
g3010
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Don't be so eager to loose something that you may regret loosing at some point down the road. That is something very beautiful to walk down the isle with on your wedding day. |
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Juliart
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When you are married. If you give yourself away, no one will respect you.
Respect yourself, others will too. |
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just amanda
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i lost my virginity at age 15, because of curosity, take my advice, and save it for a long time. the guy you are with won't be there forever, and if he is then you can after a year of relationship. but yes, i would say save it for as long as you can. stuff does change after sex. |
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oohhbother
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When you are ready to spit in the eye of anybody who tries to shame you for not being a virgin. |
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~*~Paper cranes~*~
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when u r MARRIED!!!!!!!!!!!unless u want 2 be a single teenage mother. |
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McCain is lovely.
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when you are married and are positive its what you want to do. |
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lottyjoy
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What is a virgin, you might want to ask yourself. There are so many ways of expressing affection sexually. Which of these ways constitutes "losing your virginity" in your judgment? I think you'll know when you feel it ls the right time to express your love for someone with your body. Only you can be the judge of when the right time is. |
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skygreen
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When You don't have to ask that question. When you would not be losing but giving and sharing as part of a mutual expression of love.
It is best to be in a loving relationship, to be have emotional maturity, be sober.
When you feel pressured or uncertain then it is not the right time. |
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russell1775
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I am married now, and both my wife and I had sex with other people before we married eachother. Looking back on it, I can say that I wish I had waited until I was married. My wife feels the same way. Sex feels great. But it is even better, when it is with someone you love. No one can answer this question for you. It is a matter of personal choice. But we can tell you how we feel and why. You have to decide for yourself. But in my experience, I wish I had waited until I was married. I enjoyed it when I wasn't married. But now it is fantastic! If you truly love eachother, it won't matter "how good you are." Simply being with the person you love on that intimate a level is what makes it great. If you don't want to, and your bf/gf whatever wants to. Tough nuts for him/her. If you don't want to don't do it.If you don't want to don't. If you do, use protection. |
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drama_arts_queen
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WHEN YOU ARE 35...no I'm just playin'..in my opinion I would say when your absolutely sure..when you ask yourself "am I ready for sex" and you can answer confidently "YES"..there is a possibility you are..I wouldn't base it to much on emotions because your in the heat of the moment, because you'll face something your just not ready for..trust me..I know!!! |
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Elrico Delamonzo
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when you are married |
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TrayHoo
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The fact that you are asking is a sign that you have doubts. This means you are not ready. Your virginity is something sacred. Do not give yourself to any and everyone. You are worth it. If your partner is pressuring you, he/she doesn't love or respect you. |
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if u ask me i will tell u don't do it until u get married |
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dark angel
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when u are in love |
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lab_harts
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When you're no longer enjoying your own fingers...lol...just kidding!...If you can, wait 'till you got married...but I think it's next to impossible...so just give your virginity to someone you really love...enjoy! =) |
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thats it
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ONLY when youre married. |
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M.J.S
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Id have to go with chatmon. Yes when you feel you are right to do it. a lot of people say when you are married. But what if you don't plain on getting married any time soon. So i think when ever you think your ready. And dont have to second guess yourself. |
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ostraussey
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When you stop being confused/unsure about the answer to this question. It's not about marriage, but it is about trying to make it the best experience possible with someone you trust.
But seriously, try not to stress out about it. The sex you have when you lose your virginity is not the best sex you'll ever have. Also, the more relaxed you are, the better it will feel. |
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fftl_fftl
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when u get married! but if u cant wait do what ur heart says, just be careful dont do anything if u'r not sure, and if u do loose it use pretection, unless you want to get pregnet. just be careful and feel pressured!!!! |
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littlered
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when you are married and so sure that you couldnt think that it could be otherwise. |
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brian_griffin54
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when ever you fill like it nobody can tell you when..only you can tell yourself when you wanna lose it |
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keepinstrateup
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.. After you are married.. (it makes your honeymoon rock!) ;) |
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ahs_jammer88
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i will definitely wait til i'm married. but you gotta make your own choice, i just gotta say, i'm pretty sure you won't regret waiting |
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michelle81477
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This is something you need to carefully consider because you can never go back. I would hope that you are mature enough to make this decision and understand the consequences of being sexually active. Talking to someone you can trust that is older is great (like a parent ideally, or an aunt etc.). There are so many things that will change, emotionally, physically, you really need to make sure that you are ready. I hope that you would chose to lose your virginity to someone you know you can trust and love. |
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rock n roll
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i'm with Julieart inside marriage is best wait and it'll feel great if you wait |
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emzy
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when you are married. trust me... to the man u luv and adore in the end... u owe everything u've got... |
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babygrlcutie350
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when your maridd anless you get a divores |
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chatmon26@sbcglobal.net
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when u dont have to second guess it |
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