alice_mchamish
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It's not some thing you can just "deal with".
Almost getting raped is almost as bad/just as bad as actually getting raped, depending on the person you are.
I have a little experience in this (6 months through recovery process), and the most important things to remember are
a) it's not your fault. Never. Ok?
b) don't label yourself as a "victim" or a "survivor". You are neither of those. You are an individual. An amasing individual.
c) what he/she did doesn't change what you're worth, even if you may feel it changes who you are
d) People are going to surely dissagree with me at this, but even though it is important to tell people, and you should always tell someone, it can be comforting to know that you don't have to. It's your choice.
I never told anyone, but I spent four months dreading the day when I was going to have to tell someone, until I realised that I only had to tell someone if I wanted to.
There will be days when you will feel awful. But remember-
don't let him (I'm assuming) make you hate all men, and don't let him make you afraid of the people who love you.
Good luck xxx
if you need to talk about it email me at
getbettersoonxxx@hotmail.co.uk |
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dtworek2
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the past is the past. what do you have to "deal" with? |
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snoopyyoukingcaptain
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NEXT TIME,PEPPER SPRAY!!!!--OR GET A SPRAY BOTTLE AND FILL IT WITH CONCENTRATED PEPPER JUICE!!!--DOESN'T HAVE TO BE A BIG BOTTLE,BUT MAKE SURE IT SPRAYS STRONG!!! KEEP IT ON YOUR KEY CHAIN, AND BE PREPARED TO USE IT!!!---YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO DEFEND YOURSELF!!! |
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bethizmom
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I would call the police. Odds are that this person will try again. Get help and get away from this guy forever! |
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Polo2006
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this is still sexual assult. People can still press charges over the incident. I would seek legal help and find mental help. There are many organizations and hotlines out there to help a person recover from such an event |
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Answer-Me-This
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"Almost" getting rapped... well deal by getting that sicko in jail. |
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la_la_la
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Tell a relative or trusted teacher what has happened and press charges. If this person "almost" did this to you, they have probably attempted to or succeeded in raping others as well. For your protection and the protection of others, you really should report this crime and see that this person is held accountable for their actions.
In the meantime, know that it is not your fault. I would recommend seeking counseling to deal with this trauma. |
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jasong25
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You think how lucky you are that it was almost and not actually raped. |
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cowboy8347
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you can put that person in jail for the attemp to rape case. or you can kill him and tell to court that you kill him for self defense. |
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tweetheart82
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Well I was raped and first of all almost is just like being raped but anyway you want to tell the law right away who it was so it dosent happen to anyone else if your to afraid to do that as I was tell a family member and they will help you.I didnt tell anyone till almost ten years later and it was to late the guy was long gone never herd of again.But most of all know its not your fault no matter what and its NOT ok. Look for the signs now that you have exprienced this.Dont be put in the same situation. |
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Char.latte♥♥
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If you are about to get raped, scream your head off and kick the dude it the crotch. Also, tell someone and land that sucker in jail. |
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baby gurl
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well did u almost get raped. if u did u gotta tell some body and be more careful next time |
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LeLe
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Well uh you need to get help, if you cant tell an adult then tell your friend and if she is a good friend she will tell an adult for you. I actually did get rapped and it was hard for me to tell my momma so I told an my best friend and she told my counserlor. |
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mpminoc
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"Almost getting raped" is still attempted rape. Report it to the police. I personally wouldn't if it ever happened to my daughter, but I'd take matters into my own hands and deal with the consequences after. But that's just me. |
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SANDY
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This happened to me. It takes a lot of time. For the rest of your life you will have an awareness (second sense) which will help you stay out of these situations. You might want to consider talking about it to a Friend or counselor. Good luck. |
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imarriedaricks2005
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I believe the best solution is to get close to God. Pray to him and please be careful with who you hang around. If you don't want to get the police envolved go to someone you trust and get the emotions off of your chest. I was somewhat in your position once. I was in second grade and a fifth grader would always try things with me because of his curiosity and it was very uncomfortable and scary. I hope this helps you. |
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tonjagarza2
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i have been in this position before and i had to finally go to see a rape counsilor, it helps, especially when it was someone close to you that did the act |
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