UmaCat
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That's a very vague and at the same time large question at the same time .
Be forgiving. You have to forgive yourself plus if you have done others wrong ask for forgiveness, learn from your mistakes and move on life is a learning process we all make mistakes.
GL
"Finish each day and be done with it . . . You have done
what you could; some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget
them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; you shall begin it well
and serenely."
--Ralph Waldo Emerson |
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pullmyfinger
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you can't go back into the past to "unscrew up" you life but you can, for this moment on... live your life as it should be and learn from your mistakes. It's never too late to learn. Good luck. |
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leesa
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move on and do the best you can lifes about learning from ur mistakes! |
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B0FF0
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Lemme know! Good luck! |
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quovaziay
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ask for forgiveness from all those you crossed, then try to do what's right (even if its the hardest thing to do) |
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saramah66
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By trusting yourself and loving you!
make you the priority rather than others!
never forget you are the expert of your life and you can unscrew your life like no one could!
Good luck! |
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Elegantly Black
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First and foremost be happy with what ever you have got in your life and forget about the past, because you know what "best thing of the past is its over".
Spend sometime with yourself and see what you wanna do with your life may be jot down all the things you wanna do. It might be anything right from simple things like taking vacation to doing crazy things like bungee jumping. You are the ruler of your own world. The Queen, is in you , bring that queen out of your shell and let her rule you. Do whatever makes you happy, dont do things because other people like it.
Most important free your mind and relax, everything happens for the best and whatever is going to happen in future is also going to happen for the best. Have a lil bit patience and give yourself time bring back things in your life, sometimes it might be frustrating but thats a test of your inner skill and capability to come out of and excel and show the world that how strong you are and nothing in this world can shackle you again.
Most important princess, just Live the life your way and live it to fullest. |
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princess angel 2207
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by having confidence in yourself, trying harder to suceed. good luck. i need it too. had made to many mistakes. |
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starjessiegirl
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keep in simple with one day at a time.. |
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Blondeheiress
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Read the book, a Purpose Driven Life. |
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lovebug
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just face up to whatever you did, look back and do not make the same mistakes again. cut yourself some slack and try everyday to live how you want to live. |
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skygreen
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Baby steps, Don't try to do everything at once. Define the problem,set your goal focus on what you want the end result to be instead of on the problem, break it down into steps or segments, discover solutions, plan your action, Do one step at a time.
Without knowing what particular kind of screw up your life is in it is difficult to give a definitive answer. Forgive yourself get on with the changes you need to make but don't spend time wallowing in regrets and don't expect others to instantly forget the screw up situation of the past. |
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Frodo Baggins
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Pray. :) |
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Polo2006
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Take time and start with a clean slate. Sometimes a move will help or a change in schools. It takes time to clean up loose ends. Concentrate on your future and in time everything will work out. |
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Survivor
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Best way is to start over and correct your wrongs the best way you know how. and If people won't let you correct them, wipe the dust off your feet and keep moving on. |
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g3010
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Don't make the same mistake twice. |
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The Mac
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Go with god.
Unconditionally.
Read or listen to the song "Amazing Grace."
I've been around a few sharp turns and found my life to be void of true happiness and freedom. My vice was what destroyed me.
When I gave my life to God two years ago, everything changed.
In return, I was given favor, laughter, and happiness.
"I once was lost, but now have found. Was blind, but now I see>' |
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baby angel!
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Well....move on and start all over again....If you think people you know have great lives and they are always on track...no...they are more screwed up than you think.
Best Wishes. |
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lilyflower
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do the opposite of screw.
Lily $_$ |
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bryan
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Simpe. Stop trying to fix things yourself and give it to God. He will lead you down the right path. Let go and let God. Hope this helps you and hope you turn your problems over to Him as he is the only one who can truly help you and will not fail you. |
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pr1ncezz
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Get your sh*t together. Do the things you know you need to do, & stop procrastinating. If what you want seems financially out of reach, research financial aid/grants/loans. You can do that online or at your local library. |
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dpacman
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Things generally look worse than they are. Depending on what you screwed up, there are many things you can do. Start by doing things in a manner you would be proud of from now on. If possible, atone for your past "screw ups". If not, forget about them and concentrate on what you can do... |
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RevengeWillBeSweetForTroy
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Although I respect all the answer that simply say GOD, I beg to differ. God gave you the intelligence to solve problems and saying "GOD will fix it for you, just sit and pray etc" can't be right.
The fact that you are aware your life is screwed up means you already started solving problems. Take one step at a time, and start with the smallest easiest things to fix, (may even be as small as organizing/cleaning your living space) when you are done tackling all the smallest problems take bigger ones. Each problem solved will make you stronger and better equipped to solve the next one. |
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Alex
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Sell all your stuff, change your identity, and move to Switzerland. |
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vjl279
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First: Know Thy self
Second: to thy ownself be true
Cliche yes, true definitely!
You are going to have to take some time and learn about who you are. What you want and then do it with passion. Approaching life half-heartedly is always a mistake.
Why? because you are drifting. You are running with people who have no anchor. Likewise that means you have no anchor either. you lack focus so you go where your emotions takes you.
That means you have to learn via the pleasure pain priciple. You will bring as much pain upon yourself as you can stand. Before you come to learn about who you are and what you really want.
I suggest that you begin taking the inner journey. Find out about who you are. Where your passions are so that you can find your personal area of focus.
Concerning past screwups. You have to wade through it. It is part of the learning process. Dealing with consequences of past actions. However the future is yours to do with as you wish.
Take it one day at a time. Your gift from God is the present day he provides you with every morning. Do something postive with it! |
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KRM
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praying, work hard, be your self, dont have sex often or early, and dont do drugs. |
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mrs.izabel
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Set a goal for yourself and make a list on what you need to do in order to acheive your goals. Work on crossing off your list one at a time and you'll get there. Keep your focus and before you know it, your life is in order. |
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kaleenalynne
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Move on, Also it would be a good idea to take a class or do an event that you are interested in, hobbies, crafts, fishing, anything to improve your confidence. I am taking a real estate course and its helped me improve into the person I want to become. |
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dumbunny33
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First pray for forgiveness. Then understand and believe taht you are forgiven and then start new. Use what you learned from your past mistakes and make good choices one step at a time, one situation at a time. As time goes by, things get better and better. Good luck, God Bless |
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lunerchick2001
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Take a step back...and start over |
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kynamijonesss
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understand that life is all about living and learning... Start at the point where you are and build from there...Kynami |
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