Rockstar
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I didin't wait. Every now and then I think about what it would be like if I had chosen to wait and how special that would be to the girl I marry. I believe that most people don't wait cause of rebellion, or cause of the need for immediate pleasure (which is not as good as long term plesure for sure) or because someone forced them or made them feel guilty. I would imagine it would be better to wait, going on the fact that I fell guilty about the previous girls. You can never feel guilty about waiting if you are true to yourself and don't listen to anyone who tries to pressure you into it. It's got to be worth it to lose a friend/boyfriend/girlfriend because they are telling you they want you to have sex with them and you don't want to. It's YOUR life and no one else's. Don't give in against your own will!!! |
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iamookae
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I don't think it is better to wait. unless you are waiting with a guy. let me explain.....
if you hook up with someone, and both of you are virgins, then you can learn together what you both like.
but if you are a virgin and you hook up with a guy who isn't, then he will know what is going on, and you won't. you won't know if it is good or not, but he will.
now, if you aren't a virgin when you hook up, neither is he, then you will already know what you like and don't like and he will know what he likes and doesn't like, and sex will be wonderful!!
I lost my virginity when I was sixteen, and I slept with more than one person before I met my husband. so had he. we both came into the relationship with experience, and I wouldn't trade it for anything! |
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churchofjohnnycash
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Wait until you're comfortable. But I would not recommend waiting until you're married. By making a spouse wait, you create a feeling of expectation in yourself and them. Sometimes, even the person you love is a bad lovemaker. It's very common to love someone but be uncomfortable having sex with them. Because sex is a big part of marriage, I would make sure you were comfortable having it regularly with the person you plan to marry. |
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atwork
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yes. As you grow older, your hymen tends to naturally break. Allowing your first time to be less painful because there will be no tearing of the hymen. |
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MissNurse
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It's all personal preference and what you believe. I myself, am 28 and am waiting for the right person. |
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chrishomingtang
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yes |
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Emily
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yes. you'll know when it's right. And no, 2 weeks or some absurdly short while is not "waiting." Try maybe 8, 9, 10 MONTHS. And of course, you should both always be of your state's legal age of consent. |
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Daisy7
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It is if that is what you want. I always say if you have to ask than it is probly better to wait. Also if you are still under 21 I would wait. You can go to a web site and read what others have to say. www.beingagirl.com |
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lenlen_coral
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yes, i really regret the way i lost mine when i was 23. I gave it to my boyfriend just beacause everyone else is doing it and that i thought i was too old at that time to be a virgin. |
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thickes
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Yes, Im 19 yrs. almost 20 and I havent had sex yet. If u truly want to wait u should surround yourself with positive people who will respect ur decision to wait.I have "so called friends" that try to pressure me and make me feel bad about being a virgin. I feel theyre jeolous because they werent strong enough to say no,like I have. |
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guttsy b
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I think its better; reason u don't happen to loose it to the wrong guy the guy u think ur in love with but actually its the hormones and the lust. So if u do wanna lust whynot lust the one u are in love with the one u sure u can trust. |
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Krystal
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Yes it's better to wait. Trust me, you won't be in it alone. I choose to practice celibacy because there are too many people with the “It-Won’t-Happen-To-Me” attitude. They acknowledge the existence of AIDS and other STDs, however, I don’t think they truly understand and believe it. There are too many people on the Down Low, cheating, lying, etc and I refuse to become another statistic because I happened to “slip up” or “make another mistake”. In addition, why should I choose to give someone a special part of me, and at the same time, in the back of my mind, I’m thinking, “this person might not even call me tomorrow”. If I have sexual intercourse with someone, I want it to be momentous. I want them to be a part of me. I want them to understand Krystal. Do they actually know who Krystal is? Do they even care who Krystal is? The media has amended the definition of “dating” from “An engagement to go out socially with another person, often out of romantic interest” to “An engagement to have sexual intercourse with another person, sometimes out of romantic interest” and that’s incorrect. Sex is a beautiful feeling and God made it for a reason. However, he made it for two people (preferably a man & woman) united as one—which is also referred to as a “marriage”. The world has deviated from God’s beliefs to the Media’s beliefs and I don’t want to be a part of that trend.
Please wait if you can .. It'll be worth it in the long run. Trust me :) |
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