budyhead
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depends onhow old and/or mature you are. if you are old enough or mature enough to make good decision then stand by your decision; however if you are on the young side then they might be able to see things you cannot.
be smart. |
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Why's the rum gone? ☺☮♥ ツ♫
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Sit the parents down and ask them what it is they do not like about him. They may have a legitimate reason to dislike him. Listen to them with an open mind. Give them the reasons you like him. This will help both sides understand each other. I take it you are not old enough to be thinking in terms of "life-long." But if you are, please do not make the same mistake I did... |
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**Serenity**
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***** them! as long as yall ain't having sex in their house, it's not their buisness. trust me, your parents won't like ALOT of guys you date. |
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greeneyedevil
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They probably have a good reason for not liking him. You will probably figure out what that reason sometime during your child's first birthday party. Your out of wedlock, bastard, single-parented child's first birthday, that is. Listen to your parents. They are older than you, they've survived this planet much longer than you, and they have a much better idea of what's good for you. |
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abrinegar
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Tell them what they want to hear and do what you want to do, until the old deadbeats will open their ears to reality |
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sinner 21
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Ok this is what I did i kept it in the low the first year i didnt mention him at all but then i began 2 sneak out and after a ayear of sneaking out I just told my mom accept him because hes not going any were |
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♥pink♥
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it never works out cause that happened to me and we ending up breaking up |
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Oraclekat
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I went through this when I was 17. My mom couldn't stand my boyfriend. She thought he was rude and arrogant. Unfortunately at the time, I didn't care. I loved this guy and he was my world. It did make relations with my parents difficult. There were lots of arguments and disagreements. I said things that to this day I wish I could take back. Looking back on the entire situation, my mom was right (but don't tell her I said that). He was rude and arrogant but he was what I needed in my life at that time. I eventually moved on in life from him, found a great guy that I married and hey, my parents even like him. |
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ana
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until you don't see what your parents see in him you will have to deal with it. Maybe have talk with your parents and find out what is it that they don't like about him. They might have very good reasons for not liking him and you should not ignore their point of view. If you still not convince about it, just tell them to give him a chance and demonstrate them that he is not what they think. Remember no body knows you like your perants. A boyfriend should not be the reason for you to disagree with them. Parents sometimes could be very critical, |
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heidansim
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Did you ask your parents WHY they don't like him? Did you get an answer? Can you try to step back and think about your parents answer? Are they right?
Why do YOU like your boyfriend? Just because he's cute? Or does it also make YOU feel GOOD when he's around? He's NOT making you feel little or dumb? He's NOT trying to make you do things you know you shouldn't be doing? Do you ever think "What in the world am I doing here?" while you are with him? That'd be the time to make some changes! |
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tony2black
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Ok first you need to think about why your parents dont like him. Actually step out of your reality and look through their eyes and figure out why they dont like him. Alot of times we dont know what's best for us because we are caught up in fabrications and distorted reality. Then just relate to your parents and break up with your boyfriend. |
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bkt051905
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Always listen to your parents because they want whats best for you. I had the same experience with an ex and he dawged me. |
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c_jay_richard
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sit down with your parants and ask them why they hate him then let them the positives of this boy and explain why you love him and then you ask him over for dinner one night so you parant can get to know him better.
P.S
nexed time you see him ask him why he likes him tru love always works if there onest but make shour he answers strait away if not hes probly like you for 1 thing
i hope i was helpfull |
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