mammita27
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u know really the only thing that can heal is God. I lost my youngest brother on June 3,2005 very un expectently. He was 25 years old. He was my best friend, no he wasn't married and didn't have any babies. It is to this day very difficult. Some days I do cry so much I get sick. But I know that God is there holding me and catching my tears as they fall. I don't believe that you will ever completely heal though. It gets easier to handle as time goes by. My youngest brother's b-day is coming up next month. I know it's goimg to be very difficult to get through the day. But sweetheart I know if you call on the good Lord He will answer. Also check out some grief counselors in your area. They are there for that specific reason. Oh my heart aches for you. Because i know exactly how u feel. If there is anything i can do please contact me my email is the mammita27 yahoo. I will be praying for you. God bless you. |
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iAmGirl
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So sorry, Hun...that's a HUGE loss. I lost my dad about 8 years ago...and I still cry and dream about him so often. But it definitely does get easier...each year. Good luck... :) |
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Nita and Michael
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I don't ever think you'll ever heal from it, when you love people you never forget them and get them out of your heart, I'm so sorry to hear about your dad and sister..but remember god is with you and is watching over you, just pray to him day and night, he'll comfort you but you'll never really get over the pain of loosing them...god bless |
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rjenkinscarroll
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You healing can take longer depending on your relationship with your dad and sister. Its always hard and there is no telling when a single person can get over the hurt. I segest talking and writing your feelings down and after each weeks analyze them and see if your are improving. Every emotional healing takes time. Just look forward and not in the past. |
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charbarski
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I think you will always feel some sadness when you think about your dad and sister but though faith death is not the end. So keep your head up and try not to dwell on the sadness of losing them but on the happiness and love they brought to your life. |
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Heidi
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I think you never really heal all the way. I think you will always remember them and feel sadness that they are gone, but evenually you will be able to think of them with remembering the happy times. It always get easier with time, but even all the time in the world won't make it completely go away. |
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dazed&confused
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Truthfully I dont think its something you'll ever get over, I can kind of relate. My heart hurts everyday and I cant talk about it with out tearing up maybe its true "Time will heal all" But honestly I think all the counceling and time in the world cant fix a broken heart!!! good luck |
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The_Packer_Backer
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It depends. This is a case of classical conditioning in the psychology world. It's were you associate one thing with another. Eventually the music will not make you emotional anymore. The best way to get rid of it is to just keep listining to the music more and more. If you do this the feelings will deminish quicker, although it will make you sad. Aside form the psychology point of view, they are people who you loved and cared for deeply so they will never truly go away, but it will be easier to accept the situation. Things will get better:) |
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spartangirl87
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You'll never be over it completely. Losing someone you love is like getting a deep cut - time will stop the bleeding but there will always be a scar. I recently lost one of my closest high school friends. She was 18 years old, attending Hiram college (OH) and had everything going for her. You think it isn't fair that someone so good should leave so soon. But for some who are religious, they say that is WHY they left so soon. God called Grace (my friend) home, as he did with your father and sister. |
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Rony
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Everyones' healing comes in different timeframes. You will find it; I promise. I try to remember the good things my (dead) brother used to do. I remember the times he was silly. Or when we did fun things together. Even writing this makes me cry, but not out of pain. I'm crying out of love. |
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n4il_p0lish2000
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time heals all wounds, although it might never totally go away with time it will lessen and it would prolly help if you prayed about it or went to curch. |
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