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russal | How do you deal with a coworker with poor self esteem and they constantly want me to pick them up? |
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Amanda
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This is a tough one. I don't know what to tell you unless you just want to stop talking to them. I guess you could try to help them find a hobby or maybe some type of class that they may enjoy that would help them feel better about themselves. Maybe the person may enjoy a cooking class to learn something new (good if they are stuck in a rutt), they may like yoga if stressed, a good exercize class or buddy if they feel heavy or out of shape. I hope this helps |
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vanessitacool
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if he has poor self esteem maybe you should advice him to see a psychologist. About he always asking for being picked up, just tell her in a polite and gentle way, that you can do that just sometimes, but not always. |
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earlthek
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What you need to do here, I believe, is to show them a reason they should feel better about themselves. Tell them, for example, what a wonderful person they are...or that things will get better with time. If this doesn't work, I would recommend talking to a medical professional such as a psychologist or psychiatrist for advice on how to deal with this person. |
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Karmacoma
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That's tough. It may be quite a burden for you to have to pick them up all the time, but it just may be that in doing so, you are actually helping them gain self-esteem since they may be thinking you approve of them as a person when you help them.
If he/she is telling you that they feel down about themselves, take that oppurtunity to build them up. Like I said - it may not be enjoyable, but you'll have the satisfaction of knowing that you are helping someone who seeks you out for it. |
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bridget430
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Tell them to get over themselves. You don't need the agany of them brining you down with them. try to keep a distance. If they are doing one thing try doing something else. |
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mvmnexprt
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some people are so literal I'm sure by "pick them up" u mean emotionaly. so just do it. it doesnt cost you anything, but a little time and patience, it will make them feel better and maybe yourself also. you never know when you might need that from someone else. this person obviously looks up to you and sees you as a source of strength, dont let them down. |
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john112233
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Do it until you cant do it sanymore.Then pick yourself up and try again or quit |
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flowerlover12003
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The coworker doesn't have a car? Are you resenting picking this person up? To deal with low self-esteem, just be friendly and kind to this person but don't feel guilty about coworker's low esteem, which is what I'm reading into your question. |
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Kris Jean
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Unfortunately you are going to have to break the cycle. If you constantly are bringing them up, they will rely on you for it instead of searhing out real reasons as to why they are always down. Pull back a little bit as to not enable them so much.
They will do one of two things, search someone else out to pull them up, or try to figure things out for themselves, without you. |
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My approach? Be honest and tell them the truth. Tell them it makes your life harder to constantly pick them up now. Perhaps they need to find other ways to get to work. Not that you don't want to help, but it started to become inconvenient to you now. As far as poor self-esteem, there's nothing much you can do besides telling him/her this: If you don't have much self-esteem within yourself, it's hard for others to respect and love you. It is an old saying but it is so true. Love yourself before you can be loved. I have friends who constantly complain about how lonely he/she is, but it's all in the head. Also, it has to do with the way they act around others. If they are always a downer and have low self-esteem, people just don't want to be around you, period. IT's very nice of you to try doing something about that, but honey, it's not your job. They either get it, or don't |
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kckkk2003
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Get them on of Dr. Phil's books. |
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