harmnydiva
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That's a tough situation. Just tell her "Look there's something I need to tell you that you aren't going to like, but I think you need to know." I hope she handles it well and doesn't blame you. Just be honest, talk to her, and be supportive with whatever she decides to do with the information. |
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knifelvr
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Hey. I think you should come out gently and tell her. I was in the same predicament, only I was the one being cheated on. I was told by my neighbor what was happening, and at first, I didn't believe it, but then I asked my now ex-bf and he came clean and told me everything. |
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Ashley
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hide a camera then sneak it in her room!
OR.......
If she's really you're bestfriend, she will understand! |
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DramaGuy
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Let her find out herself. |
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foxwoman172000
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That is a tough one that could get you into a lot of difficulty. If you tell her, she may not believe you and get angry. If you don't tell her and she finds out that you know then she will be angry. I think the best thing is to go to the boyfriend and tell him that you know he is cheating on her and if he doesn't tell her you will. Then be as supportive as you can to her. |
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conundrum_dragon
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Just tell her she'll be more hurt to find out that you knew and didn't tell her don't you think. |
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prilshowers
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If she is your best friend, you definitely need to tell her. Invite her over to your house. Be sure to have her favorite ice cream handy. Sit her down, and calmly tell her. You wouldn't want to know SHE knew YOUR boyfriend was cheating on you and wasn't telling you, would you?
I will say, with some people, it is best to have proof. Even if she is your best friend, she is going to be very hurt, and may take it out on you. Don't take it personally, she will thank you later. |
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thecup420
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If she is really a best friend she will appreciate your up front honesty. Just make sure you are correct in your accusation before you tell her. Tell her that you wouldnt be telling her if you didnt care about her. |
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swannmichael
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Get proof. Otherwise she'll be mad at you and won't believe you at first.
Word to the wise.
Good Luck! |
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jmbk06
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you just come out and say look i know your bf is cheating on you and you need to get rid of him!!!! Plan and simple!! |
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artist
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tell her,it will be better |
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dusty
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The Tremeloes had a hit song called " Silence is golden "
This may be good advise, if you tell her you may lose a good friend.. |
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misscroft692006
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have her fallow |
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princessht2003
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Well you just take her some where and say we really need to talk about you and your bf...Then just tell her.. |
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crazcountrygirl
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If you are a true friend you tell her the truth and then you be there for her when she needs you. |
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lbwtr92
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BEFORE indulging this line of questioning, MAKE ABSOLUTELY SURE that you have IREFUTABLE proof that duke is skeetin before you accuse him of cheatin. what WILL happen is after dealilng with him about it, UNLESS he comes clean like white sheets in hot water, detergent and bleach, he's gonna spoon-feed her a line of bull, and then she's gonna come after you all "Rage-against-the-machine" and somehow, make this all your fault. sometimes the right thing doesnt seem so right after you've done it. |
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Solaris
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you remember to act out of love. anything you do out of love is genuine. its the difference between telling her because you feel you should tell her, or you don't like him and want her to ditch him and telling her because her pain is your pain, and her joy your joy. any act of love is protected. (i believe) |
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bardia1099
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Standing up, sitting down, on the phone, in a letter, in her ear, using text messaging, using e-mail, using messenger and if you're really scared ask your other friend to tell her. |
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bragaboutme32
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if you really like your friend and dont want to lose the friendship you dont tell. If you can show her with out letting her know what your doing then do that. |
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alice_kowalczyk2002
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you should come right out and tell your friend.being honest and open is the best thing |
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