
frodosgirl15
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Easy: DUMP HIM!! If he's hitting your friends and family, he clearly has anger management problems and has absolutely NO respect for you! Dump him NOW before he does worse things to you or someone else you love! |
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howlincoyote
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Whoa here you have an abusive boyfriend that hits your family and friends? Why number one are you his girlfriend and allowing this person anywhere near you or others you care about. As for controling him, forget it, he needs HELP, professional help and the sooner the better, or he WILL end up in jail.
Also please keep in mind that trying to control anyone other than yourself is an exercise in futility. It doesn't happen. |
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lala
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love controls it all. If the boy really likes you he will do anything for you. You could try controlling the effects that would cause your boyfriend to hit them. It might probably be your family members or friends that is making your boyfriend hit them. If it is your boyfriend's problem then tell your boyfriend to stop it and if he doesn't then say you will brake up with him. |
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landoflookbehind
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He needs to control himself. |
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naturalway42
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Physical Hitting: STOP THE RELATIONSHIP ASAP - as per above advice.
Flirting / Hitting: Still the same answer, but not ASAP try to sort out things if possible ... |
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kmcpmgoodson
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If he is hitting people you need to dump him before you become a domestic abuse victim. |
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yyy's
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call the cops on this sadistic psycho! |
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pgg90789
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anger management or the p-o-l-i-c-e. |
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a L a Y N a
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He has to control himself and YOU need to leave him before he starts hitting you.
I had a boyfriend who hit me. The first time I was so stunned. I tried to make excuses for it. HE hit me a few more times. Then one day we were arguing and he had me on the bed choking me. That was ONE of the scariest moments in my life. I couldn't breath and the look on his face... My dad and brother-in-law were in the next room and Ioculdn't even scream for them. That day when he let go, I was just so tired of explaining bruises and having him hit me. I took an aerosal can and beat the **** out of him! I ended up having to go to the ER because my hand and wrist swelled since I hit him over 100 times. We could have easily killed each other that day. Been another statistic. Don't let yourself fall into the same trap of trying to explain and give excuses for him ok? Get out now. |
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Justus
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You can't! It is very distrubing that he hits anyone. You need to find a new boyfriend before he becomes even more dangerous!
Good luck and stay safe! |
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notthemamas1
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Break up with him. Call police and file charges. If he hits others one day he will hit you. |
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kjnsr
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my first thought is to shoot him to defend them |
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john_factorial
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SHOOT HIM IN THE FACE. |
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someoneforme
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If he's hiting you or your family and friends he might not be the right person for you to be with. If he loved you so much all you need to do is talk to him about it maybe he will listen. |
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