roy13o3
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Hi there.
Hate is a very strong word and i know what hate is; i have maybe the same years old than you when i learn it.
I realize thats not the answer to anything cause hate only harms you nothing else.
Is normal to teens feel like this or thing u hate when the real thing is inside you with changes in you body and feelings trying to fit and at the same time looking for to be individual.
We are intelligent beings. Try to understand you make councios the problem (like teach in school to solve a math problem first you need to have all the "data" then u find ways to solve it):
1)if is for abuse (verbal is abuse too) then the police, your school or child services can help.
2)if rules or feel that u can breath cause they are all over u Try talking and set rules for them too Negotiate is very difficul i know (more when have 14 years but less than be independent) be patient try it
3)if is for being a teen. Look for some help for the transition.
4)if u relly want to live in other place. Then do it but do it right not leave to the adventure cause is dengerous to u Think about options money, home, i recomend dont leave the school by any reason, etc. |
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Jujeaux
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Your mind will change many times on this issue, but for now
You have 4 years till you can make a go of it by yourself,
Just remember this fact 4 years is not very long to wait when you figure you have maybe 70 years to do what your heart pleases yep thats right if you can just wait 4 measely
years. and 1 day you will think all of this to be just funny. Trust me on this there is nothing out there for you now.Just wait! Please. think about it. |
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Katetrinity
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Almost every 13-14-15-16-17 year old hate their parents, sibs and almost everything else, except maybe some of their friends. That feeling is called hormones. It's something(believe it or not) that will pass. And believe it or not there is not a human on this planet that has not felt the way you do right now........Even YOUR parents have felt this way...
The bad part of this is the only thing that will solve this is AGE and GROWING. It does go away, that I can promise you.
The only thing that I can tell you to do right now, at this point in time, is stay busy with activities. Do whatever you are interested in, sports, dance, whatever. Keep busy!
Study and get enough sleep.....
Yeah, I know what you are thinking right now..... |
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pimple_girl88
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do not hate your own family......contact me and tell me more, so I can help you |
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Neodiogenes
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Deal with it, mostly. Every teen goes through this phase, it's normal.
Maybe you could get a scholarship to a boarding school and live away from home for a while. You might change your mind about how bad it is. Especially after you have to eat boarding school food for a while.
Another possibility is to spend a year abroad after you get to high school. Again you might be able to get a scholarship if you can't afford it, but it's a great way to learn about other cultures. Of course, you'll have to study hard to learn another language, but that's part of the fun. |
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pannekc
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You have to bare in mind, they are still your parents. Without them you are not here. If you still want to leave them please do it. But not for too long. until everything calm down and as usual.
Think twice before do something
(what about ur study, life, money, home) |
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qt30hamilton
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Suck it up buttercup. Are you being abused or just don't like the rules you are given?
Welcome to the teen world. Enjoy it cuz the real world is a VERY long battle |
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brattgirl1369
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HONEY YOU ARE ONLY 14. I WAS LIKE YOU AND I WAS ON MY OWN AT 15. BELIEVE ME THIS IS THE EASIEST TIME IN YOUR LIFE RIGHT NOW. YOUR PARENTS ARE PROBABLEY TRYING TO GUIDE YOU IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION BUT YOU JUST DON'T REALIZE IT YET.WORKING FULL TIME AND PAYING BILLS IS MUCH HARDER THAN BEING ABLE TO SIT AT YOUR COMPUTER AND HANG OUT WITH FRIENDS. WHO BOUGHT YOU YOUR COMPUTER AND WHO PAYS THE INTERNET BILL??? TRUST ME HONEY, THIS IS JUST PART OF GROWING UP AND THIS TOO WILL PASS.. GOOD LUCK LOL |
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~niknak~
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wait until your 17-18 and move out, i had to wait too. just ignore them |
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kiwi007v1
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girl...that is just plain sad that you hate your parents and if you are 14 there is nothing you can do but making up with your parents!!!or you could call a police # if you are being abused. |
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dark angel
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you have to deal till u r 17 |
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wellbeing
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Are you being abused? If so call 976-kids, I think that's an 800 number. If you are just having problems getting along - talk with your school counselor or call family services and see what resources they have in your area to help families get along better. |
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DF5
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If you think you an live on your own, file for emancipation. |
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Jen Hates Evil Empire Starbucks
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sweetie, that situation is normal to teens like you...just deal with it until you are old enough to live on your own.
you'll miss your family i assure you when you do! |
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leli11987
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Well, That life for u.. its normal u just gotta live with it for now....try talking to ur parents tell them how u feel...then they'll stop and if the do it again remind them......all u can do for now is talk to them , ur not losing anything ...i know i had a couple of talks with my parents......they'll come around... if nothing changes then u gotta wait until u go to college and sleep in a dorm because rent now a days cost a lot of money |
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luleesofo
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they cant be that bad |
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