Richard
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It is only odd in that verbalized it. Men have trouble communicating about such topics.
Assign no meaning to these statements. Your partner is being as open and honest to you as he can. I would advise you to not be paranoid about this but to take it as way of wanting you to tell him how YOU feel about YOUR sexual life.
The two of you need to experiment with each other. |
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wlvrne1964
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Some doors are not meant to be opened; some roads are better left untravelled.
Your husband might regret this "fantasy" of his. |
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nikhilcm
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What he is trying to tell you is that you should be open enuf if he sleeps with some one else and tells you about it.
He is preparing you for the future. |
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pianoteacherbeth
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Sounds like he's looking for a reason to do the same ~ if you do, then of course, he can too, right? |
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Harley
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It sounds to me like he's setting himself with the opportunity to do that himself.
I would never allow my girl to be with someone else. |
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cooldude_alone
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Hey.. be careful.. he is preparing ground to cheat on you... |
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coastie
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you know what my current boyfriend and my ex-boyfriend have said that same thing, i believe it is sort of a free ticket for them to sleep with other women, as long as they let me know they think it is fine, they say that to you first so it doesn't sound like they are cheating(i don't know if that made any sense) |
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wyomingpoet
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He probably WANTS to watch you have sex with other men, which is why he brought it up in the first place. Odd? Maybe. But heck, we all get our freak on somehow. |
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Roar
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It is strange. Sounds to me like he's preparing the ground so that he can have sex with other women too. |
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*•.♡Cyn♡.•*
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♥yes what your significant other has mentioned above seems very odd to me indeed. seems like he forgot to mention that not only YOUR needs would be fulfilled, but his as well. think about it...♥ |
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pdsmonki0809
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My husband has told me the same thing. My husband said that it is because I have only been with him...while he is more experienced. So he wants to make sure that I am satisfied.
don't worry about it...he wants to feel that he does satisfy you. He probably sees it as...if you don't sleep with anyone else..then he satisfies you! get it! |
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hey yo
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yes it is very odd, i would ask him what his reasoning is for his statement. |
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Fudzzz
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Either he's already sleeping with other women, and trying to justify his actions well in advance, or like the other people said, preparing you for his future endeavors. This has nothing to do with your sexual activities; its all about him.
I'll go ahead and give you some Oprah-like advice (no, I don't watch Oprah): If you don't want him sleeping around with others, then start spicing things up.
The only other reason I can think of for him mentioning this to you is that he's joking. But you'll be a better judge of character on that than anyone else who doesn't know him.
Good luck. |
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David
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Maybe he feels like he doesn't satisfy you and is afraid that you would go behind his back to get what you need sexually. It could be that he feels he could deal with it better if he knew about it than to find out you've been doing it anyway without him knowing.
Also, some people have a fetish for seeing their significant other with other partners. In this case you being with another man could be satisfying one of his fantasies.
You definitely need to discuss it further with him though, even if you don't plan on doing it. Find out why he brought that up to you, what it is he would be getting out of it, if anything.
You do have to keep in mind that while in some ways sex has become this big social taboo, it is at the very essence of almost every species on this planet, the need to reproduce. Some people are more open minded about it than others and I think everyone views it a little differently than everyone else. |
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aries3271981
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It could be his way of telling you he's into the voyeur thing. Or he could be laying the ground work to add multiple sex partners to your bed. I'd definitely question his motives. |
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gurukev
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In reality terms that usually means he has had an affair or is a promiscuous soul, and has never told you. It will justify his actions if you go and do what he, by the sounds of things, has already done. GK |
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nena_consentida79
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Maybe he's hoping you go and have sex w/ someone else so he won't look like the bad guy by dumping you. This way it's all on you. Or then again maybe he's trying to test you. Trying to see if you commited enough. |
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?
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he'll only let you do that if it's alright for him to sleep with other girls (or boys)too. |
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hppybver
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I think that he is either trying to set you up and see if you would actually agree with such a thing or he wants to have sex with other girls and wants your reaction. Despite what he might say, he is going to be hurt if you sleep with others, so be careful with your answer! |
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