Jeremy W
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Yes it is. That's what I'm going through right now, and I wouldn't trade the love I have for that girl for anything, even though she doesn't want to be with me right now. It hurts more than anything I've ever experienced, but if I had the choice I'd do it all over again if I got to experience the time we had together again. Love is something you're ok with not having before you've experienced it, but after you have, you'll wonder how you lived without love like this.
Also, if I had the choice, I think I wouldn't make it where I hadn't lost, just make it so we were back together, I've grown so much in so many ways from this, it's amazing. Amazingly sucky, but good for me in other ways as well, I guess. |
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dog
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yes |
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morrowynd
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I think so. If you have never loved you miss the full on engagement of the senses. It is physical, of course, but also emotional and intellectual. Being in love makes you feel like nothing else in the world. As for the pain of loss, so what? To live is to know pain. To know lost love is to have first known love.
I'd take it. |
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brandandam
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only when you are in love. |
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neparis2001
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Naw! THEY LIE about OTHER CRAP TOO... |
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vsg74
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Yes it is better to feel than to be numb |
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qt30hamilton
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Knowing what I know now, no. |
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joshandashleydorn
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I think so. |
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Ms Fortune
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definitely it is true... even if you have lost your love , you now know what love feels like, you have learned lessons , about yourself, what you need and want in your life, and what kind of person will be best for you, and you have learned what you have to offer in a relationship.. it is a learning experience all the way around , as long as you don't become bitter and close off your heart to a future love.. |
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GENIUS
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if anyone has never loved at all, i'll stay away from them..so i'll say its total ....uknowwhat! |
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â•£China ♥ Dollâ•Â
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No it is not. I'd rather not have it to begin with than have it than lose it. That would be horrible.
Like if I was born blind, I'd adapt because I wouldn't know better but if I just became blind now, I would be pissed because I lost something valuable I might never get back just like love. |
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windsorbins
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do you mean "it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all?" yes, i think that is true 'cos everone in the world needs to experience love in life, the deep kind of love. even though it hurts when you lose that love, i believe it has made you a better person because of it... |
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Smoove
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I don't believe that. When you've lost it hurts. |
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Imi
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It was a question before, if I remember well: " Why born, suffer and die?" In that question live = suffer. In yours love = lost. Yes it`s is not easy most of the time, but both life and love are challenges, they are a never-ending quest, and that is the beautiful in them. Unwritten. Everything can happen, anytime. It is the best movie, happening, especially tailored for each of us. |
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laffeatlick3
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No Because It's Better To Have The Experience Of Having Loved |
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adieu
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Of course. To never love would be sadder than losing love. |
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yourdoneandover
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Its better to have never loved at all. |
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zex_suik
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Yes, for many reasons.
You will have that experience with you always.
You will love again as long as you learn from your experience. For example, what you loved about the other person, what they loved about you. What caused the lost, is it preventable? Is it just a case of incompatibility?
When you lay on your death bed YEARS from now, will you be wishing you had loved somebody? more people after losing them? or no one at all?
To love and lose that love AND to grow from the experience is worth so much more than not loving, loving and not losing, loving losing and not learning.
Each experience you LEARN from will make the next one better. |
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littlethumb
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ofcourse..the pain is worth it..the lessons you learn cannot be substituted.. |
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mom2
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yes, it makes you a better person. we all have to learn from situations that arent always good ones. |
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Michelle
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Yes, walking around without ever knowing loves is the worst thing anyone could go through - it is better to have loved and lost because you know the next time you love youll love for all the right reasons and then some. |
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rabbitsboysmonkeys
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yeah thats true i went through that before |
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millseutopia
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The answer is no! To have loved I mean really experience true love and watch it undo in front of your eyes is a very traumatic and heart breaking thing to have to be subjected to. It's like an attachment you may have to a limb on your body and waking up one day without it. One you find true love it is better to keep it and hold on to it than to lose it. Because if you never experienced it how would you know what it was you were missing? |
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