pepperjg
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There is not a rule out there that you can't be friends with more than one person also your two friends don't have to like each other. You can still be friends with both maybe just not spend time with both at the same time. Make sure you express that you will not stop being friends with one or the other to both friends just because they do not get along. If your friend doesn't want to be your friend anymore after telling her that you will not give up your other friend then maybe she wasn't such a good friend after all. Also tell your friend that she does not have to like your other friend but to please not be mean to her. Because you like both of them as friends. |
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threebrothers8
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u should think about if u were fat how your so call new friends would treat. just think about that. they not really your friends |
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landoflookbehind
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Sooo,what do your friends have to do with u being friends with this person?. |
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leftygirl_75
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don't worry about your friends. If they won't hang out with you when you are with the new girl then that is their loss and they are rude and inconsiderate. |
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ladyghost19
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Just deal with them. Sooner or later they will all get along. Good luck! |
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JJ
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Listen to your heart. |
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Lee
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Maybe if they see who she really is & the qualities you find in her, they would be more accepting. Sounds like maybe they feel threatened by your new friendship. Hopefully it isn't that they are shallow. I'm glad you can see beyond what is on the outside-now show your friends too. Good luck. |
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morrowynd
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They may be using the weight as an excuse. After a number of years they may have developed jealousies and fear the old gang breaking up. Bring it up in a non-confrontational way. |
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hop0409
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You shouldn't assume that's why your friends don't like Jen. If you are truly good friends, you should be able to ask them. Maybe there's some reason that you are unaware of. Whatever it is, don't push Jen on your friends. You can't force people to be friends. |
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ariasmario3
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I would try to convice your other friends that your new friend is not a bad person |
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Frodo Baggins
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Listen to your heart not what your friends say! |
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*babygirl*
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their just hating
u need 2 talk 2 them
don't let them stop u 4 u having ur friends
thats not right |
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M00ND0CT0R
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Think, How would you feel if you were Jen, and found a new friend that you really liked, and she suddenly had nothing else to do with you because her friends didn't approve. That's not a friend. A friend doesn't care what everybody else thinks. They believe in you. |
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k_sexy_taft07
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Tell them to get over it. |
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The Healing Hug
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Well always remember a true friend is someone that is there thou think and thin. Good and the bad times, when you fall they are the ones that pick you back up! Someone you can talk to about anything and everything. If this is your friend that does all of that since 2nd grade and none of the others stand up to these things....Then are they really your friends? True friends will be there around you, no matter who is hanging out with you! Remember You don't have to convince anyone about the person you are or who you chose to hang out with. They will have to search there own hearts and souls to come up with the right answer: Why not? |
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SWRK student
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If this is your friend, that is all that matters, you stand by your friend. If others do not like her, ask yourself why? Are they jealous, or are they just afraid of her? Pray for them, and it is good for you to learn to make your own choices, unless the girl is doing something that you are not saying. No drugs, smoking, drinking and if she goes to school as she should and you are keeping up with your work. NO serious boys in the picture, baby stand! |
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Willy Average 317537
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Your uther frends maybe jelus of this frendship. Go with your hart, and dont let the green dragon win. If thay are true frends thay will suport you to the end. No one shoud run your life but you. |
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flyswimmer1988
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Don't worry what your friends say. Easier said then done. Tell them if they actually gave her a chance, they could see she is decent.
-Tom |
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silvs
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Omg I can't belive that they would hate someone just because they're overweight...
maybe you could convience them that she's an awesome person... seriously its the inside that matters at the end of the day :...
or maybe you could get "Jen" to go with you to the gym to rid of those extra glycerol. |
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Skittles
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Don't listen to wut those friend of yours say! |
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ddl
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Consider the following questions and answer honestly.
1. Is there any genuine statements about "jen" that your friends are making?
2. Could your friends be "watching" your back?
3. Are your friends showing jealous tendancies?
Sometimes our friends are "right" and sometimes they are
"scared" for our own good.
Jealous reactions can also be found in people with you
at heart. Overly jealous feelings can interpose with fear
that is real or not real.
Be careful and what your gut - not your feelings tell you
-go for it.
Its like walking down a sidewalk and you get this funny, scary feeling that you better not turn that corner...
if you turn that corner - you get robbed
if you turn around or cross the street in the other direction - you may not know what would have happened
but it won't matter soon enough. |
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talithamayfield
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You can't change how anyone else acts or feels. If your friends chose to treat her like that and she is a nice girl, then that is their loss. Just keep being a good friend to her if she is a good one to you. I'm glad that you can see who she is |
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kaizer38
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Hang out with them separately. |
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margarita_girl_713
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Even if your friends don't like her don't make that the reason you don't hang out with her. You can't make someone like another person. I have the same problem. All you do is divide your time equally between your friends. If they give you a hard time about it just say that if they gave her a chance they'd see she was a really great person. If they are your friends they should atleast hang out with her once to see if they really don't like her. |
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lilmonkey65
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If that girl is truly nice, your friends will come to realize that. |
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dinikahundalani
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You should go up to ur friend and tell them that she is ur friend....i had the same problem and they became friends with the girl who my friends hate....
BYE |
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