a kinder, gentler me
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Love, not wrong.
Sex, very wrong and illegal. |
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vanessitacool
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Of course it is wrong, you are not mature enough to have sexual relationships at 15, at least you should wait till you are a bit older. And of course i dont think someone who is 30 years old, can be in love with someone that young, just because you are in very different levels. Its understandable if you feel admiration and feel flattered of having the interest of this older person. But certainly this other person either is not matured enough (cause if that was the case he would choose someone not that young) or has his own agenda (meaning just wants to have a nice time with you without thinkin about the future). You should be careful, cause you being the youngest can easily get hurted after this relationship. |
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ACDixon
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Yes and yes. Having intercourse with them would be illegal most places; having a relationship with them would just be a bad idea. You're at two completely different places in your life right now. Two different levels of maturity. I don't care if you are mature for your age. A guy that old should know better anyway, and he probably only wants one thing (and it ain't a loving lifetime relationship!) |
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London
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It's not wrong to fall in love with that person, you can have a have a big crush on that person but You can't be with that person or marry that person because that is wrong and it's not cool. You know a lot of teenagers and kids have crushes on their teachers and other grown folks that are twice their age but there is nothing wrong with having a crush on somebody. |
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TuesdayStar
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You wan an answer other than "it's illegal". Well, because it's illegal you would be putting the person you "love" in a lot of danger. She could go to jail for a long time. If the love is REAL it will last till you are 18! |
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WannaRideQuietly
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YES! You are jail bait...and if anyone finds out...he is going to jail!
Umm..Do you realize he is old enough to be your FATHER!!! Eeeewwww!
Find someone your own age! Someone that likes the same music you do... Someone you can turn 21 WITH!
When you are 25...HE WILL BE 40! |
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Sagus
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Nothing wrong with being in love. As for sex, don't do it, you're under age and he'll go to jail for a very long time. |
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messagebeliever
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I'm not saying if it's right or wrong because either way ppl aren't going to like the answer. I'm just saying with the age gap given it's way out there! She's old enough to be your Mom and she WILL (repeat) SHE WILL treat you as such! It's not gonna be her fault, it was put in her from the beginning. She's going, naturally, to take on the role of your Mother. Take it for what it's worth, when I was 14 my b/f was 24. While he didn't act like a father he also wasn't twice my age. Close, but not quite. And as for sex, there's only one way to put it, if she has sex with you, or wants to, she's a full blown perv. |
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slipknot_132004
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falling in love no.
having intercourse yes, its illigal untill your 18. |
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I_married_an_aztec_warrior!
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whoever it is, they are using you! there is no love in a relationship like that...you just FEEL safe...ur not. |
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darKnight
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at 15 do you know what love really is? I mean to fall in love with someone that much older than you is rather uncommon? why do you love them? Similar intrests? they make you truly happy? You really care about each other? I don't want to judge. I know people who change there feeling towards people daily and to do something like that is something that you have to be really sure about. Plus it seems like it would never work out and that's the important thing here. If it's illegal than it has to be kept a secret and that's living a lie and sooner or later the older person is going to move on because well kids act like kids. There's no way around that. |
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midrash40
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yes, its illegal |
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bethill09
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no it is not it dosent matter what age you are!! if you have to ask maybe its not really true love to begin with...if your wondering if its is then its may not be...i believe that you are in love though as long as its based on God and God alone!! HE CAN DO ALL THINGS...AND HE SHOULD BE THE CENTER OF ANY RELATIONSHIP!!!HE BLESSES THEM!! |
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tj
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i geuss |
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perplexed
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you are not mature enough, the older party is using you, taking advantage of you and if they had any morals at all they would not touch you. Giving your body to someone should be reserved for the person who is willing to dedicate way more to you, and you to them, than use of private parts. A relationship is more than sex-it is mind,body and spirit. Love to a 15 year old is something you can't even fathom at this point in your life, You should enjoy just being a kid.it is over way to fast.OH yeah and because GOD said so!!, not that I am being judgemental because I made some of the same mistakes when I was young but boy they were some hard lessons to learn let me tell ya. I wish all you kids today did not HAVE to grow up so fast, our society has made it almost essential to steal your innocence just to try to keep you safe from all the pedophiles and internet freaks out there. |
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wildkid740
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While falling in love with someone older is not what is against the law, having sexual relations is very illegal. This is because young people as yourself, should not be having sex yet, especially with older people who can take advantage of you. Notice the whole child porn/rape charges. Besides, even thinking about it logically its bad. What is the point of love? to find the person you want to spend your life with. 15 and 30. would turn into 20/35 and soon 30 and 40 and so on. Besids, you shouldn't have sex if you can't even pick the right you're.
On another note, how do you know you are in love at 15? Please, pass 10th grade and then talk. |
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Lindsey P
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yeah there has to be something wrong with the older person to even go there wait until you are 18..plus it's illegal |
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LB
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love and intercourse are two different things but one thing thats been told to me over the years is that love doesnt have a age limit...but neither does lust |
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The 1 & only
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it is hard to say what is wrong and what is wright when it comes to love but legally it is wrong.but give it a couple of years if the feelings are still there than give it a shot. you could also let them know how you feel and take it frome there |
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raaayzor
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At 15 it is . I'm 49 and you haven't even...." dropped down " yet . When you become 18 , you'll figure out what I'm refering to. When a 30 year old woman likes a boy ( you are one still...truthfully ) she is a CHILD MOLESTER ! Read the papers of rhe on in Fla. She likes you because she can MANIPULATE you sooo easily ! Here ; learn this word ...NAIVE !It means gullible,; easily persuaded , has no personal experience dealing with certain issues . |
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