ab1609
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Why are fighting?
What are you fighting about?
The answer to these questions should help you with your decision.
If your fighting is due to the influence of your parents (and believe me, fighting due to opposing parents' is very common) ask yourself if you can stop fighting and start talking and discussing your opinions.
If you fight about money (very common), try to create a budget and define spending priorities.
If you fight about where to live, find a place where only people supporting both of you are welcome.
If you fight about basic ethic values in your relationship ask yourself how long you want to live with someone who doesn't share your values and if both of you can respect the others values and live with them. If not, better break up now than later. |
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csokaybalazs
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If u figth all the time, there must be a reason for that. Although I do not know you two, but I think, I is not the best idea to have a baby if u don't even know whether u are good for eachother or not.
Your parents must also have their reasons.
So what I think is: take your time: it's never too late to get a baby but if it is there, it cannot be undone. |
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nwtobe
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Have you asked your parents why they don't want you together or have you completely rejected their view as "they just don't get it"? Perhaps they can see something from the outside that the two of you have not taken into consideration.
Secondly, why are you fighting and over what? Is it all related to one thing or are you fighting over everything? Could it be the stress of the baby or were you two like this before you created a life together? Are you going to continue this behavior after the baby is born and expose him/her to the stress and anger you're experiencing now? Are you aware that you're already exposing the baby to it because he/she can feel the reactions of your body?
Perhaps it's time to stop thinking about yourself and your boyfriend and put the focus on the child you're about to give birth to. Once you conceive a life, everything else should be secondary to what's good for the baby. |
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answerman288
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if you are the one who asked this a week or so ago i still agree with your parents, IF not then just foorget the loser |
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safety expert
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Well adults fighting is common. But if you both love each other stay together. This is a discition you and your boyfriend need to make not your parents |
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Clickster
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why are you fighting when your having a baby ...... your not protecting your child which means your already becoming a bad parent |
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Tom
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First off, reconsider your thoughts about him. Do you REALLY love him? If you strongly believe that you love him, then try some marriage or family counseling. If that doesn't work out, then I suggest letting him go. He obviously is a jerk and doesn't love you the way you love him. Do what is best for you and your baby. |
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Abbas110
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fIGHTING IS ALSO A FORM OF LOVE... DONT LISTEN YOUR PARENTS,, IF THEY ASK AGAIN FOR THE SEPARATION THEN ,, GIVE THEM THE SAME ADIVCE TO THEM ALSO ( ASK UR MOM TO LEAVE UR FATHER.. HOW SHE IS MANAGING HIM GOD KNOWS) |
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chicken heads
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have the baby it will get better |
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tosexyhot_nightowl_prettyinpink
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thats not at all a healthy situation if there is a child involved and as far as your parents not wanting to see you in a relationship that is very unhealthy for both you and your unborn child I agree with them 100%. there are alot of parents out here that would'nt at all get involved. If it's a very abusive situation I don't blame them at all for wanting you to leave this person. |
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homeschoolmom
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In your position you need to think of the baby, not yourself. Will the constant fighting be a good environment to raise a child in? Why do you fight? Is what you feel for your b/f love, dependency or are you just comfortable and afraid to be on your own? As someone who grew up with constantly fighting parents it is better to have happy single parents than ones that are constantly at each others throats, it's not a good situation for a kid to be in. |
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P.J.
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I have been in relationships before where we were constantly fighting. It never gets better. If you bring a baby into the mix, it's only going to get worse. I actually went back to my ex husband 3 times because I loved him (once after we were divorced)! It's not worth it. You need to look for someone who will treat you the way that you deserve to be treated. There are plenty of men out there just looking for a woman that needs to be treated right. Don't settle for less than you deserve just because you are having a baby. It will be better for both you and the baby if you wait till the right "Daddy" comes along. |
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kryshub
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You should think of yourself and your child. If the two of you fight all the time, babies pick up on the tension. Happy babies live in happy households. I am the mother of four and I wouldn't stay in a place where I was fighting with a boyfriend or spouse all the time, for the sake of my children. It may hurt your heart at first but leaving this type of situation is usually best. |
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