I have a bully and i cant beat him up but i just cant. any advice?

I can beat him up but I cant i just freeze
I have many advantages and can mess around with his life, but i just cant! When i face him i just cant do it.
I also know that my bullie's true identy is a wusss and i want to beat him up but i just cant... should i just leave it alone?
I JUST CANT SAY It, I JUST FREEZE UP AND THINK OF THE DISADVANTAGES AND AFTERMATH.

i get what ur sayin i go thru the same thing and well u say this dudes really a wuss so just scare the **** out of him by just threatining him or if u can think of anything just show him that u can and will beat the crap out of him if nessecary just scare him a lil bit dont actually hurt him im sure he has a good heart like u

If you get in a fight with the bully, he/she will most likely not bother you again. A show of aggression will most likely make him think twice before bugging you gain. A fight is that bad. At a young age, they're not strong enough to really hurt you and the pain is very minimal. It hurts more to fall off your bike.

I am going to answer this question assuming your are in schol, but since I'm not sur how old you are, all of this might not apply. I answered a similar question a couple of weeks ago ...

... do be assertive, but even if you feel you are strong enough to fight the bully, don't. Bullies don't usually pick on kids who are stronger than them.

Bullies don't go away. It is true that bullies are cowards, and tend to back down when people stand up to them, but bullies also seek revenge. I don't know how old you are, but this problem needs to be dealt with. Unless bullies are stopped, they tend to get worse and worse, not better.

If this is happening at school, most schools have someone you can go to so that some adult will know about what's happening and can begin to stop it - a guidnace counselor, a teacher you trust, the principal, someone. Can you go to your parents and tell them? If the bully has actually attacked you, go to the police. The bully can be charged.

This is not a laughing matter. No matter what the bully has said about not telling anyone, TELL. Here are some well researched tips on dealing with bullying:

1. If you are bullied, TELL. Telling is not being weak or being a coward or tattling. It is helping to protect everyone from that bully.
2. Tell someone you trust - teacher, counselor, parent, some other adult. You CANNOT handle this yourself.
3. Do not retaliate or get angry. This could make things worse.
4. Respond evenly and firmly or say nothing and walk away.
5. Develop good strong friendships and support each other. Bullies tend to pick on kids that they think don't have many friends or kids they think others won't help.
6. Act confident.
7. Try to stay away from places the bully will be if that is possible. For example, take a different route to school.
8. Avoid unsupervised areas of the school.
9. Try not to bring expensive items to school that might attract the bully's attention and that he might try to take or break.
10. To gain confidence and feel stronger and feel that you can take care of yourself, enrol in a self-defence program if one is available, or a martial arts program or something like that. Self defence programs teach you some very good skills, very quickly.
11. Join a group, such as Scouts, a cadet program, or something like that, so that you have a special group of friends.

Go to the website www.bullying.co.uk/ which has lots of information for parents and for kids about bullying and about some things you can do. I think this website might really help you figure out some good positivbe things you can do to deal with this.

I hope this helps you. Good luck with sorting this out. Don't give up. There is help out there. Take care.

if u know he's weak then why is he a bully to you i say that you just show everyone how weak he is and if that doesnt work then just ignore him . just tell him that he's wasting your time and that you cant have tricks wastin your time cause you got things to do.

Then always, like stay away from him, so he wont bully you, and you wont freeze up.

Can you talk to your parents, teachers and counselors about it?

Have you tried to make peace with him?

You're doing the right thing not fighting back.

You're very wise to see that he's insecure. Maybe he just needs a real friend. I think you're very mature.

You should educate yourself more so you can be better than him. Start with english.

tell a teacher so what if peopel saay yuor a baby for telling he wont bother you

This works everytime....Go to the 4 dumbest line men of your schools football team..do there homework...the 4 dumb linemen will go and beat him up...after your bullie gets beat up..he would be to sore to come after u...Not only will u get your bullie off your back...but you'll also be supporting the athletic dept by helping them with there grades so they'll be able to play the game
If that don't work....just get the inserts out of gay magazines....fill them out with the bullies name and address on them..then stick them in the mailbox....trust me when his parents start getting these wierd magazines for him in there mailbox....They'll beat him up

the best thing to do is ignore him never get near him and when he dose something just don't reacte to it eventually he will leave you alone just ignore the loser when he dose something!!!

Look for the anarchist cook book. it has advice and tips on how to make a persons life misserable. You can make, thermite, napalm, nitro, and many other fun explosives. Dont use them on him use it in his property.

man just be mentally strong and play with the bullys weaknesses...embarass him in public....beat him up if things get out of hand

Just dont let this person get to you your doing the right thing,by not doing anything.Remember KARMA

if he is a bully report him to a teacher, duh.

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