
conundrum_dragon
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drop him once a cheat always a cheat..unless your ok with him cheating on you. |
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alyssajackson1
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Talk to him about it. You've SEEN it?! Tell him what you saw. If he keeps doing it, he's not right for you! Dump him! |
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Buffy
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If you're absolutely sure he was cheating on you, then definitely dump his butt as hard as possible. Make him regret ever second-guessing you. Don't let him get away with it or he'll think he has the power and can do anything he wants without any consequences. Please don't make the mistake of thinking if you give him another chance, he'll change. Sure there's a chance of that happening, but it's so doubtful. Just don't let yourself get hurt, okay hun? good luck with him. |
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alison k
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make sure if he was. If yes, please go |
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3 Card
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It depends. If you are young, dump his butt and move on. If you think the girl was hot, then maybe you need to work on a 3some. If you have been dating a long time and he is really wonderful, then let it slide. He just needs a littel change of scenery, but its no big deal. |
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Honesty_75
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If you are sure about what you saw, say goodbye and get going! |
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Cheshire Cat
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You could do both. Say, "I saw you cheating," then go.
Since we have no idea of whether you like the idea of him cheating or just felt left out or if you felt offended... well, whatever, right? Why not leave it up to a bunch of total strangers. At that level of committment, what difference does it make? Make a list of 6 choices and roll a dice or just two choices and flip a coin... |
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mr. k
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you have to be sure first
then face him |
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enzyme304
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You could say go or you could say stay or you could sasshay away |
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pugwug2004
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YOU SHOULD GO BECAUSE HE DON'T LIKE YOU THE CHANCES ARE GOOD LUCK !! |
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sweettastynjuicy
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you should confront him about it and if he lie leave. it depends on the circumstances if u love him or not. but dont let him keeep doin it to u cause he gonna think u willl always keep him regardless |
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Tatis
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imagen me sweetie i actually saw my boy-friend ask for my friends # but am still with him but i know he still loves me i some times cry so he can tell me the true and it works he starts hugging me and kissing me then he tells me he didnt mean to hurt my feeling and then we are back in our happy moods today i saw him talking to a 6th grader and am i ignored him and he saw me ignoring him and he knew i was mad but what the hell its a 6ht grader |
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dirtyfilthy
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ask for a 3some |
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wellbeing
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Let him know that cheating is not acceptable, then move on unless he is extrememly remorseful and you can trust him to never do it again. |
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The monkey spanker.
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should "say" first if he no listen to your say... go. if he listen and say, yes... go. if he listen and say no... stay. and say... "why i think that" if he say convincing thing... stay. if he no... go. |
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Kris
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Leave. |
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Cyndee
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If you stay he won't stop! |
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heaven78
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You need to go unless you are into 3some's. |
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Golfer
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If you are sure he is cheating, GO. You will not be able to trust him in the future. |
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baseball4matt888
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if he really cheated on u... then i would go |
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htfarmgirl
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Go girl go... you deserve a man who will love and respect you. He is either too easily distracetd and not worth your time... or not to be harsh, you couldn't keep him happy so he went else where. Plenty of men in the sea! Go get one that will make you happy! Besides, i highly doubt that you will ever be able to trust him again, you will always be worried if he is having another affair. Just my 2 cents! |
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