Sandylynn
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First, you confront him, letting him know that you know and how much it hurts you that he's violated your trust in him. If he's your husband, tell him that you both need to work on the reasons behind it and get past them, so it doesn't happen again. Happening again would require him to find another place to live and get counselling, IF he wants to mend the marriage. I speak from experience that you can get past an unfaithful mate, as long as you both work on it. It takes two to make a marriage work, and it's very hard work at times. If he asks for your forgiveness, promising to stay away from other women, it's up to you to forgive him and re-build your trust. It does take time, and trust isn't always 100 percent after something like that, but it's something you'll both have to work on. He has to restore your faith in him being faithful, if he wants your relationship to go on. If you're not married, of course you still have the option to forgive him...or not. It depends on if you both think your relationship is worth saving, or if it's time to move on. For the most part, if a person cheats once, they're more likely to do it again. As it is, you'll always be looking over his shoulder, because once trust is broken, it's hard to mend completely. After the first step of confrontation, you both need to seek a counsellor, together. Especially if you are in a serious relationship, such as marriage or even engaged. This is an indicator of future problems if not dealt with now. Hope things work out for you. <*)))>< |
Danny
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Yo, I was gonna give you my own answer, but I think you should just take Barbies advise, it's 100% true, you should never be with someone that can't see what your worth. |
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