tigrisow
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just be careful what you say to him from now on...it doesn't mean you have to terminate the friendship...now you know that you can't trust him with certain data...
when my best friend told stuff about me, i just decided that the only info i'd tell that person would be stuff i don't care if the whole world knows...i'd never tell my secrets to that person again, but we can still have fun and joke around...
people aren't perfect and you'll never find a friend who hasn't blabbed something about you to someone else, whether their loved one or parents or another friend or whatever...so if other than not being able to keep his trap shut, he's a pretty good friend, then just don't tell him sacred stuff...but you'll be disappointed if you try to look for friends who'll never leak your secrets...you'll never have any...just learn who you can trust with what... |
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Weston
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You stop calling him your friend. End. |
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ttoommaa
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You don't deal with them, with both of them, at all. One of them talked about you behind your back and the other one didn't have dignity to keep a promice. |
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racingcowboy58
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You could confront the friend, and get denial, or confront the person who told you, and get a run-around.
Or, tell the two-faced friend some "deep secret" that is completely bogus and see how fast that gets around. If he was the only person you shared the "secret" with and it gets out, simply banish that person from your personal kingdom and move on. No explanation is needed. |
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jen92078
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Don't worry about it! I know its hard and you are hurt because you thought that was your true friend but in time you will feel better! You don't need people like that in your life and your friend will realize what a jerk they have been |
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merrigandesign
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Loose them like a bad apple. |
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Just passing through.
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Two faced is not your friend. So really your question doesn’t need answering. Amazing how that works sometimes, eh? ;)
Take it as constructive criticism and be just as done with it as you are with two faced. |
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nbj2014
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Don't respond to them ignore the fact that they are talking about you, if they are really your friend they will realize what they are doing. Don't talk about them either it will make you just as bad as they are. I hope things get better for you. |
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MumboVonJumbo
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You need new friends. The whole group sounds like a bunch of losers. |
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Justknow
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This sounds like girlish bs. Are you sure you have a penis. Who cares what your friend is saying. Just don't hang with him anymore. Or beat him up, male animalistic nature. |
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BECKER
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beat their *** and stay away from them! |
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cloeen
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Well to being with -they are not your friend!! Just leave them alone!!! Find you a real friend!!! |
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ensjesseaccord
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***** slap em |
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NJLINA_Gold
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ignore them |
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girl_in_cali07
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let them go. |
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katiedominguez05
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the only thing to do is call them out on it. if they keep at it then it's time to throw down. |
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davidanddahlia
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I think that the best way to deal with it is like this ! Dont talk about it to this person while you are still angry. I think maybe give it a month and then once both of you have got space, go out for coffee and you will see that talking it over and resolving wont be as hard |
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baby blue
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dich her or him befor it out of hand!!! |
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blu_smerff
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Get both the friend who told you and the "friend" who talked about you behind your back in the same room. Confront the liar and find out why he or she said what they said. Then let them know just how little of a friend they are and don't talk to them again. After all, once a snake always a snake. |
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toddlj2k6
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teel them wher 2 go n find new ones |
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ta231984
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When I had a friend do this to me I cussed her out and said if I ever see her it wont be a pretty site. People like that do not have a life other than talking about people and appearently they are scared because it was said behind your back. A real friend would have said it to your face. |
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Bootylicious
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dump them or confront them! |
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chase
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Unfortunately, this happens with the people you least expect it from? If she is a really good friend and the friendship means alot to you, confront her in a civilized manner.(don't be angry) Or if she is just an aquaintance with whom you just hang out with now and again, know your limits,ignore her or just cut her off! You dont need that sort of negative energy around you especially if she says stuffs behing your back that aren't true! |
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