
pamela-burnett@sbcglobal.net
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Sex, like so many other things is talked about more than done. It is natural to be scared. There are a lot of emotions involved and you need to have everything straight in your head before you leap into this. Take your time and be choosey with your partner. My husband told me once that there are two kinds of girls, the one you play around with and the one you want to take home to meet mama. You me dear are definitely the latter. |
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summerflower_inshortskirt
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Sure, it's only natural to be scared, especially if it's your first time, and with all these diseases out there I'm surprised that a lot of people aren't more scared. Just have to do it responsibly:)
Have fun. |
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it is not wrong... i think... because it is so normal to be scared of it especiall when you haven't done it yet. so don't do it when you are not comfortable of doing it. it will come naturally..it is better done after wedding.. everything is fine, everything is prepared and you are prepared because you have expected it..and it is more comfortable.. so wait till marriage.. it pays alot to wait.. |
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lilacmom1956
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Wait until your heart and your mind and your body, and yes, even your spirit, are a little more in line (in agreement.)
IT (sex) is worth waiting for and you, my friend, are DEFINITELY worth waiting for. Also, a lot of people who talk so much about sex aren't really doing it. . . just want to impress others. Listen to your own self, and pick a partner who respects you, and who you respect. Take your time.... |
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Carla Niqqaa
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it depends |
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Poppet
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Can't you just wait a few years? You will like your self better. |
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pandora2992
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i think it's a matter of opinion. but i don't think it's fair to the opposite sex to get them thinking you're going to go further than what you intend to. if you don't want to give up your virginity, then by all means DON'T. but if you are emotionally really ready, then there are such things as birth control and condoms for you to use. just remember, birth control is supposed to keep you from getting pregnant (not 100% effective all of the time) and NOT protect against std's (sexually transmitted diseases). condoms, if used correctly, can prevent pregnancy and the contraction of std's. i would use both birth control pills and condoms if you were to have intercourse. |
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diamondprecious2003
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No its nothing wrong with dat because you can think of sex all day and never do it and dats normal even people who do have sex sometimes think of it but never get it and you its good that ur protecting yourself and your future child of having something you can't handle. WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE READY |
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jesse2gb
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Nope... perfectly normal... get a great fantasy going... play by yourself... it's safe and it's fun |
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bishopclever
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i think its perfectly normal. i don't blame you for being scared of disease and becoming pregnant. the best thing for you to do is have sex with someone you know about their sex life to prevent disease and use some type of protection |
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amythystar
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No, it's NOT WRONG!!! Be very afraid of the things that are out there, be old enough to know what you're getting into, but don't be afraid of falling in love and taking precautions! Good Luck! |
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andy
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no , sex is very bad because that left human than life & family & you .. |
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