HearKat
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Considering how young she was, I would think that she would like to know about you and how your life has been. Most reunions seem to be happy ones, but I'm sure there are also risks for some hurt feelings as well. So you need to be sure you're really up to handling all the possible outcomes of contact with her. Also, it is good to have some knowledge of your biological family's medical history, especially for when you want to have kids of your own. It may take a while to find her, so be patient. Good Luck! |
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Smiles
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I would at least look for her and write her a letter. This way it will help you and maybe even her. The problem with it is if she does not want to see or talk to you. If that happens, you need to be able to deal with it. I found out I had a different father. I found him and talked to him on the phone once. He was going to call me back but never did. I found out he is afraid that I want something from him. My husband was adopted and found his birth mother. THey talked and she introduced him to the rest of his family. After about a month of meeting everyone and getting along well even with his newly found brothers, they have not spoken in over 2 years. Figure out what is right for you and just do it! |
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GuyaneseGyal
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only if u want to.Thats up to u.Good Luck!!! |
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scentualeyes
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I can't answer that for you, but I can tell you this... My boyfriend has a son somewhere out there. He doesn't need a home phone, but has one and keeps it listed just incase his son wants to find him. He's never come right out and said it, but I know that it would mean the world to him if his son did look for him and find him. I'm sure your mother hasn't let a day go by without thinking of you. And my guess is that she'd love for you to find her. |
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Skinny Kid
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well if you ever find her name, then reaseach her a bit. If she has no problems with the police or anyting, i say go for it. I would love finding my real parents, so u can compare your looks to hers. It would be intresting to find out why she put you to adaption but if she was fifteen when she had you then i guess it was her parents that forced her to put you on adaption. |
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dtburdick
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I would, but be nice about it. Remember it was a HUGE decision she made. The reason I would is two-fold. A) You can potentially establish a relationship, and B) the medical history could be good to know.
Don't be disappointed if she isn't willing or able.
Best of luck and be happy with whatever happens. Your adoptive parents love you all the same I'm sure. |
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this is life
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You have the right to know your real mother....go ahead, do some research, ask your parents that you have now if they know anything about your real mother. Call the hospital you were born in.....It is up to you...your the one that feels...I think every adoptive person wants to meet their biological mother..... |
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jamielynngirl06
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my sister did but its up to you!!!!!!!!! |
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spiderlover128
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I would say it totally depends on you. As blunt as this is, it could be really painful to find her. You might not like what you find. But I do think it would be good in the long run if you can handle it. Do you think you are mature enough? If so, I would say go for it. And it could also turn out really good. |
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a L a Y N a
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Only if you want to. I feel that the woman who raised you is your mother. While the girl gave birth to you, you have a bond with the woman who raised you due to life's experiences. However the girl probably gave you up because she did love you and want to provide you with a good life. I would personally find her and contact her and see where it leads from there. You might be lucky and have two moms who love you very much. |
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kjcs_angel
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First you should find out ABOUT her, b/c you don't want to be right in front of her, and it end up being a big let-down. If you like what you find out, then yea, go find her.
If not, then it wasn't meant to be.
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