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lyndsey
I need help my mom like hates me & i dont kno what to do she balmes her problems on me & always yellin at me?
                     
 




Sarah
Stick in there. It will be better when you grow up. FOr now, just do your best, and if you feel you cant take it anymore, talk to your councilors, or a crisis center will help you.


Nita and Michael
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I know because she does this it feels like she hates you but she doesn't, I'm sure she loves you very much..she's just taking her frustrations out on you...which is not right but try setting down with her and telling her how it makes you feel...read the bible to comfort you...1 Corinthians chapter 13...it'll get better...kill meanness with kindness....


key2me12
Ask your mother to sit down and talk to you like you all are best friends and no yelling at all. And let her know that it bothers you and hurts your feelings with some of the things she says. And have are explain in detail why she feels that away and then you talk and keep talking not yelling until you two can solve the issues


boris
Ok I'm very sorry for this,

obviously the best thing is for your mom to be a better parent, but if you tell her that she won't take it well. Instead you have to try to get along with her I've found, the best thing is to just smile and nod and play along and take it with a grain of salt. Granted, it would be even better to talk with her and get her to change.. but it can be really hard for a kid to do that. I tried to do what with my parents, and it becomes easier when you get older. Your parents respect you more because you have more experience - show them you are smart and they will have to treat you as an adult. Try to not fight.. I'm just going from the top of my head, I remember what it's like to fight with my parents - and I moved out as fast as possible.


pabbi
you did not gave complete situation of Ur mother becoz there may a misunderstanding between u and ur mother. sometimes we will be blamed without mistakes. ok whatever it is when she is grumbling on, u keep silent in ur actions and words. and keep listen her words then u will understand the problem she is suffering with until and unless there is no reason no mother will hate her children, and try to put this problem directly to her and ask for reasons to her only and question her smoothly why she is behaving like that.


supernatural5329
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It is truly unfair for your mom to blame you for her problems. She made her own choices. Maybe it is not you that she is angry at. She might be angry at herself and her own choices. She may be coping with this by taking it out on you, unfortunately. Does she drink or do drugs? Sometimes they say things they don't really mean when they do. Sometimes, when a parent says mean things they are projecting on you what they really think about themselves. Talk to her about it when she is in a good mood. Tell her how you feel and ask her to tell you what you can do to help her feel better. She may realize how selfish she is behaving when she sees you being selfless despite the way you are being treated. Ideally, I recommend family counseling if you can afford it or your insurance covers it.


christinqa10
pray for her and bless her


windsorbins
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my heart goes out to you...it sounds like she needs some help to deal with what is at the root of her anger. you are not the reason she is so unhappy--it is something deep within herself. you might want to keep a journal and write out your feelings so you don't end up hurt and bitter. and pray for your mom and yourself so that there can be some healing happening between you two...


♥
same thing here and i just leave when she does that i go to my bf house and i always avoid her!


Layla
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she loves u very much. even though she may not show it sumtimes, she does. and if she starts fightin with u then sit her down and have her explain to u wat the problem is. but the best way to suck up to ur mom is by doin sumthin special for her. like buying flowers. and if these things still dont work then maybe u guys need to go see a psychiatrist. i hope it all works out. good luck.


bonds_chica
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How old are you? I feel that this type of behavior from a parent could be very emotionally scarring for you. This could be classified at Emotional Abuse. I would try to sit her down and tell her how you feel. Tell her that you love her, but that it makes you feel bad when she yells at you. Be honest, and please try to be gentle.

If the situation doesn't improve after you have shared your concerns with her, tell a trusted adult about the situation and ask their advice.


ultrafox1966
How old is your mother because women as they age their hormones cause mood swings as well as other irrational behavior. I dont think your Mother actually hates you but she could be frustrated with things other than you and takes out her frustration on you. Take some deep breaths and RELAX. You could try Praying for your Mom. Have you been thoughtful enough to let her know that you love her. Sometimes we need encouragement even if its the child giving it to the adult. Take care!


audiotunesx
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Remember that God loves you.

My mom has/is the exact same way (I'm now grown up 22 now), and it hurt me tremendously. It took years for me to finally realize that:
a) Wasn't my fault
b) Indeed she blamed her problems on me, and just vented all negativity on me
c) No matter how hard I tried, she would not change her heart

Things I realized:
a) Some people don't change (btw, don't conclude this until you've tried communication, and also good advice in posts above)
b) The reason she "hated" me was because I was an easy target. She was never mean to anyone else.
c) She could never admit to herself that she did something (in fact anything) wrong, thus someone else -had- to be at fault

Actions:
a) Pray for her, turn the other cheek, love her regardless
b) Be the bigger (mature) person
c) Don't take it to heart
d) All that wasted energy dwelling over the negative aspects of this (focusing on problem not solution) could have been used for something else. Example: "Building my life and foundation for my own future family"
e) Be careful. This sort of emotional distress allows you to be "soft" and rely too much on someone else. Unless this person truly cares you could end up getting seriously hurt...
f) Nothing beats prayer and finding God's love.

Good luck friend!


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