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First you must stick with people who are not depressed. Depression is contagious. It really is. Hang out with peoples who are energetic and optimistic. As for work and boss, screw them. You must find your true identity, as what Steve jobs says, you must love what you are doing. Find out what you love, and pursuit it. Single? Sometimes it is blessing in disguise. (Too many people who married are actually live in hell). Competency problem will not exist if you can find what you love to do. |
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Bubba
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one day at a time find yourself a hobby or take up exercise that might pump up your mind as well as body but mostly be HAPPY!! good luck (how about a pet?) |
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BritMarie
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Then do something about it. Find things to do that make you feel young. Get out and meet someone, and find a job that you enjoy. Good Luck! |
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kellijo
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You're not alone. You're not the only one that dosen't like their boss or their job. You're not the only old person in life. You're not the only single person around. And we all feel incompetant at times. Life does get better. |
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mheibhelle
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no... wait the time for you. Let God come into your heart and understand why is this happen to your Life.. Be patient. |
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themisslita
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Don't give up this to shall pass. We all feel this way from time to time. I am sure you are competent but, if your boss is making you feel incompetent maybe you need to seek another job. Thing will get better and I will pray for you. God bless you. |
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rednotdead1976
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I know it is hard but try not to let your life be defined by your job, and try and get one you are more interested in- that way you will not feel incompetent- I recently had a chance to go for a job that would have increased my salary very substantially but I knew I would not enjoy it as much as mt current one- look at your priorities and see if they really are yours or some that have been pushed upon you by a capitalist consumerist society- set your own agenda for living |
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bubbles
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take a holiday were children have no food or drink,and ask them how they rate your life i bet that they would all swap with you.Life is what you make it mate |
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fizzle
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Why dont you jump into a river and count to 1million. |
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gigigagagugu
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I feel the same way too. Don't worry.. for all I know, we lived. =) |
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joanneinstonebrewer
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But why? if you're so sick of your life why don't you do something about it? Try reading the Bible. Get a Youth Bible, it has sections which helps people with different problems in their lives, and you might find some useful things in there. Hang on in there mate, don't give up now, there is still a chance for you're life to turn upside down for the better. |
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foxymox12
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You are doing great! you took the first step already by reaching out for support and help. Maybe try to make new friends, or find new hobbies don't let the little things about life get ya down! If you don't like your job try to start looking for a new one. If you feel incompetent doing what you are doing now find something that is more of your stronger suit. I felt this way just a couple months ago and I am already feeling so much better. Maybe try online dating if you have trouble meeting people. I'm an attractive 25 yr old woman and it has worked for me. Break out of your shell and life life! It's never to late for anyone! |
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