kellie_michelle_adams
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Please seek help from a guidance counselor or someone who has authority to get you away from the hostlie environment you are subjected to. I know how you feel I was living in a similar household as a child. I feel your pain and wish there was something i could do to help you out. What state do you live in I may be able to help. |
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shmock12
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Hey I know how you feel! plz don't say that thing will bet better Plz I really want to help you E-mail me at Shmock12@yahoo.com |
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cat & lamb
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Talk to him. Tell him your friends make you happy and that he should appreciate them. Friends are very important to everyone, and if you didn't have friends, you would be no one. If your parents are divorced, tell your mom about this situation. Try doing all this without ripping you hair out, or breaking anything. |
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sandislandtim
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How old are you? What does your mother think of the situation? Can you go somewhere else? Do you have any other relatives with whom you can live? If you're in school, you can talk to a guidance counselor - they can help you. |
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ceddie_87
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get a cell phone and a job 2 stay away from the house |
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katiekiss
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I think you need to seek help. Soundls like you are in HS....if so, talk to a social worker or guidance counselor. Do you have a mom? How does she feel? Isn't there a relative you could talk to? Please get help. Good luck |
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Meylin
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I undertand how you feel. The first thing u have to do, is overcome it. Then ... talk to me, even though i dont know ya, i wanna help. caligirl18_4@hotmail.com, at the yahoo messenger or e-mail: sexygirldina@yahoo.com. I'm online right now. You've got a friend. =) |
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Sjean
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How old are you? You should have said.
I have a horrible father too. I left home when I was 17 by getting married. A lot of people thought that was a bad decision but for me it wasn't.
Can you go away to college? Live with your grandparents?
He's never going to change. My father is 84 and is still the same of mean sob he's always been, so it's up to you to take care of yourself. |
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scorpio
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Sweetheart, if you would like to say anything else or add to your question, click on more details as soon as possible and you can email me. Just click on my name. I'm surprised he's letting you on the puter. |
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stonedrone
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Deal with it! |
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DisneyLover
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wow thats horrible. yeah i can't stand my dad either. he and my mom are divorced. I live like 10 minutes away from him though and he never calls and he blames me for us not being close. Also he forgot my birthday and never gives me birthday/christmas gifts. he sucks. |
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mystic_wolf_tamer@sbcglobal.net
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try talking to him about it on a good day, and see what he says.... maybe there is a reason he doesn't like the friends you have... or maybe he wants to spend time with you and feels like your friends are taking that time away from him... maybe plan something to do with him... plan it with him... see if you can't work with him before assuming that he is trying to be abusive... and just so you know... there are more forms of abuse than hitting... it is called emotional and verbal abuse, and they can hurt almost more than physical abuse. |
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tommywho1
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WOW,firstly you have my sympathy you don't say how old u r so i gather your under age to leave.you want change him its to bad he is missing the best years of his life watching you grow up.just hope it doesn't destroy you on his selfish quest to dominate.try to stay strong when your able to move out move and that is when he may realise what he's done.i know this want help much,don't judge all men by his example. enjoy life best u can.HE NEEDS A SMACK IN MOUTH!!!! |
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ethannadinemariel
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Write your dad a letter and tell him how you feel. Let him know that you need to have friends and that what he's doing is hurting you. Tell him everything you want to. And give this letter when he's in a good mood. I hope he reads your letter and realizes his mistake. What kind of friends do you have and what do you do with them? Maybe they're not the right kind and he just doesn't want you to be dealing with those kind of people. When I was 14 my grandma was the same way. Everytime someone came to the house, she was out to see who it was and gave them a bad look. And she always had comments about how they behaved in our house. It was horrible so I know how you must feel. I hope your dad changes after he reads your letter. |
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whitmarie1995
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tell your dad how you feel me and my dad used to have problems but when i told him every thing changed now we are really close and if that doesn't work you should probably tell some one like your mom or your school principle he could probably help you in some sort of way and remember don't give up your dad is very important and you need a real dad in your life!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hope everything between you and your dad works out and that you resolve the problem and email me at yahoo my name is whitmarie1995 and we can fix the problem!!!! I look forward to talking to you !! bye!!! |
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j_24sbabydoll
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WOW...well you just broke my heart. Firs tof all if there is violence in your home you have a responsibility to yourself and your family to stop it, it cant possibly be any good. there is no good when someone is taking all your bad days out on you and the ones you love. Your a child and you NEED friends, it is part of growing up, we all had friends...friends that are bad i could understand, but not all friends. YOU ARE A CHILD....and this is really making me mad....i cant understand all this. I feel so sorry for you and if you ever wanna talk to me, please contact me. |
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chayfischer
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oh thats truly bad...i think your dad's cse is something irreversible...im sorry i cant relate with what you are experiencing now and i cant understand your father...my father is quite the opposite...he's just great...
one thing i can tell you-just deal with your dad and just make ways so he wont find what youre doing..make friends...he'll ghet tired of shouting at your phone calls. |
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nunn23@sbcglobal.net
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My heart goes out to you, please dont cry, life is difficult and we can not choose the family we happen into unfortunately. Your father is probably very stressed and knows no other way in which to deal, his father was probably a horrible role model as well. But dont worry write yor father a heart felt letter tuck it away so he will see it when he goes off to work, go into detail about how you feel. Tell him how his actions affect you and is there any way that you can meet a happy medium, a compromise of some sort. Share with him that you are unhappy and that your friends interaction is instrumental to your happiness, try to do this without attacking him, Because he will only react in like fashion, We live in a disfunctional society and beleive you me we are all walking around on eggshells. Hang in there, hope is still prevalent, do you ever pray, I promise it works i am much older then you and from experience I know. |
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Ammy
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This really broke my heart when i read this...and this shouldn't be happening to you. I'm not sure how old you are. But if you have a best friend, and she/he doesn't know about this, you should tell them...and maybe they can get help if YOU are to scared to get help yourself. But all i can say is even tho i dont know you...Keep you're head up and be strong. You can get through this!=) |
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