Leece
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Learn to love him more. He's obviously crying out for help. I am reading this book called "for women only" and it's all about men. I have learned so much about my husband from this book and about how they really feel.
Good luck and just try to cope with your Dad's moods. He does love you, he's probably just stressed. |
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Karmacoma
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Get a new Dad.
I hear they're pretty inexpensive these days. |
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inuyasha girl
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try and talk to him about this. i know how you feel cuz i have been through the same thing. it may take a lot of practice, but you should talk to him. before your talk, you should practice what you are going to say. do this a few times until you think you have the courage to really go up and talk to him. you can also e-mail him or write him a letter. those always help if you still don't think that you are ready to talk to him in person. well, i hope this helps you and i hope your dad changes what he is doing!!!!! |
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Fifteen steps, then a sheer drop
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This sounds like it might be a serious problem. Talk to a school counselor or any other adult. |
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Mom
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I didn't love mine either.He is dead now and I still don't love him but when he was sick I did all I could to help him. He didn't do his duty to me ,my siblings or my mother but I did to him.Just stay away from him as much as you can.I feel for you and you are in my prayers. |
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bobweb
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Talk to your Pastor, Priest, or Rabbi at your place of worship. If your family doesn't go to church, ask that you be allowed to attend at least once per month. Then get to know the people that go to your neighborhood place of worship, including the Pastor, Priest or Rabbi. Ask him how you should feel about things that are happening in your family. |
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Mickey Fangirl
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get outside take a break |
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duc602
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try looking down in his face when they close the coffin lid and tell him that. you have a dysfunctional family who needs counseling. |
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fexy_bug
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move out... thats what i did and it worked out great for me |
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carninuz1
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Talk to your dad about it. If your dad gets aggresive than just move out. |
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Nana
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I wish my step-dad would yell at my mom. Instead his always up in my grill. I advise u 2 stay out of it. If he puts a hind on either of you. that's when you call the cops or something. If your mom can't stop him from yelling at her. Then u can't. I no from past events. If it gets bad, then get some 1. B careful. |
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flowers70
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That sucks, im sorry to hear this. Try to stay away from that, and try to be happy. |
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Pharo
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I think you should have a one-on-one conversation with your dad about how you feel. If you don't feel you can talk to him by yourself ask someone else of his age that you know he has respect for to be a mediator. When talking to him somehow reflect how you might respect him: I've learned that people are more receptive to any forms of communication if all of it isn't bad. |
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kate
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talk to him |
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funnyfatty22
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deal with it you will appreciate him when you are in his position |
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slycye99
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call the cops and say he touched you in your special places youll never see him again........... now dont you feel like a jerk for hating your dad what do you think your mom would do now that hes in jail??? good job homewreaker |
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BlueGuitar68
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That sucks! I feel awful for you as well as your mom. When I was a kid I went through something similar. My dad would yell all the time at my mom and totally ignore my sister and me. Eventually it seemed so totally normal that it didn't shock me anymore, until my parents divorced. I spent a lot of time wishing they were back together, even though I knew they were miserable, but when my mom remarried 2 years later I couldn't believe the difference! No one ever yelled and it just seemed so bizarre that it took me more than a year to get used to it!
Unfortunately you can't really help your dad, because what he needs is counseling. Yelling at people (as you know) is no way to get what you want, but that's not something you'd be able to tell him and have him believe. He really does need to see a qualified therapist who can help him get in touch with why he's so angry. There may be a million reasons for his poor behavior, but if he can't control it at home and give you and your mom the respect you deserve, then he needs to get help immediately.
This may sound a little silly, but perhaps you could draw him a picture of how his yelling makes you feel, or about what he looks like to you when he's yelling. My two daughters will occasionally draw me pictures about how they feel, and they always carry so much more meaning to me than many other modes of communication.
Lastly, here's a recommendation: After you've collected all the answers you'll be getting from the people who will post to you here, print out the whole thing and mail it to your dad at work in an envelope with no return address. He'll know it came from you, and he'll see how others feel about your situation. That would be really, really tough to ignore.
I wish you the best of luck! |
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me
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you don't love you're own dad???? |
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bonbonboricuoso
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see if you can get emancipated become declared an adult by a judge if you a minor and start your own life your mom try to convince her to talk with him or leave him whichever works better |
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nicendecent
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jsut be patient and be nice with him ,maybe seeing u being nice , even if he yells will make him realise his blunders and he be nice |
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Jaber
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Join the club. Snob him! Leave him hanging ALWAYZ. It works for me! |
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tin_ trunk
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What sort of work does he do, Maybe it is just the work that makes him crankey, Can you ask him why he picks fights with your mum and if he is not gonna yell at you ask him to stop fighting with your mum tell, him how rotten it makes you feel. goodluck I hope things work out for you. |
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wildcatzty
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Spend time with him and look at it from his shoes has he been working all day?>??? |
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pink_pretty_petals
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Just express how you feel when he comes home from work ask him can you talk to him for a moment, it's important then tell him how you feel. Are write him a letter, and put it in his dresser or coat pocket, sweater, or shirt that you know for a fact he is going to wear the next day, trust me it works, because i did the same thing and next thing i know we are going out t o dinner, and to the Park! |
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