peterbrn2003
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just put 1 foot in front of the other. i to have gone through having and not having but GOD put me here tonight to answer 4 of your questions and i think that i did a good job in doing so. its all about you and let no one get in your way turn that frown upside down and get back on the right track. www.peterbrn2003@yahoo.com if you want to chat more. |
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Nunitak
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Happiness is sharing with others and doing work that makes everything better in some way. A nice furry cat who loves you may help. Other ideas that may help can be found and developed by you if you thoughtfully read:
http://spaces.msn.com/ki_te_moana
It's sometimes not so much what we believe, as what we do. And to do well, we must continually check to see if we truly understand.
Quitting drugs is a great accomplishment. You can do many other things, far more easy...
Grieving for what is lost or self-pity will not help, better to focus on now.
Your body is mostly self-repairing and there is a doctor, too.
But everyone going through life the right way becomes a mind doctor, as least for self, if doing it the right way.
Your mind is what gets you out of the pit, or at least up on the wall of it, ready for more the next day.
Recovering from great tragedy or suffering is similar.
It would be embarrassing to lose this battle, when you consider how great resources we have compared to others.
Do it for your mother, so you can meet her with self-respect and achievement on the other side.
Music will help. Get Mormon Tabernacle Choir CD. |
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grannywinkie
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There are answers and it will take a while to hear them. First, you must find a GOOD PSYCHIRIST to get you on the right track. The problem is finding the one who can identify what your medication needs are. Pray about it.
Again, the book of Job tells it as it is. It may take a few times of reading it before you begin to undersstand that book. Our trials and tribulations are nothing compared to Jobs.
So many of us have lost everything; jobs, material posessions, homes, families................... It is how you deal with these issues. Thank God that my faith was strong enough to survive all of the losses.
Ok, after loosing everything, the answers began to come little by little. The greatest thing I learned was "No not one." When we find ourselves sitting at the dining room table alone, the answers begin to come; little by little. The material posessions and health was not restored. However, the gifts given after these trials and tribulations are so great. The losses and trials of faith are nothing to what has been given back. Pray and keep the faith. Find a good shrink to get you on the right meds; most shrinks only prescribe meds anymore. The counselors, social workers, and psychologists, are the ones who you see at therapy. Need to talk? Just go to my q&a and leave a message. Be there for you, know what you are going through. |
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Harley
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Kindred spirits you and I are.
You just described my life perfectly.
All I can say is it's a bit like rehab.... all you can do is take it one day at a time and try to the best with what you have. |
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xemor
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We all have ups and downs in our lives. For you it was a good career and a family, for others it was a child from a rape attack, paralysis from an accident or even the death of someone dearest to their hearts. It is however heartwarming to know that we have a God that loves us more than we could know or immagine. You will find hope from talking to God in prayer and studying the bible. With God all things are possible. It is important that you approach God because you want to know him and find your rest in him, all other things will be added unto you.
I wish you well and God bless you.
Xemor. |
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2D1iLuV
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i feel so sad 4u.. dont lose hope.. there's always hope as long as we're alive.. hold on 2 GOD..
whenever im in d same feeling, u know wat i do.. i go 2 church & speak 2 GOD.. i think some people stare @ me but i care less.. I need 2 open up what i feel & God is d best listener & he never fails 2 send somebody 2 help u make it through |
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summersunset15
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try listening to
Louise Hay
on tape or cd
i know this mite sound crappy
but please try it
invest in an audio Louise Hay positive affirmations
either in cd or tape
you play it before sleep and wen you first wake up
seriously
this is your solution!!!!!
Louise Hay!!! you could probably order on the net
but dont use the book
you need the tape or cd to listen to
this has helped many people
please give it a chance
good luck |
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kingchaz
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you just keep going, even if you don't see a point, even if your better judgement says not to. because, it'll be a bit better tomorrow. and better the day after that, and a little bit better the day after that. because things get better, and you know that, because you said so yourself: it's not as bad as it once was either. |
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Sheik Yerboutti
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I'm an atheist so I don't quite understand your believing in God, I think you need to believe in yourself. You are the one that will make it not someone (or something) else.
Just this morning I saw the sun, it hadn't been out here for 3 weeks now. I didn't give up hope, I know it will come out again sometime. You should see yourself in a temporary stage of life, you will go on to the next one and there may be ups and down but things will get better.
I wish you all the best! Don't be afraid to ask for help (professionally) if you really can't handle it anymore. |
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writerbynature
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First you're not alone.
Second, to help shift your focus, make a list of five things you are grateful for every day.
You are alive. You have choices and you choose health.
Do you have a home? Is your physical health good?
I find some help in the book THE ARTIST's WAY by Julia Cameron.
It's a 12-step program for artists.
It helps to think of life as a journey. Sometimes it's raining, sometimes there are curves in the road, potholes, traffic or wrong turns. But sometimes that unexpected surprise provides an opportunity to notice a soaring hawk or catch a glimpse of sunrise.
Feelings pass. I hope by the time you read this, you're already feeling hopeful again. |
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tlc7412
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Don't look at your problems--look at your source. You will find hope there..and now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen..the things you hope for will come to pass in due time and know that when one door closes another will open.Its all the process of life and when youre at the bottom there no way left but up. Have peace within yourself and a knowing that all things work together for good through Christ Jesus who DOES love you. |
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curtrock2001
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Just keep it in a day, there are no guaranties for tomorrow so don't project on what will happen the next day, try and set some goals and hang-out with people that are doing the right thing, work-out and find a hobby, you'll be ok. |
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pianogirl
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join a religious group and interact with them. listen to their good words and go back to God. |
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cowboy8347
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have faith. keep hope and try to see a conselor or me |
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uttoransen
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remember, hope againest hope hopen, |
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againstgoodygoody!
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spell it out in a paper and remove the last 4 letters- less..there it is..the word HOPE remains..take it, it's yours.. |
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hippyju
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I'm sorry to hear you are feeling low.
You have experienced the good life, then you experienced the not so good life.
Now You Feel You Are Stuck Somewhere in the Middle right?
You must accept that you cannot reclaim something that has gone. You have to build on what you have NOW, not what you had in the past.
It will be hard for you. There is a song that comes to mind, it is a song called Sit Down by the band James and a line goes 'If I hadn't seen such riches, I could live with being poor'
You need to find inner peace.
Speak to someone, your doctor, you need to sort your life out.
It's not too much of a mess and you have taken the first steps to making it better by being aware of the situation you are in.
Good luck. |
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Frankenmom
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Go find your hope in nature. Find a quiet spot in the middle of nowhere and contemplate the good things around you. At the moment with spring begun, there is hope everywhere. You get to see how everything starts anew and maybe you can find your inspiration. Put your feet into running water (sea or river) and let it draw all the dirt off your aura. Find your place in this world again and regain your strength by quiet contemplation. |
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Mya
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Go see your local priest! God will help |
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amanda
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Just have faith in yourself. A lot of people go through hard situatuions and all you have to do is pull yourself together in these hard times in your life. Everything will come together, don't feel hopeless. |
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EdHead
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like he said money isn't everything. You can't change the past so just live for today. Life is already hard, so there is no point in trying to relive certain moments. |
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cactusbed
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be strong.carry on |
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Coqui
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Wherever there is Faith there is hope money isn't everything just reflect on your past actions and try to change what you think caused theses incidents Ill pray for you so you can be with your loved ones soon |
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aatika
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keep faith in god. he have created us and know what is better. never loose faith. keep prayin. life have = happiness and = sorrow.. |
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Chantel
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You will definitely see a good life again, if you really want it. Spending too much time reflecting on the negative things in life can hold you back like chains.
Depression is the cause of a chemical imbalance in the brain, this imbalance could have been caused by the addiction you suffered (drugs?) along with the emotional loss you feel for not having your kids around. To combat the chemical imbalance I advise you taking up some kind of regular exercise, even if it just to walk for 30 mins every day. The level of serotonin in your brain will increase giving you a feeling of well being. Over time this should help combat your depressed moods.
Hopefully you will be able to think more positively and you will be able to find solutions to your other problems in life.
Having had the feeling of hopelessness myself, the best thing I can say to you is to: look after yourself ie regular exercise and eat well; meet new people - join a church or begin an evening or weekend class in a subject that interests you and take time to relax. Give it time and everything will work work.
REMEMBER: Put your trust in God, he does not give us what he believes we cannot handle!
Blessings
Chantel x |
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candy4chocolate
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life isnt meant to be perfect. just try to face ur problem and then every thing will eventually work out. be happy and smile 2morrow is a brand new day! |
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Lalji
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Keep praying. The GOD knows what to do & what time. |
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littlefoaluk
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everyone feels hopeless from time to time for you its just a bit more serious than the rest first of all each day look in the mirror and say i had it all once i can do it all again ..once i was strong and i can be strong again............as for your kids at this stage of you gaining strength for yourself you need to be on your own and who knows what the future will bring |
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tshinystar20
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well first of all you have to make sure you are putting God first and not money. our God is a jealous God and he wants to be first.God desire to be first. so make sure u are making right decision.when u get up in the morning do u start ur day off with prayer. that is a way. are u praying through out the day.that is another way. are u letting God handle ur problems. because he do not need ur help. u will be in His way. |
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