average joe
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no and you shouldnt he may end up learning new positions |
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pamela-burnett@sbcglobal.net
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This is a tricky question. I do not like porn, never have and never will. I think it's demeaning to a woman, and if he has to watch porn to get it on then I want no part of it. If he can't be into me the way I am into him then we have no business with each other. There is no jealousy involved, maybe inadequancy is a better word. No average person looks the way the porn stars do, female of male. There is absolutely not way to compete with that. I will not try and that is all there is to it. |
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certifiedtarotmaster
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No. I wouldn't get jealous or mad. Start worrying if he goes for a real person but let the porn watching go. It isn't a big deal. He can do both -- want you and watch porn. It's a pretty natural thing to watch porn and also have a very good sex life that is monogamous.
Also, current research indicates (and I KNOW from personal experience) that it isn't sick. It's just fun for some people and it doesn't mean you had a weird childhood or you're some kind of nut any more than watching War movies makes you a killer. |
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Pineapple Hat
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Generally, no. You might keep in mind, if you can come to realize, you do not own his sexuality and have no right to dictate what arouses or interests him. On the other hand, if you have discussed it and he has agreed not to look at pornography, then he is betraying your agreement and that --is-- a problem. |
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destineypyle
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Yes, I have learned you just do not do that in a relationship when your partner is uncomfortable with it, sometimes it can lead to feeling of inadequacy |
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yossarius
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There is nothing wrong with pornography. The best girlfriend I every had watched porn with me. |
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iluvtwisters
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I wouldnt be jelouse nor mad...HOWEVER...I would wonder why he has such a fetish. People that get off on porn, have a problem that accured in their childhood. I would dump him.
(too much baggadge). |
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marielpantera
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If you are in a serious relationship with someone, and they are lusting after another human being, than it is not so serious after all; it's not a matter of jealousy, merely a question of a certian devotion, but it really depends on the stage of the relationship. I would never do that when dating someone, so I wouldn't expect my boyfriend to do it either, however, most people think it is fine. |
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alis volat propriis
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Watching porn is normal for men. No big deal. In fact, he's probably fantasizing about you while he's watching it. Take advantage, honey! :)
The only thing I would worry about is if it's rough porn where the man is hurting the woman, or homosexual porn. then you may have a problem. |
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49erfan
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I don't know why girls trip so much about guys watching porno. You should watch it together to increase your sexual adventurness. Wouldn't you rather him tell you he watches it or watch it with him than him having to watch it behind your back. |
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redneck_monkey_chick
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Well this may not be the best answer but yes and no. At first i would think well if he wants to see TNA than why doesn't he jus look at me but then i'd realize that it's only porn which means it's not like he's cheating on you becuz it's on t.v. or on the computer or whatever and that means the only thing that he can touch is the screen and the only thing touching him is himself. |
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Telling It Like It Is
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The operative words here - I'M dating and screwing the guy - not the porn star! |
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Ariel
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I would dump him, as I see that as cheating. My husband would not watch porn, as he sees it as cheating too and he's not a cheater. Besides, it's disgusting. |
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herstory
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If he watches it with u its ok,If not kick his *** out! |
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