
universal
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omit the last part and give it to him |
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Richard
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Forget the letter. It probably helped her just writing it.
If your cousin is indeed 10 years old, no matter how old she looks or how mature she thinks she is, she needs to experience very much more before she will be ready for any serious relationship with another. For her to pursue a 15 year old now can only come to grief.
She should be find out who she is, and not be looking for any answers outside of herself. If she does not accomplish this now, she will not be ready when it is time to form a serious relationship with another human. She has plenty of time, so why rush it? |
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melkhel
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When he is sixteen she will be twelve. No matter how the relationship goes he can be charged as an adult and go to prison. That is why he backed off I am sure. Tell her if it is meant to be wait on him until she is old enough to make that desicion. If she cares for him she should not want him to get into trouble. |
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ragdollfloozie...needs iv coffee
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Well, I think it is normal to have a crush on a boy at the age of 10 but it should not go farther than that. She is way too young to think of turning into anyones lover(if she even really knows what that means)A ten year old girl should have a life that is a little more innocent. Chris is doing the right thing and should stay away from her. |
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me
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Come on, this girl is only 10 years old.She is way to young to be thinking like this. The advice you should be giving her is that she should wait til shes a little older and for now to concentrate on things other than 14 year old boys.And where are her parents? |
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justin
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Chris did the right thing, 5 years is a HUGE age gap when you're that young. I understand it hurts her feelings but sometimes numbers make a lot of difference. |
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beth_jj_love
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I think she is too young to be worrying about this. Geeze, she's 10! I agree w/ everyone else...as of the moment, age DOES make a difference. He's 14. She hasnt even hit puberty quite yet. He probably has. THink about it. She should give him a letter just asking to be friends and NOT expect anything relationship wise. Just b/c she LOOKS 15, doesnt mean she should date older people like that, christ sake, she shoudnt even be dating. She's still a "baby". She doesnt need to stress herself out w/ all the relationship b/s. Tell her to try again when she IS 15. I didnt even start considering dating until I was a freshman in H/S. If you are an older cousin, you should have been giving her this advice. But then again, I dont know. Please tell her that she's well off w/out a boyfriend right now, and to just gain all the friends in the world.
Friends are forever, boyfriends arent. |
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MumboVonJumbo
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Forget him, he is not worth it. Not only that, but the age difference does make a diff. Especially at that young of age. Tell her to try again at 20. He will definately want a younger chick then. |
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aj_squaredaway
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sure she should give him the letter so they can be friends. just tell her not to get her hopes up on forming a relationship with the boy because if i was the boy i'd shy away also from a girl that young. |
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theriddle
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Breezy, what are you thinking? You should be protecting your cousin! 14 year old boys want relationships that are too mature for a ten year old girl. Four years is a big enough age difference for statutory rape for this girl even SEVEN YEARS FROM NOW!!! |
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Xianpu
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she's way too young |
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lesaber251
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Age is much more than "...just a number." Your cousin is just 10 years old. It doesn't matter how old she looks. She has the mind of a 10-year old. The boy was right in not talking to her again. That doesn't make him a bad person. It shows he's smart. At 10 years old, if your cousin is looking for a boyfriend then I must question what kind of household is she being brought up in. It's not normal and will affect her badly in her future. |
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Strawberry
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are you sure this is your cousin and not you? anyway she should forget about him because she is will have a plenty of chances.and guys like girls who doesnt throw themselves on them, if she send him the letter she will make him so proud and he will make fun of her next to his friends.let time shows him that he was wrong. when she grow up more to be more attractive he will really feel bad that he left such an adorable girl like your cousion. |
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Gip
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Let it go. If someone can not see who you are on the inside then he ain't worth your time |
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basky993
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she should get over it she'll find alot more boys that she'll like and besides shes only 10 |
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thomcokecan11
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well what do you think me i think she should not giver him the letter because if he rejects it she will feel crushed and i know you know what i am talking about girlfriend |
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