Ron C
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It doesn't seem to be polite for me to ask you a question, but one does wonder why you (a) would want to go out with someone who doesn't speak; (b) would have your friend act as a go-between (when you should take responsibility for your own relationships); and, (c) would expect for a person you don't know to behave in a way that suits you.
Maybe you should just leave the guy alone. If he doesn't answer, that's his business. Besides, it may just be possible that he's ignoring your friend because he thinks this whole approach is not to his liking - that he's being objectified. He may be uncomfortable - and he may not be interested in playing this game. |
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YouWish
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He probably thinks very little of you for having someone else do what you should have done. Why would you even have someone else do the asking for you, it shows that you aren't really into him if you can't even ask him out yourself. Now, since it's been 3times, you've basically embarrassed yourself to him and I wouldn't bother anymore, you look foolish. Not trying to be mean but this guy must thing very little of you for not having the courage to ask him out yourself. Advice: Next time, do the asking yourself. |
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If you really want him to like you, try to make him feel more comfortable around you. Some people don't talk because they are shy. If can make him feel more comfortable around you then he will open up more. Ask him questions about himself. Act like your impressed or interested in what he has to say. Even if your not. |
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shmexy
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get his email somehow. it worked 4 me. (well sort of, at least he responds) |
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Strawberry Kiwi
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Look if your friend told him 3 times that means he doesn't like you sorry. But what i can tell u is that if you start ignoring him than he is going to start looking at you and so on. He might just want to be all hard or he is trying to play hard to get kind of guy. |
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Blondie
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Just show up suddenly where he is.then get him to notice you there. |
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ZedNeon
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Why would you want too? |
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masterchief_1172
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he might be ignoring her...some guys at my school are jerks like that and they do that if they dont like a girl. |
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ChaosInc.
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Find out his interests and show that you want to really want to know more or it simply might be he is shy and doesn't know how to respond to you as a woman. As a last resort (depending how much you really like the guy) totally seduce him and give him a sexual experiance that shocks him out of his shell. Then again he might be one of those people who are just loners by nature, avoiding all familiarity with the majority of people he comes in contact with. Basically kid it's a crap shoot.....Good luck! |
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GuitarGirl
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Tell him yourself, and if he doesn't respond, ask him " Hello, anybody in there?" or you could tell him to pick you up at 6 and not to be late, that will get him to talk. |
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butterflyfrills
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maybe something is going on with him at the moment where is he unable to have a relationship with any one. maybe just talking to him and being a really good listerner would maybe let him see there is something more to you than meats the eyes. heads up shoulders back and smile. |
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mccabemaxtucker
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Maybe you should try asking him. I suggest listening to his coversations to find something incomin between the two of you. After you think he feels comfortable talking to you then maybe ask him if he would be interested in having dinner. It could be he gets offened if someone else is asking. He may feel his answer is not something everyone else should know. |
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