Nita and Michael
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No, why rush? Get married when your both ready not because everyone says you should. I think it's great the relationship you have, rushing may ruin it. You both have to be ready, he'll ask you when he's ready..sorry about your ex, sounds like a real scum bag...God bless |
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tmb
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Don't let ANYONE make that decision for you or push you into it. They wont have to live with ,deal with and love that person.... you will.
I was pressured by my family into my marriage and a year later, it all fell apart.
Don't let anyone tell you how you should chose to live your life, it's yours to live. Not theirs. |
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sheleo72675
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If you love each other and want to get married, I say go for it but do it because you want to not because other people say you do.
Oh and your ex sounds like a nasty piece of work, I hope the karma comes back to him threefold. |
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celery_is_the_enemy
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I have been with my current boyfriend for over 4 years now. I do feel some pressure to hurry up and get married as well because we have been together for so long without getting married.
But, I am comfortable the way we are now. I do want to get married eventually, and it sounds like you want to as well. But don't rush into it. Get married when you are both ready, having other people push you to get married will just ruin everything. If you get married for the wrong reasons it can destroy your whole relationship. You are doing the right thing, get married for all the right reasons, which includes getting married when YOU are ready, not what anybody else says. |
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curnack_the_drow
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NO!!!!!! Do not rush into anything such as a marriage,rushing can make it worse than if you just let life take its course,dont listen to the idiots who say things like that,live your own life on your own terms and tell the other to keep out of it. |
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geronimo178157
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If your questioning it then no.Don't get married when people tell you to get married.When you feel is right then do it plus marriage doesn't mean sh*t if you guys are good together then why rush it's just a paper stating that you guys share the same last name. |
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stormy767
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DONT LET ANYONE DICTACTE TO YOU WHAT YOU SHOULD DO ESPECIALLY SUCH A LIFELONG DECISION. I THINK ITS OKAY TO WAIT AS LONG AS BOTH OF YOU FEEL YOU NEED TO TO GET MARRIED. ARE YOU HAPPY WITH THE WAY THINGS ARE NOW, NOT BEING MARRIED? MAYBE IF MORE PEOPLE SPENT MORE TIME DECIDING TO GET MARRIED OUR DIVORCE RATE IN THIS COUNTRY WOULD GO DOWN. FROM THE SOUND OF IT YOU HAVE A VERY STRONG WILL(BEING A VIRGIN SO LONG PROVES THAT) TAKE YOUR TIME WITH THE MARRIAGE SITUATION JUST AS YOU HAVE WITH YOU SEXUAL CHASTITY. HATS OFF TO YOU AND GOOD LUCK |
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Dominican angel
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You need to get married when eva the hell ya feel like not because they tell you to. Your not a little kid anymore you could make choice. I would say when you feel like or when you have enough money to make the dream wedding unless if you saving up for your dream honey moon. |
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Momof2inCanada
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My husband and I have been together for 15 years, and only been married for 6 1/2. We lived together for 7 years and even owned a home together before we were married. The only reason we got married was because we wanted to have children and it was important to both of us to be married first. I think that waiting until you are sure this is the right person is the best thing. Breaking up is easier than going through a divorce. Today, I would consider my husband to be my soulmate. I don't regret waiting for marriage at all. Do what you feel is right for you! |
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mommyof2
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I believe that if you truly love him as he does you then do what you think is right, i have no idea your sitaution but i was with my husband for 3 years, knew him longer then we married now going on 8 years together! so do what is in your heart and you can listen to other people but they dont know what you feel! hope this helped |
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sarah_luvs_dancing
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It is up to you get married when you are ready to. Maybe you should have a talk about it with your fianc and see what he thinks about it. Good luck |
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honey_81uk
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hi, i have been with my fiance for 4 years and everyone is saying the same thing to us because we have known each other for 14 years.
we will eventually get married but it will be when we are both ready for it and also when we have the money for it. we are not going to let everyone else push us into it just because they want a free night out. and i think you should do the same. my fiance and i know we love each other and always will, and we are happy with the way things are at the moment. if you and your fiance are happy the way you are then why rush into it, if you go to fast and not when your ready then it always goes wrong!
i know this sound stupid but have you tried voicing your opinions to you fiance? it may help! |
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