
ccf0005701
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Have your computer on this Question when she is in the room and leave to use the restroom and have her look at the screen. |
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1-202-521-9121
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You're not obligated to tell your mother anything if something illegal happened or you feel that you were raped I would suggest talking to a case worker at Child Protective Services or calling your local Police Department. |
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Stinky
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Talk in code to her, tell her your cherry has been popped and she will understand. |
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beautifulNHmomma
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just tell her "mom, i love you, BUT i have had sex and i didn't like it". SIMPLE. A word of caution....wear eye plugs. |
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browneyedmaiden
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Oh my. This is pretty young. Try being honest with her. I hope it doesn't turn into a screaming match, but you'll feel better about it once you tell her. |
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lincman90
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I wouldn't tell her. Sometimes there are things we parents just don't want to know... |
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Cstorm
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It's okay to set boundaries when you want to have a conversation. Say, "Mom, I want to talk to you about something, but first I want to set some rules..." The one that comes up alot is yelling. "I'm not going to yell at you and I don't want you to yell at me." |
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thewindexqueen
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I didnt tell my mother but she found out anyways because she likes to go through all of my stuff...
I wouldnt tell her. 14 is pretty young. |
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Miami Chef
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Well first of all expect her to be upset and dissapointed, but sit her down and just say it, she will respect you for being honest and truthful with her, and her trust in you will grow in time. Do not get into an argument with her, just camly tell her and expect her to be shocked then cry. |
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kurtmohr
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its not her body but yours, dont tell her exactly, but drop hints. and let her figuer it out. or just tell her the truth. Mom, me and ____ hasd sex two years ago mom. you dont have to like it but thats over i already did it. maybe he was a mistake but I can't fix it now. but thought you should know... |
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moopMASTER 2000
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just tell her straight forward. |
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shinyhiny90
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I haven't told my mom yet so when you do find the answer tell me....brit |
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Crisp-143
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the best thing is just be honest, She won't think your bad. There isn't anything you can do about it now . She will be there for you .If you don't say anything it's going to eat at you and cause you problems You can do it!!! |
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bongorboy2005
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This is a touchy one. I suggest a planned talk. Sit down and plan what you want to say. Tell her you need to tell her something and you just want her to listen. Before you tell her, tell her you want to tell her and then if she gets angry, tell her you still want to discuss it with her, but POLITELY say "You may need to take some time to calm down before we discuss it." Try to prepare her, but don't hide it. You don't need to be specific with the whos and whens now, but let her know that at some time you WILL tell her. Remember, your mother is your first best friend. |
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joefat410
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you DON'T tell her! and you don't put your real pic on here either!! unless everyone already KNOWS your not a V. |
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qaistars
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say... mam im not virgin ;) |
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