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Maggie | I don't like that I like cutting myself? |
I accidently cut myself a week ago...with a knife. Call me weird, but I kind of like the pain. So today I cut myself again...but this time in purpose. This is not normal, and I just can't hold myself, It just makes me feel ALIVE! I donno. I need help. Any suggestions? |
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iAmGirl
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Yep...STOP! |
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TheProfessor
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If you knew how many girls at your school are cutters you would be shocked. It's serious and it's treatable. Please talk to a school counselor, trusted teacher, or your doctor. It's a little embarrassing to tell someone face-to-face, but the adults I have mentioned know a lot about what's going on with girls like you and you'll feel lots better when you have someone to talk to and help you. I was a middle school principal for a few years and our counselors helped girls every year with the very same issue. You aren't as strange as you think and yes, in a way that the counselors can help you understand, it does make you feel alive. It's a substitute though for really feeling alive in a good way and it won't last forever. If you don't get help there's a lot of dangerous stuff down the road. PLEASE! Let someone professional help you. |
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jennygump98
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seek professional help... immediately. you have some major stuff going on in your life, and you won't stop hurting yourself until you address these important issues. |
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Monika Lewinskeeze
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you need to check out this site
http://www.nshn.co.uk/ |
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waterfall lover
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Cutting on yourself is a form of self-mutilation. This behavior is usually seen in people that have a deep-rooted problem/issue going on in their life. It becomes a ritual for self-soothing in a paradoxal way. I heard a story of a girl that was molested by her father and she didn't feel like she had any emotions or feelings left inside her until she cut on herself. When she felt the pain, she knew she was still alive. Many people who have been abused in some way, or have borderline personality disorder, or severe depression turn to self-mutilation as a means of comfort. However, this does pose a very serious health risk and potential of accidently going too far and committing suicide. I would reccomend talking to someone about what is bothering you and you will find a better way of releasing your feelings and emotions. Please go to the community health center or somewhere where you can find a counselor to speak with. |
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somerandominternetperson
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Get a shrink. Stay away from sharp objects. |
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timvansickel
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That's usually a sign of deppression, but it doesn't have to be. My advice is to stop, i've seen people so into it they cut in at an angle, and then at an opposite angle, and pull out big triangles of skin the whole width of their arm, i've also seen people cut repeatedly one direction up their whole arm, literally a sixteenth of an inch apart up their whole arm, and then cut all the way down in the opposite direction to form a cross hatch. These scars are there for life, imagine being a completely different person at 30, trying to get an office job with decent pay (you may think you'll never want that but alot changes with age, trust), and you go into an interview and they see scars all up and down your arm. Automatic no hire. People associate it with psychosis, even crappy jobs don't want psychotics working for them. I'd also really suggest quitting by yourself NOW, because if someone finds out it can get you in a whole lot of trouble, mental hospital status(no joke). |
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ttthhhrrreee
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Yes, I suggest you seek professional help. I suggest this course of action because this sort of pleasure can spiral out of control and you could seriously injure yourself or others. If you are in school then just speak to a counselor about it. Also inform your parents. Don't be ashamed, this particular pleasure is actually much more common than you expect. |
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deerolmind
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tell god he will help,or should i say ask god for help tell him u love him |
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trenee10
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This has become widespread, but some have been able to stop this destructive habit. Do you have a counselor that you can go to, or and adult that you can trust? I read that this habit is a way for people to 'let off steam or pressure'. Go to "www.watchtower.org" and type in you question in the "search window" (like: cutting myself, hurting myself). It is totally confidential and they won't contact you unless you want them too. |
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eckhart
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I suggest you stop.
You cut for the same reason people jump out of planes...
It stops you from thinking briefly. You forget your problems.
Try meditating. |
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skytra
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No good is going to come of cutting yourself, even if you think it helps, BELIEVE ME it doesn't.
That said, you're not the only one doing it or who has done it... Look into this website: http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/mental_health/cutting.html
and remember there are many other (safer) ways to deal with your problems and feel more alive. |
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Fenatic Floyd
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obviously you're a pain junky...
definitly look into getting a tattoo...
or for the really brave...
body suspension..
have hooks put into your back and hang there..
it's a real art |
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yourgporyourhp
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Lots of stupid emo/goth kids are into this sort of thing and it's really sick. It's a good thing that you realize this is a problem. You need to stop before you get comfortable with it.
If you need something harsh or violent to let out stress or something there are plenty of good things you can do instead of cutting yourself. Try fencing or archery or find a LARP group. |
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vampirepixie
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I know that you know already and that everyone's told you a thousand time but cutting is not good. I used to cut and now i have big scars all up my wrists.I would use bobby pins to take the blades out of pencil sharpeners because after experimenting with broken glass, kitchen knives, barbed wire, and scissors i found that they cut the deepest with the least effort. But now it's embarrassing, i have to wear long sleeved shirts because when people see my scars they decide i'm some sort of freak and make up some excuse to leave. So stop cutting 'cause i said so!!! |
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oscar
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you're right...you need help. |
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ii_scorpion2772_ii
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LOL i've been to that... well you know why you do that... is beacuase your not completelly enjoying your life.. go out more and explore more.. find the things you love doing more than cutting your self...
Trust me this is real.. if you could just look at my arms body... lol |
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spank_this_girl85
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You like pain cool, Pintch your-self instead. Don't hurt your-self. What's more important to you, your life or a few secounds of pain and a life time of ignorant scars? |
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baby girl...
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Yeah I used to like the feeling of a knife in my arm but really it doesn't help. It's all in your mind. I wouldn't advise doing this again. I've been fortunate to not have scars, but I know plenty who do. Then you'll spend th rest of your life having people look at you and think you're a freak. Life is what you make it, it's all in how you take it. Find another activity that thrills you, one that doesn't involve self mutalation. If you don't feel you can get over this alone, there are many places that offer help. Take care. |
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