met more kids (from other feeder schools) and tried to be myself. We became good friends. Now if i do stuff and people think its weird, I just don't let it get to me.
Look at all this blabbering.
If u want to be cool, in the "cool" kids' minds, good luck. Otherwise be yourself.

y dont u talk 2 talk,make som friends online counts.

Killing will not solve anything. It will definately not make you popular. Haven't you noticed that nobody likes popular people anyways so why have people not like you? You could move to a different school and start over. make lots of friends and then maybe you will become popular.

do u have friends? if u do, u r rlredy popular

stop worrying as far as im concerned the person who is popular is the lonliest and has no self esteem as for that boy he probly really likes u just ignore them coz if u retaliate thats what they want

The first person who answered this question is correct - just be yourself. Who cares what other people think? Anyone who chooses to disrespect you for being you isn't worth your time and energy. You really shouldn't give a person that much power. People who torment other people have such issues that they feel the need to come down on others to make themselves feel better. I was tormented in some way shape or form from grammar school until I completed high school just for having a brain and not subscribing to what other people thought I should be. Don't get me wrong, it hurts but you will get through it. As far as retribution is concerned, karma has a way of biting ignorant folks like that in the behind. Please, please, please do not harm anyone! It's not worth it. This may sound trite but you may want to talk to a counselor, someone who isn't biased. It helps, it helped me.

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